Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Ice cream dates in the summer never fails. Single scoop with brownies for 2 = $12. Afterwards just walk around the park/the city and chop it up. All that $200-$300 date stuff is cap, unless that's wifey then you don't need to be doing all of that.

that she needed to go home because it was a full moon and she wanted to do some magic/voodoo shyt

Man, dead that immediately. I had a good friend who was messing with this Hatian chick from NoLA that messed with voodoo. She put a hex on him and dude's life was legit torment for 3-4 years. I swear an evil/bad luck spirit was following him.
I’m actually back in Atlanta again this weekend. Place is addicting :damn:

Damn, now you got me thinking about a summer trip down there :russ:

Man i need to touch there for fun

ATL for fun is really that spot. Like joints are just ready to GO! Only other city that people are with it like that is NYC and more specifically, Manhattan.
 

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I don't really post here but always read. Some of you guys really REALLY do too much the first date. I 95% of the time do the same thing and that's

Starbucks.

Drive thru.. And I drive around and just listen to them talk. If it's not that then it is drinks (I don't even drink - I'll have like a red bull)

I don't talk about myself for the most part, I come off "bad boyish" in their eyes for the most part for a variety of reasons. I've taken only one girl out to eat in my life and that was after 6 months from fukking her. She is actually the only one til this day that I take to eat lol. I can't resonate taking another girl to eat if this one waited 6 months (and she's a very very good loyal girl overall). You don't have to be as stringent as me after months but for the sake of God do not take them to eat. These women are insecure. They have fukking fettucini alfredo or chicken parm or whatever they're gonna have doubts about their breath, feel bloated, wanna take a shyt, etc. They wont have that after a coffee or drink.

I wanna add. On MULTIPLE occasions, girls have told me men have taken them to restaurants on a first date and spent $200 on them and before the apps came out they already wanted to leave. It's not the location, it's the company. They never spoke to those guys who got them a wagyu steak but they'll talk to the a$$hole who got them a tall matcha tea latte with oat milk

Listen, some of you guys just might be nice guys and wanna get to know a woman. To each is own. I only care to fukk. Last week in the span of 7 days I seen 5 girls. The regular girl whom I mentioned above and 4 new ones. All of them I took to starbucks. The regular I fukked. Girl #2 I fukked. Let me elaborate on her. Met her on a app late last year. Spoke for a couple days. She stops replying. End up matching with her a week ago again. She goes "look who it is?" I say "hey what's up? heading to bed. night". Next day she messages again to which I inquire why she left me on read those times and I'm not someone whose time should be wasted. She says sorry and she was going through a lot. I leave her on read. She texts within 30 mins "are you mad at me? *sadface emoji*" I say "no. I just expected to be treated with respect" to which she asks for my number immediately.

Within 3 texts we set up to meet that night. Starbucks drive thru of course (she actually comments she's surprised I drink it because it's not something "bad boys" do lmao). She tells me she stops replying because she left town for a month to "find herself" . Anyways, in my whole life I've never been rejected in a kiss. I watch the signals and feel them out. Once it happened a year ago but the girl did it as a joke but kissed me back within like 5-10 seconds. This girl did it twice to me. In my head I go "fukk this bytch if I dont get any action in the next 30 mins I'm outta here". She puts her head on my shoulder, tries to hold my hand (I always brush it away when they do that). I will rub my finger up and down over their leg, hand or something though. Anyways, we end up fukking maybe 45 min later. She acts super innocent like "Omg I never do this" etc etc. Alright shut up bytch. My boy ends up telling me she's a slut and has mutual friends with her. He mentions she was out of town for a month with a guy. I'm like no she was alone and he goes "no she went with this guy. This guy paid for her whole trip, accomodations, food everything and guess what?" I go "what?" He says "he never even fukked" I couldnt believe and said she's probably capping and he tells me she told her best friend he never did. That guy who I know of is a rather soft guy. A "good guy" so to speak. He accomodated her out of town for a month and got nothing and I fukked her within 2 hours and I only got her a grande kiwi refresher with light ice.


