Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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yeah the number thing is a crapshoot. she broke down the details on her count (and her friend did too on the low :mjpls:) and i wasn’t too floored by none of the stories, and call me jaded but i was just glad she wasn’t selling the p*ss or camming because a lot of women up here do that.


no, haven’t had that concern at all.
Sounds like something else is in play that you ain’t sharing. It started off with the number being a concern but then it’s not.
 

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Sounds like something else is in play that you ain’t sharing. It started off with the number being a concern but then it’s not.

if dudes care about “body counts” yet arent using their religious institutions or families to find them a woman they are not serious
 

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Can’t really disagree with that.

that whole view point is a morality thing. So how are you going to look for a woman not of the world by going through the world opposed to the institutions that align with your morals?

My observations from this thread is dudes are just as lost as these women. They are holding on to fairy tale ideals.

at the end of the day the only thing in our control is vetting women who:
1. Dont have uncurable STDs
2. Arent drowning in debt
3.Dont have kids (unless being a step dad is your thing).
4. Meet our fitness standards
5. We generally get along with/are friendly.


Everything else is a pipedream fairy tale
 

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that whole view point is a morality thing. So how are you going to look for a woman not of the world by going through the world opposed to the institutions that align with your morals?

My observations from this thread is dudes are just as lost as these women. They are holding on to fairy tale ideals.

at the end of the day the only thing in our control is vetting women who:
1. Dont have uncurable STDs
2. Arent drowning in debt
3.Dont have kids (unless being a step dad is your thing).
4. Meet our fitness standards
5. We generally get along with/are friendly.


Everything else is a pipedream fairy tale
Well said
 

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Currently seeing a 29 year old chemist, she’s had 3 LTR’s averaging 18 months since she was 19, no kids. been seeing her for a year.

she’s nice overall, said she wants to get married and have kids someday, but i don’t think I want to lock this one down, mainly because she got 13 confirmed bodies, but only 3 LTR’s that went for a considerable amount of time. Considering she went to college and grad school the number itself to me isn’t too atypical, not the best, but not crazy. I’m being hypocritical too because my number is easily double that, but that double standard is always there a breh can’t help it. :francis:

Ran her traits through the coli satanic database and did not get any hits, no animal print , overly arched eyebrows or things of the sort, but a chick that’s had a string of 4-6 month relationships for so many years with only a few LTR’s may not be the move for a wife. I know it ain’t nothing out here in the streets, and there are some chicks that out her record to shame, but i don’t want to join team GMB if i cuff this one and things don’t work out.
:russ:
 

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Currently seeing a 29 year old chemist, she’s had 3 LTR’s averaging 18 months since she was 19, no kids. been seeing her for a year.

she’s nice overall, said she wants to get married and have kids someday, but i don’t think I want to lock this one down, mainly because she got 13 confirmed bodies, but only 3 LTR’s that went for a considerable amount of time. Considering she went to college and grad school the number itself to me isn’t too atypical, not the best, but not crazy. I’m being hypocritical too because my number is easily double that, but that double standard is always there a breh can’t help it. :francis:

Ran her traits through the coli satanic database and did not get any hits, no animal print , overly arched eyebrows or things of the sort, but a chick that’s had a string of 4-6 month relationships for so many years with only a few LTR’s may not be the move for a wife. I know it ain’t nothing out here in the streets, and there are some chicks that out her record to shame, but i don’t want to join team GMB if i cuff this one and things don’t work out.
Im the head lead guy at the coli satanic database group..

Dm her IG and i will vet her for you

Fred
 

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that whole view point is a morality thing. So how are you going to look for a woman not of the world by going through the world opposed to the institutions that align with your morals?

My observations from this thread is dudes are just as lost as these women. They are holding on to fairy tale ideals.

at the end of the day the only thing in our control is vetting women who:
1. Dont have uncurable STDs
2. Arent drowning in debt
3.Dont have kids (unless being a step dad is your thing).
4. Meet our fitness standards
5. We generally get along with/are friendly.


Everything else is a pipedream fairy tale
I actually said all that though, I know what it is out here. You can’t just ignore if someone makes poor/reckless decisions with their body though, if that’s the case. Men shouldn’t have to marry loose women just because a bunch of women are loose, imo. There’s plenty of runners in the church too, anybody can pretend, that’s another reason i’m not ultimately bugging about it, people are fickle.

Im the head lead guy at the coli satanic database group..

Dm her IG and i will vet her for you

Fred
:mjlol:

Sounds like something else is in play that you ain’t sharing. It started off with the number being a concern but then it’s not.
i’ve done as much of a hoe-fax as i can do on her. :yeshrug: regular stuff for someone coming up on 30 as far as i’m concerned. we never know all the dirt, but nothing bush worthy. no trains, camming or stripping. mostly short terms and some fwb and the couple ltr’s. :manny:
 

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I actually said all that though, I know what it is out here. You can’t just ignore if someone makes poor/reckless decisions with their body though, if that’s the case. Men shouldn’t have to marry loose women just because a bunch of women are loose, imo. There’s plenty of runners in the church too, anybody can pretend, that’s another reason i’m not ultimately bugging about it, people are fickle.


:mjlol:


i’ve done as much of a hoe-fax as i can do on her. :yeshrug: regular stuff for someone coming up on 30 as far as i’m concerned. we never know all the dirt, but nothing bush worthy. no trains, camming or stripping. mostly short terms and some fwb and the couple ltr’s. :manny:
I guess that's my point. I'm not seeing what the issue/hesitation is.

I went back an read again and I guess you are just kind of venting so I get that.

I will say I don't see the connection to GMB at all. I mean you been seeing her for a year. You invested that much time and having overall doubts of not much of anything the way it reads. I'm not saying get married tomorrow either.
 
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