Chick I know, who I've mentioned in this thread before. She's 36 and every one of her relationships has lasted less than a year, she's seen this new guy 5 times. All outside dates, very public, usually to parks. She said she's gently rebuffed any attempt he makes to try to touch or kiss her. He took her on an evening beach date to a quiet spot and thought he could make moves. She shut him down again.
Even other chicks at the drinks were telling her to 'stop playing with the man' she says she's 'traditional' I told her making a man artificially wait for a small crumb of physical interaction is guaranteed to get him either bushing or hitting and running out of malice. I told her I would have stopped contacting her already for the obvious games.
I think she's just keeping him in play, as whilst he fits three of her specific dating preferences his white, german and into meditation. His probably not that good looking enough for her to parade around, she refuses to show any pictures of him which tells it's own tale.
I could already see how she moves funny when she told me that her last BF who dumped her back in Jan 2020, would never find a woman as good as her. This was man who was in a 7yr mostly asexual relationship before he met her.
I could only
As what does that say about her? A man spent years with a chick who wasn't even giving him sex for the last 4 yrs of their relationship and he still dumped your ass.