Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Basically this chick wanted me to come through on a work night, kind of late and dikk her down. And I didn't feel like it and she got all defensive and pissy about it.

Was saying "we only fukk when you want to"

Even though the night previous I hit her up asking when she wanted to do something again and she was like I don't know which basically was a curve in itself. When I put the mirror in her face she was all like she would have said yeah if I would have asked.
:aicmon:
 

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Basically this chick wanted me to come through on a work night, kind of late and dikk her down. And I didn't feel like it and she got all defensive and pissy about it.

Was saying "we only fukk when you want to"

Even though the night previous I hit her up asking when she wanted to do something again and she was like I don't know which basically was a curve in itself. When I put the mirror in her face she was all like she would have said yeah if I would have asked.
:aicmon:
Again dudes gotta be professor x. Chicks don't even wanna think for themselves. :russ:
 

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Basically this chick wanted me to come through on a work night, kind of late and dikk her down. And I didn't feel like it and she got all defensive and pissy about it.

Was saying "we only fukk when you want to"

Even though the night previous I hit her up asking when she wanted to do something again and she was like I don't know which basically was a curve in itself. When I put the mirror in her face she was all like she would have said yeah if I would have asked.
:aicmon:

dont ask her when she wants to do something, give her the time and let her say yes or no
 

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Friend of mine had a frustrating date last week. This guy is the one whose last ex told him she didn't love him and then she got back with her black ex and is now pregnant.

Anyway his not on any of the apps as he said they don't work for him, but his approach game is near non existent. Despite my pointers.

So he goes to this cafe every Saturday morning and would see this chick sitting outside, usually with her friend, sometimes on her own. Seems they both would check each other out, but he'd never make a move. After a few weeks he finally gets the courage to talk to her and slide her his number. Which for him was a big step.

She texts him and they agree to a date later that evening. They go out for pizza and then afterwards she suggests they go for a few drinks. Bar closes at 11pm and it seems they're both going different ways but she says she'll walk with him to his car as she knows the area better as she lives close, they get to his car make out, talk and then heavily make out again.

They agree to meet again and he goes home for the night. I told him this is where he probably messed up. He should have suggested going to her place or back to his for more drinks or to talk, seems the energy was there. And she seemed like she was looking for a guy to close the deal with her and fukk.

Anyway he waits 2 days then messages her to set something up for the coming week. A couple of hours later she messages him back and tells him she's thought about things and has realised she's in a strange space in life and doesn't think she should be getting into a relationship.

:comeon:

He was like, I'm not looking for anything serious this quickly either, why don't we just enjoy each others company and see where things go? But she wasn't having it.

He tends to believe these chicks when they be bullshytting. He told her maybe they could go for drinks as friends, she gives him the I'm busy this week but sure let's do it soon.

:francis:

I asked him is it going to be awkward seeing this chick at the cafe if she curves him?

Yeah these stories are the reason I laugh when men meet a chick they really like and decide to "Take it slow"

Female nature is female nature and they can switch up at anytime. Regardless of how you feel about her
I'd rather move too fast and mess it up than too slow and nothing happen between us :manny:
 
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Friend of mine had a frustrating date last week. This guy is the one whose last ex told him she didn't love him and then she got back with her black ex and is now pregnant.

Anyway his not on any of the apps as he said they don't work for him, but his approach game is near non existent. Despite my pointers.

So he goes to this cafe every Saturday morning and would see this chick sitting outside, usually with her friend, sometimes on her own. Seems they both would check each other out, but he'd never make a move. After a few weeks he finally gets the courage to talk to her and slide her his number. Which for him was a big step.

She texts him and they agree to a date later that evening. They go out for pizza and then afterwards she suggests they go for a few drinks. Bar closes at 11pm and it seems they're both going different ways but she says she'll walk with him to his car as she knows the area better as she lives close, they get to his car make out, talk and then heavily make out again.

They agree to meet again and he goes home for the night. I told him this is where he probably messed up. He should have suggested going to her place or back to his for more drinks or to talk, seems the energy was there. And she seemed like she was looking for a guy to close the deal with her and fukk.


Anyway he waits 2 days then messages her to set something up for the coming week. A couple of hours later she messages him back and tells him she's thought about things and has realised she's in a strange space in life and doesn't think she should be getting into a relationship.

:comeon:

He was like, I'm not looking for anything serious this quickly either, why don't we just enjoy each others company and see where things go? But she wasn't having it.

