Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[My neck and my back]

y'all mentioned these "mental issues" that women have, lemme tell you what it is...

it's this false sense of importance that's being fed to them by desperate men...they take the recognition giving to them by men who are yearning for their acceptance as a belief of how they should be treated...now, just because they believe they should be treated as such doesn't mean you have to treat them that way...you treat them according to how YOU value them...you read HLS post about the woman asking him why he puts up with her...the intent behind that question was to find out if he was desperate for her acceptance...good thing he handled it the right way because she might have categorized him as a simp...when she asked him that he should've asked her "why ain't you behaving ya muthafukkin self so i wouldn't have nothing to put up with?"

 

[AffordableSuplexReviews]

kev you my nigguh bruh.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Shorty pushed the last button for me. This was my first time really TRYING with a woman...So much fukkery, so much extra. Women like this make brothers want to be apart of the get married brehs movement.

Long story short (trust me, I'm not charging ALL women to the game) but shorty asked me why do I still talk to her in spite of her fukkery (strike one and two; you askin me why I deal when you SHOULD be more concerned with tightening yo shyt up AND you're acknowledging you be on that bullshyt). I say because I see a lot in you and I ain't done dealin' (previous posts prove I keep em on tuck but whatever). I follow up by sayin' when I feel like you ain't shyt...I'll shake. Her reply "Well, I ain't shyt." I took it as a foul and it's still two strikes cause you emotional. I forewarn her. "Just to be clear, especially after what I said, your reply is you ain't shyt, am I correct?" Her reply: "I ain't shyt "

Strike infinity. You'll never get a hit, hoe. Peace out. Blocked her out my phone (I've never had to do this to a woman cause they've always respected my wishes). Then the broad starts callin and textin from her son's phone (yeah, I know brehs )

Blocked that lil nikka too...

#ColdSummer BE right or GET left..

fukk a "cheaper to keep her"

It's "proper to drop her"

Get married brehs

The struggle is real brehs

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Im of the mind that most women secretly want to be put in their place. (seeing if theyre acting out of character and being a bytch.) even the most rowdy and loudest of women like to be checked by a strong man. if the lion is regulating and ready for her shyt, then she will bow down. it doesnt matter what bullshyt she is talking, but if she says or does something that makes you do the then you need to press her immediately and

then let her know youre not about to deal with that from her.

not only does this let her know whos in charge, its important to place very clear boundries in all of your interactions. if people can feel like they can get away with whatever because youll let them, then its halfway your fault for letting them think that youre a mark.

But they don't hear you breh. Checking a woman is a sure fire way to get them panty draws wet. If you're afraid to man up, your girl might belong to the game

 

[kevm3]

It's nice and there are a few other women interested but I may just hang with the older woman because all the others want a long term relationship and I'm not really feeling that right now. She won't tell me how old she is but she looks really good for someone in her I'm guessing mid to late 40s

Spoiler

She's pretty nice man, especially for her age... she just looks like one of those older women that try to act young... like you'd see her in the club with a short skirt on, trying to back it on up lol.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

its not even a matter of secretly. a lot of women will tell you they want a man who can put them in their place. some of these women know how much of a bytch they can be.

i remember this one chick i use to date. we were going out to eat on valentines date. she found a parking spot before i did and she asked me to park in the spot. i couldn't turn in time so i passed the spot. she blew up and started screaming at the top of her lungs. cant even remember wtf it was she was saying. all i remember was i lost my temper. i raised my voice even higher. got out the car, raised it even higher so everyone can hear. then i slammed the door and went in the restaurant to put my name on the waiting list. she wouldn't get out the car cause now she's embarrassed lol.

when i got back in the car. i'm still heated. so i give her another earful. raising my voice high as fucck. she got fed up, turned towards me and said "will u just shut the fucck up already". at this point, i lost it. grabbed her face, looked her in dead in the eyes and said "you shut the fucck up". she immediately starts crying.

the moral of the story is. that night when we fuccked she "came" so much she started crying...something that never happened prior to that point. said some sh1t about how when i had screamed at her earlier she saw the "devil" in my eyes lol. which kinda explained how quickly she got reduced to tears the instant i grabbed her face

a lot of cats are too scared to raise their voice on chicks they dig. back then, i had a bad temper. i still do. but now i'm more laid back. back then, if u look at me the wrong way along i'd choke u lol

That's a little too emotional for my tastes breh

I don't raise my voices to broads. I just look at em like and they get the hint. I make it clear from jump that murder is an option for me and I have family on 3 different continents. They'll put 2 and 2 together real quick.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

now gon head and give me another one of those 's to show me that you're in the right mind frame dealing with women

 

[sixsixtwo]

 

[Oye]

She's pretty nice man, especially for her age... she just looks like one of those older women that try to act young... like you'd see her in the club with a short skirt on, trying to back it on up lol.

