Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Silver Surfer]

If I tell her she isn't loyal our of the blue, it won't make sense bro.

Ans if I block her, it will be forever and ever not for a couple of weeks. Feel me ?

It will make sense....unless you are lying

She knows what she is doing behind closed doors...and you let her know you know without going into detail.....trust...it will bother her because she thought she was slick

 

[Apollo Creed]

You are right. I see what u say. And I'm not trying to find a resolution. Absolutely not.ike you said she crossed a line that she could never undo.

I think that's what I wanted, trying to shame her and show her she violated in a major way. But at the end of the day, girls will be girls. She will never accept that it's her fault.

I'm just gonna dead it as briefly as possible. Thanks bro.

yeah the shaming stuff is when dudes dont want to accept a womans nature. This is not to say women are bad this is just saying they are who they are and many are terrible communications. She could have dead things and moved to the new dude but thats not how women work, they keep the consistent guy around until the next man is ready to take them in.

 

[Macallik86]

I've bumped into a few old team chicks since I been out in the field again. Smashed one from the club, been on one date with another chick and tentatively might be able to swing three dates with three other chicks. I think post-covid, chicks that weren't in these streets regularly are out turning up and looking to have fun. Nothing like someone new though. I think my post-covid summer official starts when I smash someone new that isn't through online dating.

Pulled from the club on some last call shyt last Friday and again last night

Starting to find my pre-covid rhythm again. Now I just gotta work on knocking down chicks but being compatible enough that I want to hang out with them even after we smash

 

[Atlrocafella]

Remember me guys? "My girl" sent me a text2 months ago talking bout I'm to closed, I don't display my feelings etc. She came back at the beginning of June talking bout I need to change, I'm too selfish, she had never chased a guy like me (she's a dime honestly)

We was back together, but i didn't trust her. And I'm glad I did.

Yesterday she gave me her laptop and my gut told me to read her iMessage. And I'm glad I did

Saw a guy texting her, telling her "babe", she was sending him picture of her mother and brother

2 weeks ago, after I fukked her and she was spending the night with me, she was taking a shower to get ready for work, the guy texted her a 7am in the morning. I was like who the hell text someone at 7 am ?

Anyway yesterday after I read the iMessage (I was at her place) i just went super cold. She knew something happened. I fukked her, and just layed in the bed. Didn't say a word for a whole hour. She was teasing me, caressing me. I just got up put my clothes and I left.

She texted me, said if I arrived safely. Didn't even respond.

She called me, didn't even pick up.

Mannnnnnnn I'm not hurt honestly. I'm just disappointed

We had plan to spend this weekend together but obviously we won't.

I have to break up but don't even know where to start. Should I tell her I read her Imessages ? How can I Do it without her knowing that I read her messages?


Anyway.... thanks @VertigoKnight and @TradePascalSiakam @Lumumba. I always read all your messages and one thing that always comes is girls are not loyal, and never ever put your life for them and do not trust them.

Please guys always trust your gut.

Bolded is facts. Only women I trust is my mom, sisters, and if I ever have a daughter, her too, but anyone else will always get the side eye from me.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Yeah Hinge is the best dating app atm, followed by Bumble and Tinder last

Tinder is now mostly full of lame chicks, scammers and chicks asking you to follow them on IG or snap

For me Feeld is a lot better than Tinder. I had an account that I reactivated this week

A ton of chicks on there, I see on the other apps. But on here their at least being honest about what they're into which I kinda prefer.

But don't go jumping onto Feeld thinking you'll be smashing everything. As per the other apps a chick still has to feel you first.

Breh, Facebook Dating got some pieces on there. My shyt hasn’t stopped jumping, and I gotta couple lined up next weekend to kick it with.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Bolded is facts. Only women I trust is my mom, sisters, and if I ever have a daughter, her too, but anyone else will always get the side eye from me.

Only women to ever love you unconditionally is your mother. Even your daughter may turn on you for some time due to external influences and how they paint black men. Ya mama will love you even if you rob a bank

 

[Max.]

My bumble account was banned lol wtf my shyt been deleted

 

[Apollo Creed]

My bumble account was banned lol wtf my shyt been deleted

Prob got reported

 

[Krisrunner2049]

Mane I just wanna lose this sex drive so I can be like the other nikkas my age. Left the gym early cuz it was too many baddies, sensory overload type shyt

 

[MikelArteta]

Remember me guys? "My girl" sent me a text2 months ago talking bout I'm to closed, I don't display my feelings etc. She came back at the beginning of June talking bout I need to change, I'm too selfish, she had never chased a guy like me (she's a dime honestly)

We was back together, but i didn't trust her. And I'm glad I did.

Yesterday she gave me her laptop and my gut told me to read her iMessage. And I'm glad I did

Saw a guy texting her, telling her "babe", she was sending him picture of her mother and brother

2 weeks ago, after I fukked her and she was spending the night with me, she was taking a shower to get ready for work, the guy texted her a 7am in the morning. I was like who the hell text someone at 7 am ?

