Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Rozay Oro

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I have a girl that’s coming over tonight. I have so much rage in me from the bytches that have curved me this year. Help me get that rage out family. I want to be happy.
 

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I was suppose to go on a date with some chick today. She messaged me if we are still on

I totally forgot :russ:

Told her if we can next week she said she might have plans

I said Allright let me know

I may need to tap out again I’m looking at dates like pulling teeth. No excitement I’d rather take a nap, eat pizza, watch brazil and Argentina and watch the fight than drive like 30 minutes

I know the feeling lol. Why not flip the script.

Invite her instead. Turning everything into a date creates an expectation from the chick.

When you invite her, you're giving her a chance in ur presence. If she messes up, oh well...On to the next.
 

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In every situation, there is always a declaration of some sort worth taking note of.

considering the fact that u honestly feel this girl is a dime and she told you to your face that she’s never had to chase a guy like u - it is evident she has the upper hand in this relationship.

sure u can confront her with the messages, the fact is that if she actually wants to toy with u, she will. Your posts so far indicate to me u can be convinced to accept her or forgive her. This is a sign of weakness.

if u have any wisdom in u, and given the level of ur attraction to her, there is a saving grace here. The right thing to do is maybe fucck her one final time, then leave. Break up with her but remain steadfast. Stand on ur principles. The dude she’s cheating with appears to be a lame. Sounds like he’s into her far more than she’s into him. Your objective here is to never be him.

I know Girls like ur chick. They get bored with men who are at their beck and call. Men who send early morning texts or who are overly chatty and available all the time. Don’t be those men.

you’re not gonna permanently cut this chick off. So learn to deal with her because she won’t be the last chick to pull this sh1t on u. Trust that.

confronting a woman never goes in your favor anyways. Chicks will flip it on you

"Why did you go through my insert, you've never trusted me" then bring up some ish that you may have done months ago
Or have you doubting what you saw, "I cal everyone babe it means nothing"
 

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There's not much to talk about with women. Especially women you just met. Don't be going back and forth messaging them and don't be on the phone with them for more than 5 minutes. :unimpressed:

If you're using dating apps, get the number in no more than 5 messages and set the date up within 2 days.:ufdup:

It is your right and duty as a man to find out if she's not really interested in you as quickly as possible.:ufdup:
 

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NYC black coffee tough guys aka the Stoozy Boys
went out to lunch with this chick

She used to be straight
Then was in a year long lesbian relationship
So now back to men obviously
small town girl
half white/black father

She cute as hell and everything else seem cool but year long lesbian relationship? huh?

Happens, especially in NYC, it was the FOTM to be a lesbian or bi. The best part about it, is that they learn how fukked up women really are. They're basically getting a dose of their own medicine.....basically; women hate women. I always make the joke "so imagine how we feel about you girls". Men deal with rejection, catty behavior, passive aggressive bullshyt, etc. Usually when they've been in a same sex relationship, they jump back to men easily. Far more subservient when you apply pressure. They love male energy, not dyke/strap on sparks.
 

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In every situation, there is always a declaration of some sort worth taking note of.

considering the fact that u honestly feel this girl is a dime and she told you to your face that she’s never had to chase a guy like u - it is evident she has the upper hand in this relationship.

sure u can confront her with the messages, the fact is that if she actually wants to toy with u, she will. Your posts so far indicate to me u can be convinced to accept her or forgive her. This is a sign of weakness.

if u have any wisdom in u, and given the level of ur attraction to her, there is a saving grace here. The right thing to do is maybe fucck her one final time, then leave. Break up with her but remain steadfast. Stand on ur principles. The dude she’s cheating with appears to be a lame. Sounds like he’s into her far more than she’s into him. Your objective here is to never be him.

I know Girls like ur chick. They get bored with men who are at their beck and call. Men who send early morning texts or who are overly chatty and available all the time. Don’t be those men.

you’re not gonna permanently cut this chick off. So learn to deal with her because she won’t be the last chick to pull this sh1t on u. Trust that.

You're absolutely right. I send her a message and told her it's over. She didn't reply. I got my peace
 

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You're absolutely right. I send her a message and told her it's over. She didn't reply. I got my peace
If she responds it doesn’t matter either, just let her enter a black hole and move on. Spend sometime solo and reflect and even cry if you need to, but do not open that door back up.
 

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Gonna be real..

All of these women gonna have other options and will do the same thing this girl does...this is where we at

It fukks with you because she is a dime and you have no options..which means you playing defense right now..

You gotta have a bench to keep her honest and yourself...

If she cheats and you cheat, you hedged your bets...

Sounds fukked up, but this is reality...you gonna deal with this with any woman going forward

Either trust in your dikk or trust in your game...
 
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