From what I've seen that's a good description of her. She knows I'm not looking for anything serious and doesn't care.

 

[CrossBones]

Women have always had their 'nature' to deal with, but at least in the past, you at least were going to get SOMETHING to put up with their 'quirks.' You had to deal with that emotional stuff, but at one point they were taught to respect a man as the head of the household, and they could cook extremely well, kept the house clean, had a meal read for you when you came home, could sew, would iron your clothes... basically someone that really enhanced your life. They didn't have multiple tattoos everywhere, hair all the colors of the rainbow, 3 or 4 kids by different babydaddies, etc.

you know whats really fukked up about this part? is when a woman replies back with the "sounds like you need a mother" crap


but its more like, no bytch, it sounds like you have no skills or business being a mother. and if thats the case, then how are you in any position to judge what a man should or should not do for you? why should you be taken serious as my woman if you dont even do things that women are known, loved, and respected for doing?

how is someone going to take you serious when youre bringing nothing noteworthy, or important to the family and relationship dynamic? where is your duty and where does your responsibility lie? why is it okay for you to shrug your womanly duties, yet its also perfectly okay for you to tell a man to "man up" and do such and such when it fits her needs.

 

[kevm3]

you know whats really fukked up about this part? is when a woman replies back with the "sounds like you need a mother" crap


but its more like, no bytch, it sounds like you have no skills or business being a mother. and if thats the case, then how are you in any position to judge what a man should or should not do for you? why should you be taken serious as my woman if you dont even do things that women are known, loved, and respected for doing?

how is someone going to take you serious when youre bringing nothing noteworthy, or important to the family and relationship dynamic? where is your duty and where does your responsibility lie? why is it okay for you to shrug your womanly duties, yet its also perfectly okay for you to tell a man to "man up" and do such and such when it fits her needs.

That's why I don't take most of these feminists seriously and how I know women aren't about 'equality', but rather they are into securing the best deal possible for themselves. A lot of these 'it's all about equality' and 'smash the gender role' feminists are the same ones that talk about MAN UP. I thought you wanted to smash the gender roles? But yet they want a man to 'man up.' If you flipped the script and told a woman to 'woman up', they'll scream about sexism and how you are trying to oppress them and how misogynist you are.

What trips me out is the audacity some of these women have and how they exempt themselves from criticism. We hear over and over how black men are losers and how they are insufficient fathers and how we need to 'step it up', and some women even think they can step in and teach a man how to be a father or teach a boy how to be a man. The arrogance there is just unbelievable. Now a woman can physically raise a man, but if there is no man in the household, there will always be lessons missing that a dad will be able to teach a son, just as a mother has a perspective to teach the daughter that dad doesn't have... but some of these women are literally so arrogant to think that they 'don't need a man' and just come up with all this attitude and I don't have to do this or that nonsense. They act in a fashion to drive away men and do little to nothing to keep a man and then complain about the fathers disappearing. Let's couple that with them choosing 'loser men' in the first place. That guy in prison in baltimore... I believe he got four c/os pregnant and slept with 11. Now those 4 kids are not going to have a father around and we're going to hear some crying about black men don't raise their kids and how worthless they are... but we're going to ignore the fact that the women chose these men in the first place.

Man best thing to do is just completely steer clear of women with this feminist, I don't need a man attitude. Last thing you want to do is give one of those women your child. Problem is a lot of guys are still paying these types of women attention, so they feel empowered to carry on that nonsensical attitude. It's much better to only save your time and attention for women who actually embrace their femininity and don't try to become pseudo men. The real misogynists are these neo-feminists who hate being a woman so much that they attempt to poorly emulate a man. They want so badly to do what a man does except take on the responsibility and repercussions that come along with being a man.

 

[kevm3]

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[Days of Future Piff]

That's why I don't take most of these feminists seriously and how I know women aren't about 'equality', but rather they are into securing the best deal possible for themselves. A lot of these 'it's all about equality' and 'smash the gender role' feminists are the same ones that talk about MAN UP. I thought you wanted to smash the gender roles? But yet they want a man to 'man up.' If you flipped the script and told a woman to 'woman up', they'll scream about sexism and how you are trying to oppress them and how misogynist you are.

