Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[hazardous]

Nothing more annoying than when a girl will argue with you on text over the silliest sh*t

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Sometimes a woman you're feeling just ain't feeling you like that. That's life

At least I got to see a cac bar fight last night, so that salvaged it somewhat

first date?

 

[Shadow King]

Spoke to a woman at my gym and she didn't cackle in my face or breathe fire on me.

A pitiful W but a W is a W

 

[Actually6Foot3]

I've actually never even downloaded Hinge/Bumble because I assumed that the women are all looking to settle down and find the one. Is that yall's experience on those apps?

nah but I'm not in my 30s just yet so YMMV

I can and do match with women in their early, mid and late 20s. It's a mixed bag at the moment. My last FWB was from Hinge, she was 23 at the time though. I've spoken with chicks in their late 20s and early 30s and 9 times out of 10 they want to know if I'm looking long term off the bat.

I take it the 86 in your name means you're 35. Idk what your age range target is but I'd assume by that time more women on that range are looking long term. You may find women looking for fun/ a rebound in recently divorced women though?

 

[jay83]

Damn that girl from the grapevine Ayesha passed away from a car accident I read. This girl I went on a date with told me.

 

[Guizmo]

Remember me guys? "My girl" sent me a text2 months ago talking bout I'm to closed, I don't display my feelings etc. She came back at the beginning of June talking bout I need to change, I'm too selfish, she had never chased a guy like me (she's a dime honestly)

We was back together, but i didn't trust her. And I'm glad I did.

Yesterday she gave me her laptop and my gut told me to read her iMessage. And I'm glad I did

Saw a guy texting her, telling her "babe", she was sending him picture of her mother and brother

2 weeks ago, after I fukked her and she was spending the night with me, she was taking a shower to get ready for work, the guy texted her a 7am in the morning. I was like who the hell text someone at 7 am ?

Anyway yesterday after I read the iMessage (I was at her place) i just went super cold. She knew something happened. I fukked her, and just layed in the bed. Didn't say a word for a whole hour. She was teasing me, caressing me. I just got up put my clothes and I left.

She texted me, said if I arrived safely. Didn't even respond.

She called me, didn't even pick up.

Mannnnnnnn I'm not hurt honestly. I'm just disappointed

We had plan to spend this weekend together but obviously we won't.

I have to break up but don't even know where to start. Should I tell her I read her Imessages ? How can I Do it without her knowing that I read her messages?


Anyway.... thanks @VertigoKnight and @TradePascalSiakam @Lumumba. I always read all your messages and one thing that always comes is girls are not loyal, and never ever put your life for them and do not trust them.

Please guys always trust your gut.

 

[Silver Surfer]

Remember me guys? "My girl" sent me a text2 months ago talking bout I'm to closed, I don't display my feelings etc. She came back at the beginning of June talking bout I need to change, I'm too selfish, she had never chased a guy like me (she's a dime honestly)

We was back together, but i didn't trust her. And I'm glad I did.

Yesterday she gave me her laptop and my gut told me to read her iMessage. And I'm glad I did

Saw a guy texting her, telling her "babe", she was sending him picture of her mother and brother

2 weeks ago, after I fukked her and she was spending the night with me, she was taking a shower to get ready for work, the guy texted her a 7am in the morning. I was like who the hell text someone at 7 am ?

Anyway yesterday after I read the iMessage (I was at her place) i just went super cold. She knew something happened. I fukked her, and just layed in the bed. Didn't say a word for a whole hour. She was teasing me, caressing me. I just got up put my clothes and I left.

She texted me, said if I arrived safely. Didn't even respond.

She called me, didn't even pick up.

Mannnnnnnn I'm not hurt honestly. I'm just disappointed

We had plan to spend this weekend together but obviously we won't.

I have to break up but don't even know where to start. Should I tell her I read her Imessages ? How can I Do it without her knowing that I read her messages?


Anyway.... thanks @VertigoKnight and @TradePascalSiakam @Lumumba. I always read all your messages and one thing that always comes is girls are not loyal, and never ever put your life for them and do not trust them.

Please guys always trust your gut.

Don't tell her you read the messages....

Just tell her that she isn't loyal and block her for a couple weeks.

Let it burn

 

[Sinnerman]

first date?