The third girl I get head from (seen her last night actually for the second time actually - same drill. fukked her this time). Fourth girl jerked me off and made me bust on her stomach (she really really wanted to fukk but was afraid I was gonna judge) and the fifth one I got head from (she was on her period... I felt she would've fukked but I'm not about that life).

Let me tell you about the 5th one. We spoke months earlier, I swear this year alone she has probably fukked at least 4-5 new guys (she tells me this). She has a multiple relationships with none of them lasting more than 6 weeks. She ended up getting in a celibate relationship with a good religious guy. She literally told me to stop messaging her etc etc. Last week I started messaging her again she was still on the same tip. But after a couple texts I told her to visit me and she said "no. I'm not driving there. You come here that's what a gentleman does". She told me this months ago too and the only reason I never did was because its 2 hours. I said fukk it that day because I had nothing going on.

I see this girl. She comments I'm such an ass and that I never opened my car door for her. Shut up lol. She's in a skirt and I'm rubbing her leg and thigh within 3-5 mins. Starbucks. Kiss her after maybe 45 mins? Her reply immediately "What took you so long to kiss me? hehehe" THE fukk?! bytch you blocked me and said to stop speaking to you. Then she starts grabbing my dikk and sucks the living soul out of it. And then I start choking her and shes begging to suck my dikk. Like those pornstars, like she's fighting me off to suck my cock lmao. We walked down the street in her town and she's hugging up on me tryna hold my hand (brush it off) . She continuosly giggles and calls me a jerk. End of the night drop her to car and says I should be a gentleman and walk her to her car. bytch you're parked beside me. She walks around to my side and gives me a hug.

Earlier this week she tells me that she actually came home from meeting a different guy. She said the guy asked to hang out a couple times. He starts telling her his problems in life and traumatic events. She didn't fukk (I believe her plus she was still on her period. She knows I don't give two fukks if she did). She said he went into kiss her and she brushed him off with a hug :mjlol:. I asked why she did that? She says "he's a good looking attractive guy. I know he wants a relationship and I don't wanna lead him on". To which I say "you dont brush me though?" She replies "yeah. because you're cold and just wanna fukk". We are on facetime and that same guy texts her to say "Had so much fun meeting you. I had a great time. I got home first before you btw!!!" - she doesn't reply and continues facetiming me:hhh:

Later that night she said I should stop messaging her if I respect her because she has guilty and doesnt like doing that to her man because he's a good guy and she needs a man like that to become a better person. She said she feels like shyt after she saw me etc etc
Day after that she says we have to meet but I have "to be a gentleman and see her there". Smh

What I've learned about women in life that immediately come to mind. There are obviously more but these stand out

1. They all like to get choked. Only two haven't. Girl #2 (albeit in the moment she said she did but after she said she didn't. I told her multiple times if she's good and she said yeah. Maybe she's capping) and another girl. That girl's reason makes sense. Her ex hung himself over her years back :francis:

2. Don't lean into kiss them. Bring them into kiss you

3. There's a thin line between being funny and being a clown

4. Be mysterious

5. They don't like nice guys

6. They don't care about your problems

My bad for the long read but hopefully it was worth it. Don't really type long essays here lol
 
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I don't really post here but always read. Some of you guys really REALLY do too much the first date. I 95% of the time do the same thing and that's

Starbucks. Drive thru.. And I drive around and just listen to them talk. If it's not that then it is drinks (I don't even drink - I'll have like a red bull) I don't talk about myself for the most part, I come off "bad boyish" in their eyes for the most part for a variety of reasons. I've taken only one girl out to eat in my life and that was after 6 months from fukking her. She is actually the only one til this day that I take to eat lol. I can't resonate taking another girl to eat if this one waited 6 months (and she's a very very good loyal girl overall). You don't have to be as stringent as me after months but for the sake of God do not take them to eat. These women are insecure. They have fukking fettucini alfredo or chicken parm or whatever they're gonna have doubts about their breath, feel bloated, wanna take a shyt, etc. They wont have that after a coffee or drink.