What trips me out is the audacity some of these women have and how they exempt themselves from criticism. We hear over and over how black men are losers and how they are insufficient fathers and how we need to 'step it up', and some women even think they can step in and teach a man how to be a father or teach a boy how to be a man. The arrogance there is just unbelievable. Now a woman can physically raise a man, but if there is no man in the household, there will always be lessons missing that a dad will be able to teach a son, just as a mother has a perspective to teach the daughter that dad doesn't have... but some of these women are literally so arrogant to think that they 'don't need a man' and just come up with all this attitude and I don't have to do this or that nonsense. They act in a fashion to drive away men and do little to nothing to keep a man and then complain about the fathers disappearing. Let's couple that with them choosing 'loser men' in the first place. That guy in prison in baltimore... I believe he got four c/os pregnant and slept with 11. Now those 4 kids are not going to have a father around and we're going to hear some crying about black men don't raise their kids and how worthless they are... but we're going to ignore the fact that the women chose these men in the first place.

Man best thing to do is just completely steer clear of women with this feminist, I don't need a man attitude. Last thing you want to do is give one of those women your child. Problem is a lot of guys are still paying these types of women attention, so they feel empowered to carry on that nonsensical attitude. It's much better to only save your time and attention for women who actually embrace their femininity and don't try to become pseudo men. The real misogynists are these neo-feminists who hate being a woman so much that they attempt to poorly emulate a man. They want so badly to do what a man does except take on the responsibility and repercussions that come along with being a man.

Real talk though! The women are the choosers-- generally speaking, guys are the ones approach *them*, so they're the ones who get to go home with all the phone numbers to decide who they want to roll with. Yet and still a lot of women continue to blame all of their messed up choices on us.

I don't understand females who refuse to bring the qualities of a wife/mother/long-term partner to the table and still wonder why men treat them like jumpoffs. (Cooking, cleaning, respecting the man as the head of the household, having meals ready, and all of the other things that women are traditionally loved and respected for doing, and so on.)

Yet and still they're so on what we should be doing for them? So gung-ho on how we should be down to embrace our traditional gender roles, when they won't touch theirs? If equality is something a person is genuinely passionate about, then that's something one should be willing to hold *themselves* to as well. And on top of that, going by this logic, if we're all so equal, then how does being a female qualify someone for all sorts of extra special treatment that nobody else is getting?

These feminists out here want the benefits of chivalry, the perks of equality, and the accountability of neither.

Talking about "I don't need a man"

...but she needs a man to blame when things don't go her way


This is what I really appreciate about your previous comments on just striving to improve your life.

attracts

attracts

EDIT: I don't advocate the PUA method/lifestyle, I'm just saying that I can see why cats do it.

 

[kevm3]

Real talk though! The women are the choosers-- generally speaking, guys are the ones approach *them*, so they're the ones who get to go home with all the phone numbers to decide who they want to roll with. Yet and still a lot of women continue to all of their messed up choices on us.

I don't understand females who refuse to bring the qualities of a wife/mother/long-term partner to the table and still wonder why men treat them like jumpoffs. (Cooking, cleaning, respecting the man as the head of the household, having meals ready, and all of the other things that women are traditionally loved and respected for doing, and so on.)

Yet and still they're so on what we should be doing for them? So gung-ho on how we should be down to embrace our traditional gender roles, when they won't touch theirs? If equality is something a person is genuinely passionate about, then that's something one should be willing to hold *themselves* to as well. And on top of that, going by this logic, if we're all so equal, then how does being a female qualify someone for all sorts of extra special treatment that nobody else is getting?

These feminists out here want the benefits of chivalry, the perks of equality, and the accountability of neither.

Talking about "I don't need a man"

...but she needs a man to blame when things don't go her way


This is what I really appreciate about your previous comments on just striving to improve your life.

attracts

attracts

What trips me out is it's perfectly ok to slam dunk men in the media and blame them for everything, especially black men and call them all kinds of losers and dogs and insinuate they are homosexuals and criminals and nobody raises a peep. But you go out and call a woman out for her behavior and hold her accountable and all of a sudden she is going to try and call you a misogynist, backed by her male lapdogs hoping they agree their way into some sex.

A lot of these women want to live in fantasy-world and buy into that feminist dream that they can 'have it all.' Their heads have gotten so big from the non-stop praise they've received ever since they left the womb to their current age that many of these women don't exist in reality. Couple that with completely dismissing any real forms of criticism and you have women who live hard and fast in super mario world until they lose that sole force that attracts men to them-- their looks. Once they hit 30 and their looks start to fade, they've been knocked down by countless men and they have that personality that completely repels men, they sit and wonder 'where all the decent guys went' and 'why they can't hold on to a man'. A lot of these women will have ended up pregnant along the way by guys who they never married. Let me drop the real deal... if the only thing a woman has to offer a man is her looks, more often than not, he will NOT stick around. He will hit it and quit it. Men don't really care about your degrees, your job and your accomplishments NEARLY to the extent that you will get down as a woman should.