Second date breh

 

[Apollo Creed]

Remember me guys? "My girl" sent me a text2 months ago talking bout I'm to closed, I don't display my feelings etc. She came back at the beginning of June talking bout I need to change, I'm too selfish, she had never chased a guy like me (she's a dime honestly)

We was back together, but i didn't trust her. And I'm glad I did.

Yesterday she gave me her laptop and my gut told me to read her iMessage. And I'm glad I did

Saw a guy texting her, telling her "babe", she was sending him picture of her mother and brother

2 weeks ago, after I fukked her and she was spending the night with me, she was taking a shower to get ready for work, the guy texted her a 7am in the morning. I was like who the hell text someone at 7 am ?

Anyway yesterday after I read the iMessage (I was at her place) i just went super cold. She knew something happened. I fukked her, and just layed in the bed. Didn't say a word for a whole hour. She was teasing me, caressing me. I just got up put my clothes and I left.

She texted me, said if I arrived safely. Didn't even respond.

She called me, didn't even pick up.

Mannnnnnnn I'm not hurt honestly. I'm just disappointed

We had plan to spend this weekend together but obviously we won't.

I have to break up but don't even know where to start. Should I tell her I read her Imessages ? How can I Do it without her knowing that I read her messages?


Anyway.... thanks @VertigoKnight and @TradePascalSiakam @Lumumba. I always read all your messages and one thing that always comes is girls are not loyal, and never ever put your life for them and do not trust them.

Please guys always trust your gut.

just straight up let her know things arent working out and you’d like to end things. Even hit her with the “its not you its me” that women use

 

[Guizmo]

Don't tell her you read the messages....

Just tell her that she isn't loyal and block her for a couple weeks.

Let it burn

If I tell her she isn't loyal our of the blue, it won't make sense bro.

Ans if I block her, it will be forever and ever not for a couple of weeks. Feel me ?

 

[Apollo Creed]

If I tell her she isn't loyal our of the blue, it won't make sense bro.

Ans if I block her, it will be forever and ever not for a couple of weeks. Feel me ?

Breh dont explain anything cause she wouldnt explain it to you. The relationship is done and can never be fixed because even if you “forgive her” you’re now going to always be insecure wondering if she is cheating again

 

[Guizmo]

just straight up let her know things arent working out and you’d like to end things. Even hit her with the “its not you its me” that women use

Haha I kind of know the way u think, like tell her just to get the fukk out, without explanation. Just like they do when they wanna break up.

But at the end of the day I'm me. I'm just gonna call her and say her iMessage poped up and I saw the word babe. After that I gonna tell her it's over. What do u think?

 

[Guizmo]

Breh dont explain anything cause she wouldnt explain it to you. The relationship is done and can never be fixed because even if you “forgive her” you’re now going to always be insecure wondering if she is cheating again

I feel you.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Haha I kind of know the way u think, like tell her just to get the fukk out, without explanation. Just like they do when they wanna break up.

But at the end of the day I'm me. I'm just gonna call her and say her iMessage poped up and I saw the word babe. After that I gonna tell her it's over. What do u think?

you’re over complicating this. If this was your wife and you had kids then sure, seek a resolution, but in modern times? Nah. It doesnt matter if she eat pork and you were muslim, point is she crossed an unacceptable line thus you must end things. She doesnt have the ability to time travel and reverse things.

That “explanation” stuff is usually done to try to shame the offender, but thats a waste of time. Dead things and tell her you hope she finds happiness and keep it moving. Youre a man stand on yojr square, you dont owe anyone on this a planet an explination.

 

[Guizmo]

you’re over complicating this. If this was your wife and you had kids then sure, seek a resolution, but in modern times? Nah. It doesnt matter if she eat pork and you were muslim, point is she crossed an unacceptable line thus you must end things. She doesnt have the ability to time travel and reverse things.

That “explanation” stuff is usually done to try to shame the offender, but thats a waste of time. Dead things and tell her you hope she finds happiness and keep it moving. Youre a man stand on yojr square, you dont owe anyone on this a planet an explination.

You are right. I see what u say. And I'm not trying to find a resolution. Absolutely not.ike you said she crossed a line that she could never undo.

I think that's what I wanted, trying to shame her and show her she violated in a major way. But at the end of the day, girls will be girls. She will never accept that it's her fault.

I'm just gonna dead it as briefly as possible. Thanks bro.