Anyway yesterday after I read the iMessage (I was at her place) i just went super cold. She knew something happened. I fukked her, and just layed in the bed. Didn't say a word for a whole hour. She was teasing me, caressing me. I just got up put my clothes and I left.

She texted me, said if I arrived safely. Didn't even respond.

She called me, didn't even pick up.

Mannnnnnnn I'm not hurt honestly. I'm just disappointed

We had plan to spend this weekend together but obviously we won't.

I have to break up but don't even know where to start. Should I tell her I read her Imessages ? How can I Do it without her knowing that I read her messages?


Anyway.... thanks @VertigoKnight and @TradePascalSiakam @Lumumba. I always read all your messages and one thing that always comes is girls are not loyal, and never ever put your life for them and do not trust them.

Please guys always trust your gut.

never tell a woman that you looked at her things. I’d just end things and get on with life.



I’ll always check up on any chick I’m dating. If I don’t find anything great but if I do thank goodness

 

[MikelArteta]

I was suppose to go on a date with some chick today. She messaged me if we are still on

I totally forgot

Told her if we can next week she said she might have plans

I said Allright let me know

I may need to tap out again I’m looking at dates like pulling teeth. No excitement I’d rather take a nap, eat pizza, watch brazil and Argentina and watch the fight than drive like 30 minutes

 

[Apollo Creed]

I was suppose to go on a date with some chick today. She messaged me if we are still on

I totally forgot

Told her if we can next week she said she might have plans

I said Allright let me know

I may need to tap out again I’m looking at dates like pulling teeth. No excitement I’d rather take a nap, eat pizza, watch brazil and Argentina and watch the fight than drive like 30 minutes

you aim for weekly dates?

 

[RealAssanova]

Remember me guys? "My girl" sent me a text2 months ago talking bout I'm to closed, I don't display my feelings etc. She came back at the beginning of June talking bout I need to change, I'm too selfish, she had never chased a guy like me (she's a dime honestly)

We was back together, but i didn't trust her. And I'm glad I did.

Yesterday she gave me her laptop and my gut told me to read her iMessage. And I'm glad I did

Saw a guy texting her, telling her "babe", she was sending him picture of her mother and brother

2 weeks ago, after I fukked her and she was spending the night with me, she was taking a shower to get ready for work, the guy texted her a 7am in the morning. I was like who the hell text someone at 7 am ?

Anyway yesterday after I read the iMessage (I was at her place) i just went super cold. She knew something happened. I fukked her, and just layed in the bed. Didn't say a word for a whole hour. She was teasing me, caressing me. I just got up put my clothes and I left.

She texted me, said if I arrived safely. Didn't even respond.

She called me, didn't even pick up.

Mannnnnnnn I'm not hurt honestly. I'm just disappointed

We had plan to spend this weekend together but obviously we won't.

I have to break up but don't even know where to start. Should I tell her I read her Imessages ? How can I Do it without her knowing that I read her messages?


Anyway.... thanks @VertigoKnight and @TradePascalSiakam @Lumumba. I always read all your messages and one thing that always comes is girls are not loyal, and never ever put your life for them and do not trust them.

Please guys always trust your gut.

If the box and sex is good you can silently demote her to fwb and start dating other women.

That’s what she’s doing with you and homeboy. So return the favour.

If she starts noticing you changing, tell her naww...everything good.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

went out to lunch with this chick

She used to be straight
Then was in a year long lesbian relationship
So now back to men obviously
small town girl
half white/black father

She cute as hell and everything else seem cool but year long lesbian relationship? huh?

 

[TRUEST]

Haha I kind of know the way u think, like tell her just to get the fukk out, without explanation. Just like they do when they wanna break up.

But at the end of the day I'm me. I'm just gonna call her and say her iMessage poped up and I saw the word babe. After that I gonna tell her it's over. What do u think?

In every situation, there is always a declaration of some sort worth taking note of.

considering the fact that u honestly feel this girl is a dime and she told you to your face that she’s never had to chase a guy like u - it is evident she has the upper hand in this relationship.

sure u can confront her with the messages, the fact is that if she actually wants to toy with u, she will. Your posts so far indicate to me u can be convinced to accept her or forgive her. This is a sign of weakness.

if u have any wisdom in u, and given the level of ur attraction to her, there is a saving grace here. The right thing to do is maybe fucck her one final time, then leave. Break up with her but remain steadfast. Stand on ur principles. The dude she’s cheating with appears to be a lame. Sounds like he’s into her far more than she’s into him. Your objective here is to never be him.

I know Girls like ur chick. They get bored with men who are at their beck and call. Men who send early morning texts or who are overly chatty and available all the time. Don’t be those men.

you’re not gonna permanently cut this chick off. So learn to deal with her because she won’t be the last chick to pull this sh1t on u. Trust that.