Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Gonna be real..

All of these women gonna have other options and will do the same thing this girl does...this is where we at

It fukks with you because she is a dime and you have no options..which means you playing defense right now..

You gotta have a bench to keep her honest and yourself...

If she cheats and you cheat, you hedged your bets...

Sounds fukked up, but this is reality...you gonna deal with this with any woman going forward

Either trust in your dikk or trust in your game...


Always have a backup !!
 

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Give me the dummy template of how to use IG as a dating app


Lie, lie, lie. If this is about plucking birds and living your best life. Then, fake it till you make it. The easiest go-to since the 90's has been the "photog", you're playing to the vanity of women, something they just can't resist. Set up a page with shots from your phone (these days you can take epic shots with your phone), find a park, and press away. The lead in opener for every girl you're going to talk to; "Its gonna be my first time working with a model, figured given your look, you'd be perfect". From there have her eating out of your hand. This has worked till this day. I don't care if she's smart, decent, or dumb, it works for all of em. What ho you know, don't wanna be Marilyn Monroe?

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I don't know if it's me but are most of these chicks mentally ill now a days or something. Was talking to this one free love don't do relationship chicks for a couple weeks. So we're texting and she's like you're such a Gentleman and a real man and how I made her feel better than she felt in a long time, I eventually make a joke to the effect of only if you're worth it though thinking she'll say of course I am but nah, this chick is like I don't have to prove my worth. I then clean it up by saying I meant that we should both be good to each other and it shouldn't be one way and how was her day but she kept going on and on. Eventually I just told her peace.

Was I wrong for making that joke?

Never look for forgiveness, always be passed asking permission.

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Lie, lie, lie. If this is about plucking birds and living your best life. Then, fake it till you make it. The easiest go-to since the 90's has been the "photog", you're playing to the vanity of women, something they just can't resist. Set up a page with shots from your phone (these days you can take epic shots with your phone), find a park, and press away. The lead in opener for every girl you're going to talk to; "Its gonna be my first time working with a model, figured given your look, you'd be perfect". From there have her eating out of your hand. This has worked till this day. I don't care if she's smart, decent, or dumb, it works for all of em. What ho you know, don't wanna be Marilyn Monroe?

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I can't run the photography game lol
 

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Man, I’m really having mixed feelings bout my girl. I really wonder how ppl married/ together x amount of years do it, definitely takes a lot of…well everything

i feel really strongly for this girl, but sometimes I wonder if this is all worth it. It would be nice to have a pause button until we could both be more mature or something like that

i feel so confused man
 

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Man, I’m really having mixed feelings bout my girl. I really wonder how ppl married/ together x amount of years do it, definitely takes a lot of…well everything

i feel really strongly for this girl, but sometimes I wonder if this is all worth it. It would be nice to have a pause button until we could both be more mature or something like that

i feel so confused man

be specific about the 'issue' because this is super vague. Aint nothing out in these streets and majority if not all humans are terrible lol. The question is you take what you can live with, the only thing you dont accept is anything that goes against your morals/what you stand on/disrespects you as a man.
 

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be specific about the 'issue' because this is super vague. Aint nothing out in these streets and majority if not all humans are terrible lol. The question is you take what you can live with, the only thing you dont accept is anything that goes against your morals/what you stand on/disrespects you as a man.

lately ive been thinking of breaking up with my girl. i feel like i give up too much for what i receive in return and am getting more and more frustrated. she doesn’t listen well, which tends to get me into shyt, the room, and so much other stuff i could mention. Sometimes it feel more like she my friend than my girl

when i mention a pause, it would be good, because i know some of the issues that come up are just because we’re both immature. others because of things I need to improve on as a man. I think we’re really good together, but sometimes I just think that it’s bad timing

idk dawg
 

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lately ive been thinking of breaking up with my girl. i feel like i give up too much for what i receive in return and am getting more and more frustrated. she doesn’t listen well, which tends to get me into shyt, the room, and so much other stuff i could mention. Sometimes it feel more like she my friend than my girl

when i mention a pause, it would be good, because i know some of the issues that come up are just because we’re both immature. others because of things I need to improve on as a man. I think we’re really good together, but sometimes I just think that it’s bad timing

idk dawg

how old are you? If you aint working towards marriage really no reason to waste your time, and give her the time back to go find someone else (assuming she wants kinds and stuff like that). Men know early that they want to end things, but its not in our nature to initiate breakups so we usually just keep going in the motions, until eventually both of you all become indifferent, and then someone does something that the other cant forgive (when the relationship should have ended a while ago. Your woman should bring you peace, not suck life out of you.

You know what you need to do, will you do it? thats on you.

As i mentioned aint nothing in the streets so if you feel your peace is threatened then yeah end it, but if you think the streets have something better then you are sadly mistaken lol. The dating game is in shambles, so like I said mainly keep people in your life who bring you peace and dead any fairytale ideals you have because all humans have flaws.
 

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Went on three dates with shorty, I chalked my losses and fell back. She invited me over but asked me to bring something to drink. I got a cheap ass bottle of Kettle One, if I don’t smash I’m gonna be disappointed lol.
 

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how old are you? If you aint working towards marriage really no reason to waste your time, and give her the time back to go find someone else (assuming she wants kinds and stuff like that). Men know early that they want to end things, but its not in our nature to initiate breakups so we usually just keep going in the motions, until eventually both of you all become indifferent, and then someone does something that the other cant forgive (when the relationship should have ended a while ago. Your woman should bring you peace, not suck life out of you.

You know what you need to do, will you do it? thats on you.

As i mentioned aint nothing in the streets so if you feel your peace is threatened then yeah end it, but if you think the streets have something better then you are sadly mistaken lol. The dating game is in shambles, so like I said mainly keep people in your life who bring you peace and dead any fairytale ideals you have because all humans have flaws.


I’m 22. As for what you said, that is what I’m working towards, but in my current state? No. In her current state? Hell no. It hasn’t been until lately that I’ve been considering ending things. The biggest thing you said is her bringing me peace vs sucking the life out of me, and for that, it’s both. Just some issues we gotta work past so it’s always peace vs the latter

like I said I’m counting my blessings with her. I know for certain nothing is outside for me, I really value my girl the good and the bad which is why I’m so down over this. Sometimes the things I have to deal with just seem to be too much though
 
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