Friend of mine had a frustrating date last week. This guy is the one whose last ex told him she didn't love him and then she got back with her black ex and is now pregnant.
Anyway his not on any of the apps as he said they don't work for him, but his approach game is near non existent. Despite my pointers.
So he goes to this cafe every Saturday morning and would see this chick sitting outside, usually with her friend, sometimes on her own. Seems they both would check each other out, but he'd never make a move. After a few weeks he finally gets the courage to talk to her and slide her his number. Which for him was a big step.
She texts him and they agree to a date later that evening. They go out for pizza and then afterwards she suggests they go for a few drinks. Bar closes at 11pm and it seems they're both going different ways but she says she'll walk with him to his car as she knows the area better as she lives close, they get to his car make out, talk and then heavily make out again.
They agree to meet again and he goes home for the night. I told him this is where he probably messed up. He should have suggested going to her place or back to his for more drinks or to talk, seems the energy was there. And she seemed like she was looking for a guy to close the deal with her and fukk.
Anyway he waits 2 days then messages her to set something up for the coming week. A couple of hours later she messages him back and tells him she's thought about things and has realised she's in a strange space in life and doesn't think she should be getting into a relationship.
 
He was like, I'm not looking for anything serious this quickly either, why don't we just enjoy each others company and see where things go? But she wasn't having it.
He tends to believe these chicks when they be bullshytting. He told her maybe they could go for drinks as friends, she gives him the I'm busy this week but sure let's do it soon.
 
I asked him is it going to be awkward seeing this chick at the cafe if she curves him?