I wanna add. On MULTIPLE occasions, girls have told me men have taken them to restaurants on a first date and spent $200 on them and before the apps came out they already wanted to leave. It's not the location, it's the company. They never spoke to those guys who got them a wagyu steak but they'll talk to the a$$hole who got them a tall matcha tea latte with oat milk

Listen, some of you guys just might be nice guys and wanna get to know a woman. To each is own. I only care to fukk. Last week in the span of 7 days I seen 5 girls. The regular girl whom I mentioned above and 4 new ones. All of them I took to starbucks. The regular I fukked. Girl #2 I fukked. Let me elaborate on her. Met her on a app late last year. Spoke for a couple days. She stops replying. End up matching with her a week ago again. She goes "look who it is?" I say "hey what's up? heading to bed. night". Next day she messages again to which I inquire why she left me on read those times and I'm not someone whose time should be wasted. She says sorry and she was going through a lot. I leave her on read. She texts within 30 mins "are you mad at me? *sadface emoji*" I say "no. I just expected to be treated with respect" to which she asks for my number immediately.

Within 3 texts we set up to meet that night. Starbucks drive thru of course (she actually comments she's surprised I drink it because it's not something "bad boys" do lmao). She tells me she stops replying because she left town for a month to "find herself" . Anyways, in my whole life I've never been rejected in a kiss. I watch the signals and feel them out. Once it happened a year ago but the girl did it as a joke but kissed me back within like 5-10 seconds. This girl did it twice to me. In my head I go "fukk this bytch if I dont get any action in the next 30 mins I'm outta here". She puts her head on my shoulder, tries to hold my hand (I always brush it away when they do that). I will rub my finger up and down over their leg, hand or something though. Anyways, we end up fukking maybe 45 min later. She acts super innocent like "Omg I never do this" etc etc. Alright shut up bytch. My boy ends up telling me she's a slut and has mutual friends with her. He mentions she was out of town for a month with a guy. I'm like no she was alone and he goes "no she went with this guy. This guy paid for her whole trip, accomodations, food everything and guess what?" I go "what?" He says "he never even fukked" I couldnt believe and said she's probably capping and he tells me she told her best friend he never did. That guy who I know of is a rather soft guy. A "good guy" so to speak. He accomodated her out of town for a month and got nothing and I fukked her within 2 hours and I only got her a grande kiwi refresher with light ice.


The third girl I get head from (seen her last night actually for the second time actually - same drill. fukked her this time). Fourth girl jerked me off and made me bust on her stomach (she really really wanted to fukk but was afraid I was gonna judge) and the fifth one I got head from (she was on her period... I felt she would've fukked but I'm not about that life).

Let me tell you about the 5th one. We spoke months earlier, I swear this year alone she has probably fukked at least 4-5 new guys (she tells me this). She has a multiple relationships with none of them lasting more than 6 weeks. She ended up getting in a celibate relationship with a good religious guy. She literally told me to stop messaging her etc etc. Last week I started messaging her again she was still on the same tip. But after a couple texts I told her to visit me and she said "no. I'm not driving there. You come here that's what a gentleman does". She told me this months ago too and the only reason I never did was because its 2 hours. I said fukk it that day because I had nothing going on.

I see this girl. She comments I'm such an ass and that I never opened my car door for her. Shut up lol. She's in a skirt and I'm rubbing her leg and thigh within 3-5 mins. Starbucks. Kiss her after maybe 45 mins? Her reply immediately "What took you so long to kiss me? hehehe" THE fukk?! bytch you blocked me and said to stop speaking to you. Then she starts grabbing my dikk and sucks the living soul out of it. And then I start choking her and shes begging to suck my dikk. Like those pornstars, like she's fighting me off to suck my cock lmao. We walked down the street in her town and she's hugging up on me tryna hold my hand (brush it off) . She continuosly giggles and calls me a jerk. End of the night drop her to car and says I should be a gentleman and walk her to her car. bytch you're parked beside me. She walks around to my side and gives me a hug.

