Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's always funny when you get to the point with women where they tell you their baggage, lol

Sharon Stone(She's 33, I'm 27) stayed the night, and while she was here she told me she's been twice divorced, among other things :skip:

Have the African girl(25) coming over tonight, and she'll also stay the night.
 

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It's always funny when you get to the point with women where they tell you their baggage, lol

Sharon Stone(She's 33, I'm 27) stayed the night, and while she was here she told me she's been twice divorced, among other things :skip:

Have the African girl(25) coming over tonight, and she'll also stay the night.

yeah just listen and take mental notes of the things you need to maneuver around/through, just hit em with the :ohhh: face like what they are saying isn't a red flag and how strong they are for dealing with this stuff
 

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yeah just listen and take mental notes of the things you need to maneuver around/through, just hit em with the :ohhh: face like what they are saying isn't a red flag and how strong they are for dealing with this stuff
Basically say and do just enough to keep smashing.
 

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How many dates would you guys wait before you attempted to touch or kiss a woman?

Chick I know, who I've mentioned in this thread before. She's 36 and every one of her relationships has lasted less than a year, she's seen this new guy 5 times. All outside dates, very public, usually to parks. She said she's gently rebuffed any attempt he makes to try to touch or kiss her. He took her on an evening beach date to a quiet spot and thought he could make moves. She shut him down again.

:francis:

Even other chicks at the drinks were telling her to 'stop playing with the man' she says she's 'traditional' I told her making a man artificially wait for a small crumb of physical interaction is guaranteed to get him either bushing or hitting and running out of malice. I told her I would have stopped contacting her already for the obvious games.

I think she's just keeping him in play, as whilst he fits three of her specific dating preferences his white, german and into meditation. His probably not that good looking enough for her to parade around, she refuses to show any pictures of him which tells it's own tale.

I could already see how she moves funny when she told me that her last BF who dumped her back in Jan 2020, would never find a woman as good as her. This was man who was in a 7yr mostly asexual relationship before he met her.

I could only

:sas2:

As what does that say about her? A man spent years with a chick who wasn't even giving him sex for the last 4 yrs of their relationship and he still dumped your ass.
 

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How many dates would you guys wait before you attempted to touch or kiss a woman?

Chick I know, who I've mentioned in this thread before. She's 36 and every one of her relationships has lasted less than a year, she's seen this new guy 5 times. All outside dates, very public, usually to parks. She said she's gently rebuffed any attempt he makes to try to touch or kiss her. He took her on an evening beach date to a quiet spot and thought he could make moves. She shut him down again.

:francis:

Even other chicks at the drinks were telling her to 'stop playing with the man' she says she's 'traditional' I told her making a man artificially wait for a small crumb of physical interaction is guaranteed to get him either bushing or hitting and running out of malice. I told her I would have stopped contacting her already for the obvious games.

I think she's just keeping him in play, as whilst he fits three of her specific dating preferences his white, german and into meditation. His probably not that good looking enough for her to parade around, she refuses to show any pictures of him which tells it's own tale.

I could already see how she moves funny when she told me that her last BF who dumped her back in Jan 2020, would never find a woman as good as her. This was man who was in a 7yr mostly asexual relationship before he met her.

I could only

:sas2:

As what does that say about her? A man spent years with a chick who wasn't even giving him sex for the last 4 yrs of their relationship and he still dumped your ass.
2 dates max
 

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MAX. Should be first date for the majority.

Edit: @VertigoKnight your friend playing those games is insane.

Breh I keep telling her,shyt is not cute.

And at 36 with no long term relationship under her belt and the fact she doesn't want to even consider children and yet wants a rich man to look after her.

Which well off man is wifing anyone and not wanting to leave legacy in the form of kids.

She's delusional. Too much astrology and stones.
 

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You’d be surprised how women flake on other women. I listen to women and legit half of these chicks you see in these big brunch groups hate each other. One girl planned a whole trip with a friend only for her to text the morning of their flight to say she can’t go.

:mjlol:
 

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How do you get over everything reminding you of a chick you were involved with. Music, tv shows, places you been, etc. You try to get over them but memories keep popping up. Stuff triggering you.
 

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How many of y’all genuinely cold approach regularly?

Im talking about you see a woman you like and you immediately go holla no holds barred

I’ve rarely ever met dudes that do this on the reg
 

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How do you get over everything reminding you of a chick you were involved with. Music, tv shows, places you been, etc. You try to get over them but memories keep popping up. Stuff triggering you.

They say time heals but it's different for everybody I feel. What was the breakup like? What is a difficult relationship?

Personally, when I go through an amicable breakup from a healthy relationship the reminders of her are kind of nice to experience. It's the toxic relationships where shyt like that sticks with me and negatively affects me. It's those relationships that take the most time to heal from.
 

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How many of y’all genuinely cold approach regularly?

Im talking about you see a woman you like and you immediately go holla no holds barred

I’ve rarely ever met dudes that do this on the reg
That’s why I asked if that shyt even work anymore. I’m 21 but I remember 2013-ish I used to hit the mall and the hs nikkas-college nikkas would be getting at girls the whole time, I go a few times recently to do so and I’m like the only nikka shooting his shot:huhldup:. I assumed cuz it’s talked about so often on here that it was still prevalent but I don’t think so, not even when my community college was in person were guys actually getting at girls:patrice:must be a thing of the past
 

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That’s why I asked if that shyt even work anymore. I’m 21 but I remember 2013-ish I used to hit the mall and the hs nikkas-college nikkas would be getting at girls the whole time, I go a few times recently to do so and I’m like the only nikka shooting his shot:huhldup:. I assumed cuz it’s talked about so often on here that it was still prevalent but I don’t think so, not even when my community college was in person were guys actually getting at girls:patrice:must be a thing of the past
I used to do it regularly but I was legit pushing against low self esteem never got my mindset in check but I used to approach a few times a week at least back in 2018

Never got much success bc my mindset was so horrible back then
 

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i need some brehs wit veteran expirence on this topic. what are LEGIT choosing signals cuz i just dont fukkin get it:mjcry:. expecially at the workplace. im offically #uglygang so that obviously complicates thangs, i aint tryna get tricked/metoo'd:wow:
 
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