Have you ever heard of a special on television talking about, "She has a personality of gold, she's sweet, she cooks for her man, she cleans for her man, she holds her man down. Why can't these women find men?" Naw, it's always those 'career women' who, the first thing that comes out of their mouth, is some new-age feminist rhetoric. A woman that EMBRACES her femininity is highly prized and a man will wife that up real quick. A woman that cooks, cleans, doesn't have tattoos, doesn't talk and curse like a sailor, a woman that isn't afraid to wear a dress, a woman that isn't afraid to let her man lead... you rarely see these women on the market because smart men threw the ring on their finger. Neo-feminism is pretty much the antithesis of the characteristics that will get a woman wifed and I will say it has been VERY effective at ruining marriage in America. If these women want to get married and stay married and STAY having a father for their kids, they need to stop listening to Oprah and Steve Harvey and instead listen to their grandmama who wasn't raised on this new breed garbage.

It's no mystery that the out of wedlock births shot up with the rise of feminism and with these welfare policies that reward women for not having the man in the home... Yet we won't ever hear about that from these big-wigs peddling solutions. Hmm fatherlessness.. It couldn't be all the women having births out of wedlock, especially by men who embody all the characteristics that are the complete opposite of a committed husband, could it? It couldn't be the divorce court which rewards women for divorcing their husband, causing them to file divorce at a noticeably higher rate than men, could it? It can't be that women nowadays aren't reared with any sort of homemaking skills to actually want a man to stick around could it? Instead, we'll hear some nonsense about how black men are thugs, criminals, players and homosexuals... in other words, we're going to skirt around the root of the problem as well as having another opportunity to dump on black men. Two birds with one stone...

 

[360dagod]

What trips me out is it's perfectly ok to slam dunk men in the media and blame them for everything, especially black men and call them all kinds of losers and dogs and insinuate they are homosexuals and criminals and nobody raises a peep. But you go out and call a woman out for her behavior and hold her accountable and all of a sudden she is going to try and call you a misogynist, backed by her male lapdogs hoping they agree their way into some sex.

A lot of these women want to live in fantasy-world and buy into that feminist dream that they can 'have it all.' Their heads have gotten so big from the non-stop praise they've received ever since they left the womb to their current age that many of these women don't exist in reality. Couple that with completely dismissing any real forms of criticism and you have women who live hard and fast in super mario world until they lose that sole force that attracts men to them-- their looks. Once they hit 30 and their looks start to fade, they've been knocked down by countless men and they have that personality that completely repels men, they sit and wonder 'where all the decent guys went' and 'why they can't hold on to a man'. A lot of these women will have ended up pregnant along the way by guys who they never married. Let me drop the real deal... if the only thing a woman has to offer a man is her looks, more often than not, he will NOT stick around. He will hit it and quit it. Men don't really care about your degrees, your job and your accomplishments NEARLY to the extent that you will get down as a woman should.

Have you ever heard of a special on television talking about, "She has a personality of gold, she's sweet, she cooks for her man, she cleans for her man, she holds her man down. Why can't these women find men?" Naw, it's always those 'career women' who, the first thing that comes out of their mouth, is some new-age feminist rhetoric. A woman that EMBRACES her femininity is highly prized and a man will wife that up real quick. A woman that cooks, cleans, doesn't have tattoos, doesn't talk and curse like a sailor, a woman that isn't afraid to wear a dress, a woman that isn't afraid to let her man lead... you rarely see these women on the market because smart men threw the ring on their finger. Neo-feminism is pretty much the antithesis of the characteristics that will get a woman wifed and I will say it has been VERY effective at ruining marriage in America. If these women want to get married and stay married and STAY having a father for their kids, they need to stop listening to Oprah and Steve Harvey and instead listen to their grandmama who wasn't raised on this new breed garbage.

It's no mystery that the out of wedlock births shot up with the rise of feminism and with these welfare policies that reward women for not having the man in the home... Yet we won't ever hear about that from these big-wigs peddling solutions. Hmm fatherlessness.. It couldn't be all the women having birth out of wedlock, especially by men who embody all the characteristics that are the complete opposite of a committed husband, could it? It couldn't be the divorce court which rewards women for divorcing their husband, causing them to file divorce at a noticeably higher rate than men, could it? It can't be that women nowadays aren't reared with any sort of homemaking skills to actually want a man to stick around could it? Instead, we'll hear some nonsense about how black men are thugs, criminals, players and homosexuals... in other words, we're going to skirt around the root of the problem as well as having another opportunity to dump on black men. Two birds with one stone...

Your going to be put on 23 hour lockdown until u finish that book....