Earlier this week she tells me that she actually came home from meeting a different guy. She said the guy asked to hang out a couple times. He starts telling her his problems in life and traumatic events. She didn't fukk (I believe her plus she was still on her period. She knows I don't give two fukks if she did). She said he went into kiss her and she brushed him off with a hug :mjlol:. I asked why she did that? She says "he's a good looking attractive guy. I know he wants a relationship and I don't wanna lead him on". To which I say "you dont brush me though?" She replies "yeah. because you're cold and just wanna fukk". We are on facetime and that same guy texts her to say "Had so much fun meeting you. I had a great time. I got home first before you btw!!!" - she doesn't reply and continues facetiming me:hhh:

Later that night she said I should stop messaging her if I respect her because she has guilty and doesnt like doing that to her man because he's a good guy and she needs a man like that to become a better person. She said she feels like shyt after she saw me etc etc
Day after that she says we have to meet but I have "to be a gentleman and see her there". Smh

What I've learned about women in life that immediately come to mind. There are obviously more but these stand out

1. They all like to get choked. Only two haven't. Girl #2 (albeit in the moment she said she did but after she said she didn't. I told her multiple times if she's good and she said yeah. Maybe she's capping) and another girl. That girl's reason makes sense. Her ex hung himself over her years back :francis:

2. Don't lean into kiss them. Bring them into kiss you

3. There's a thin line between being funny and being a clown

4. Be mysterious

5. They don't like nice guys

6. They don't care about your problems

My bad for the long read but hopefully it was worth it. Don't really type long essays here lol
Where do you take these women to if you're not going to a restaurant? Cuz these women stay hungry and shyt
 

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Where do you take these women to if you're not going to a restaurant? Cuz these women stay hungry and shyt

Starbucks. And never inside. Drive thru and I drive around or park up

If she’s hungry she can eat on her own time.

Like I said, I don’t. Except for the one girl who I took in my life I’ll take them for Starbucks. I usually meet up late at night anyways like 9. Usually if it’s dinner it’s gonna be mentioned in the text (In case they have to dress up or whatever). But I don’t take them to eat. You can always make an excuse it’s too late to eat.

nothing wrong with having drinks at a restaurant though
 

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Starbucks. And never inside. Drive thru and I drive around or park up

If she’s hungry she can eat on her own time.

Like I said, I don’t. Except for the one girl who I took in my life I’ll take them for Starbucks. I usually meet up late at night anyways like 9. Usually if it’s dinner it’s gonna be mentioned in the text (In case they have to dress up or whatever). But I don’t take them to eat. You can always make an excuse it’s too late to eat.

nothing wrong with having drinks at a restaurant though
So you take them to starbucks or out to drinks every time you see them?
 

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My GF said she thought i was a "gangster"
:mjpls::mjpls::mjpls::mjpls::mjpls:
when she first saw my pics n thats what partially attracted her(also being tall n tatted)....her ex was some lame dude that played xbox all day
 

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My GF said she thought i was a "gangster"
:mjpls::mjpls::mjpls::mjpls::mjpls:
when she first saw my pics n thats what partially attracted her(also being tall n tatted)....her ex was some lame dude that played xbox all day
Yikes…this not a good look breh:francis:


Bushes?
 

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  • Yall need to watch Sex Life on Netflix. This is about a woman whom had a whorish past finally lucking up on a "High Value man". He has money, career, cars, and gave her children. Never cheated or nothing.
But yet THAT wasnt good enough because she kept on dreaming and fantasizing of her bad boy ex. She willing to fukk up everything she built with her husband just to fukk him again.

To think so many men are dealing with this situation and dont even realize it
On episode 1 right now, her husband finna catch a thousand L's. :russ:
He a square square. :mjlol:
 
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