He tends to believe these chicks when they be bullshytting. He told her maybe they could go for drinks as friends, she gives him the I'm busy this week but sure let's do it soon.

:francis:

I asked him is it going to be awkward seeing this chick at the cafe if she curves him?

LOL classic example of the guy not wanting to come across a creep because he's still so unsure of himself. Most men would have picked up on that sign as generally women aren't just gonna say "hey let's go to my/your place."

It could have still been a lose-lose situation either way, but you miss 100% of all the shots you don't take.
 
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Fellas, I know everything is done by texting but you separate yourself from the pack when you actually call/FT with a girl your interested in.



First, lets define cold approaching (because there seems to be some misalignment).

I define it as approaching a girl I don’t know, in a “cold setting” (e.g. supermarket, theater etc not a party where you we both know people) chatting for a bit and getting her number/linking up later.

I don’t approach on a regular since I usually work through my social network but when the opportunity has struck I’ve cold approached as well.

Cold approached 2 ladies earlier this year. One wasn’t interested, the other was married (didn’t see her ring).



If it’s work, just don’t do it. Not good to shyt where you eat.

But in general
  • When a chick is always in your vicinity/line of vision
  • Always tries to touch you, especially in a playful manner.
  • Her body orientation is leaning towards you when you guys are talking.
  • She plays with her hair around you.
  • Smiles a lot when talking to you. Always tries to start up a convo around you.
  • Is generally agreeable with you.
  • Laughs at anything you say.
Of course every girl is different but these are general observations.
Friend of mine had a frustrating date last week. This guy is the one whose last ex told him she didn't love him and then she got back with her black ex and is now pregnant.

Anyway his not on any of the apps as he said they don't work for him, but his approach game is near non existent. Despite my pointers.

So he goes to this cafe every Saturday morning and would see this chick sitting outside, usually with her friend, sometimes on her own. Seems they both would check each other out, but he'd never make a move. After a few weeks he finally gets the courage to talk to her and slide her his number. Which for him was a big step.

She texts him and they agree to a date later that evening. They go out for pizza and then afterwards she suggests they go for a few drinks. Bar closes at 11pm and it seems they're both going different ways but she says she'll walk with him to his car as she knows the area better as she lives close, they get to his car make out, talk and then heavily make out again.

They agree to meet again and he goes home for the night. I told him this is where he probably messed up. He should have suggested going to her place or back to his for more drinks or to talk, seems the energy was there. And she seemed like she was looking for a guy to close the deal with her and fukk.

Anyway he waits 2 days then messages her to set something up for the coming week. A couple of hours later she messages him back and tells him she's thought about things and has realised she's in a strange space in life and doesn't think she should be getting into a relationship.

:comeon:

He was like, I'm not looking for anything serious this quickly either, why don't we just enjoy each others company and see where things go? But she wasn't having it.

He tends to believe these chicks when they be bullshytting. He told her maybe they could go for drinks as friends, she gives him the I'm busy this week but sure let's do it soon.

:francis:

I asked him is it going to be awkward seeing this chick at the cafe if she curves him?
shorty probably getting her back blown out by a diff dude now

they move quick

i call it the whacaMole theory
 

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I quit tinder and bumble. My job is full of brehettes and I have gotten snapchats. Honestly my brehs tinder made me rely so much on looks and very high interested women. Not that my game was ever tight to begin with. Damn it’s showin that it has worsen. I need help brehs. Damn bein a decent looking breh who is a shy introvert who can be awkward is :francis:. Please help me nikkas. I will rep. I’m not a good flirt.
Where you work at again breh?
 

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That’s why I asked if that shyt even work anymore. I’m 21 but I remember 2013-ish I used to hit the mall and the hs nikkas-college nikkas would be getting at girls the whole time, I go a few times recently to do so and I’m like the only nikka shooting his shot:huhldup:. I assumed cuz it’s talked about so often on here that it was still prevalent but I don’t think so, not even when my community college was in person were guys actually getting at girls:patrice:must be a thing of the past
Cold approach is a rare thing especially with social media. I can only remember a few times dudes would holla at a chick in person.

People say do it because a lot of people don’t. Just gotta have ya game tight.
 

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:gucci:Brehs, this chick I used to mess with seriously (she broke it off and moved to Memphis) texted me out the blue last night asking if she could crash at my place cause she was going to be in the city for an interview and needed a place to stay. I was flabbergasted lol.

i wouldn't even respond
 
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