Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This is random but I'm realizing after dating thick women all my life that

Petite women >>>> thick women

Give me a nice skinny joint I can toss around. I'm a small man and I'm realizing I like women that are smaller than me

Welcome to the club.

Petite chicks with big natural t*ts/ass is unrivalled :blessed:
 

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Brehs how I get my confidence up enough to fw baddies my age? I’m 21 and only fuxked 1 girl my age this year off an app tho, the rest weren’t even in the same decade as me:russ:it’s easy for me to get at older women on the streets, but I see so much shyt on IG, Twitter and even tinder of baddies my age complaining about nikkas that just wanna smash so i kinda psyche myself out. I’m 21 this was supposed to be my year, don’t wanna be tongue tied when I get to university and I’m surrounded by legit baddies:mjcry:
 

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Brehs how I get my confidence up enough to fw baddies my age? I’m 21 and only fuxked 1 girl my age this year off an app tho, the rest weren’t even in the same decade as me:russ:it’s easy for me to get at older women on the streets, but I see so much shyt on IG, Twitter and even tinder of baddies my age complaining about nikkas that just wanna smash so i kinda psyche myself out. I’m 21 this was supposed to be my year, don’t wanna be tongue tied when I get to university and I’m surrounded by legit baddies:mjcry:
98% of women your age online are sugar babies. I assume you didnt go to college so you probably dont have the social circle to pick from. Stick cold approaching while doing hobbies. Your social media is more than likely trash since your 21 and from the sounds of it arent a high earner so you wont be able to show any proof to catch the attention of “baddies” whos DMs get flooded everyday.
 

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This is random but I'm realizing after dating thick women all my life that

Petite women >>>> thick women

Give me a nice skinny joint I can toss around. I'm a small man and I'm realizing I like women that are smaller than me

Yeah my tastes have definitely changed the last few years. I like slim, slender or gym thick women these days.

Also the older you get a lot of thick women get sloppy unless their keep fit routine is A1 and they eating right.

I certainly don't want to be walking round with a heffalump when you looking in shape and she's not.
 

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This is random but I'm realizing after dating thick women all my life that

Petite women >>>> thick women

Give me a nice skinny joint I can toss around. I'm a small man and I'm realizing I like women that are smaller than me
Most of these thick women, I love em, but once the waist control comes off it can get a lil sloppy :francis:

And god forbid you get them pregnant:usure:, they'll never recover as most women are trash at losing weight, so I'm on the same wavelength breh :myman:
 

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Been going out since being vaccinated, NYC is back to say the lease, girls dancing and looking good but couple things I noticed:


Joint's leading with instagram, I ask for the number and they hit me with the instagram because" they just don't give out their number"
Now I know that's a curve but the thing that's pissing me off is the last 3 women came up to me first then after more conversation they hit me with the gram :martin:


And my gram is weak, I don't post pictures or have a lot of engagement because I'm not photogenic and I just don't care to get 15 different lighting and shi* on a picture of a burger

But now I'm realizing 2021 your shi* better be at least decent or you getting curved

:francis: You’re right, I hate this social media obsessed generation (and I’m a young person)

but I just don’t care about what others post, nor do I care about posting myself and what I’m up to :francis:

but these broads think you’re weird if you’re not trying to stunt on social media :francis:

I might have to start posting views or scenic crap because I hate taking pictures
 

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My old main called herself breaking up with me today…..she sounded stunned that i said ok and walked away.

:mjgrin: Rather have peace than be annoyed. I feel reborn.
 

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Most of these thick women, I love em, but once the waist control comes off it can get a lil sloppy :francis:

And god forbid you get them pregnant:usure:, they'll never recover as most women are trash at losing weight, so I'm on the same wavelength breh :myman:


Yeah I'm only 5'6 135-140 at best on a good day and I'm realizing a lot of these thick chicks are like one or two meals away from being full blown fat.

Also as a little nikka, it truly hurts when a girl is riding you but outweighs you by 30-50 pounds.
 

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98% of women your age online are sugar babies. I assume you didnt go to college so you probably dont have the social circle to pick from. Stick cold approaching while doing hobbies. Your social media is more than likely trash since your 21 and from the sounds of it arent a high earner so you wont be able to show any proof to catch the attention of “baddies” whos DMs get flooded everyday.
I go to college and school is still online unfortunately, has been since spring 2020:mjcry:even tho it was community college I did pretty well. Yeah social media is pretty trash I don’t keep up with it and yeah I don’t have shyt to flaunt. I guess I’ll have to cold approach more girls my age cuz milfs ain’t it. There’s baddies at the beauty school right next to my gym:wow:fuxk around and break my own protocol and get at some gym women, ain’t never seen girls like the ones I been seeing recently before lockdown happened:ohhh:
 

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Right now think of chicks that are into you messaging you all day and all that, there is a guy whose into that same girl who was in your position but is now getting the one word text messages now and replies 5 hours later.

Always remember you're not special its just your turn and your turn can end at any moment

I've dealt with this many times before and I wasn't even in relationships with these girls. :damn:

It's very easy for women to lose interest in you, whether you're friends or lovers. I've had female friends that would treat me like a celebrity. Always having good conversations, we gave each other advice, made me feel like family. Fast forward a couple years later, it's like we were never friends to begin with. No more conversations, and if there are, they're brief and generic. "How are you doing?" "I'm doing fine, you?" "I'm alright, so what are you up to?" Conversation ends there. :dahell:

I swear, weeks ago, I got followed on Instagram by some girl I went to high school with. We never had a single problem with each other, we were always cool. And I didn't seek her out at all, she followed me out of nowhere. I message her, she replies, I reply back, and she leaves me on read. Haven't spoken to her since, the conversation lasted three messages. :huhldup:

I've learned (and still learning) that women treat you like a pop star. You can be the hottest thing in the world for a couple months or even a couple years, racking up hits. But once you fall off, or someone takes your place, you stop being relevant. They made you feel like the hottest thing in the world and they can also make you feel like a has-been. It's about who gets who first. :unimpressed:
 

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I've dealt with this many times before and I wasn't even in relationships with these girls. :damn:

It's very easy for women to lose interest in you, whether you're friends or lovers. I've had female friends that would treat me like a celebrity. Always having good conversations, we gave each other advice, made me feel like family. Fast forward a couple years later, it's like we were never friends to begin with. No more conversations, and if there are, they're brief and generic. "How are you doing?" "I'm doing fine, you?" "I'm alright, so what are you up to?" Conversation ends there. :dahell:

I swear, weeks ago, I got followed on Instagram by some girl I went to high school with. We never had a single problem with each other, we were always cool. And I didn't seek her out at all, she followed me out of nowhere. I message her, she replies, I reply back, and she leaves me on read. Haven't spoken to her since, the conversation lasted three messages. :huhldup:

I've learned (and still learning) that women treat you like a pop star. You can be the hottest thing in the world for a couple months or even a couple years, racking up hits. But once you fall off, or someone takes your place, you stop being relevant. They made you feel like the hottest thing in the world and they can also make you feel like a has-been. It's about who gets who first. :unimpressed:

And let the church say amen. And you never know man you never know. These woman can talk to you all day on a Thursday, laugh, giggle, open up and all that. And then you message em on friday and get nothing.

I messaged a chick yesterday no reply:hhh:. Back in the day I'd be :to: or angry, now I don't even give a damn. I'm so happy a few years ago I abandoned my only focus on one woman you're interested in routine.

Now I'm out here like
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, one falls another comes in, one goes silent meh next.
 

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I left a therapist a voice mail. Plan to email another one soon. I chose a breh but it might be wiser to choose a brehette. I don’t want to cry in front of a man if childhood and teenager shyt gets in my feelings when talking.

You might be more comfortable being vulnerable in front of a woman because a guy might be less empathetic and more likely to hold you accountable. As long as you are working on your shyt I guess...
 

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You might be more comfortable being vulnerable in front of a woman because a guy might be less empathetic and more likely to hold you accountable. As long as you are working on your shyt I guess...
I emailed her earlier today. I have a job and dyed out my few grey hairs today
 
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