I know but like the rejection or acceptance is part of the experience/practice too. I basically rejected myself and feel the regret/anxiety anyway
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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VertigoKnight
Veteran
That pulling away shyt is even more annoying when they're the one who reignited things and was extra about it
I dont want to hear shyt in February
shyt is mad annoying, one chick caught me up like that.
Said she thought it would be better if we stopped what we were doing. I liked her a lot, but if thats how she was feeling, then whatever. Told her sure, felt good about the split and the time we spent together.
Two weeks later she’s back on me messaging, saying she misses me and was thinking about me, all the usual stuff to play to my ego.
We lasted a month before she switched it all the way up and went ice cold.
Never again will a woman have me behaving like that.
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I punked out when I was about to ask someone for their number. Idk why when I was talking to her everything was smooth and I wasn't nervous, then I got hit with a wave of anxiety when it seemed like the conversation was dying down and I had to make my move. I thought I was passed this type of shyt
"It was nice talking to you, Can I get your number maybe we can meet up some time for drinks?"
"I have some where to go, Do you mind if I can get your number?"
"I know you have some where to be, I'm not going to hold you up, we should stay in touch though."
Killigraphy
Banned
I punked out when I was about to ask someone for their number. Idk why when I was talking to her everything was smooth and I wasn't nervous, then I got hit with a wave of anxiety when it seemed like the conversation was dying down and I had to make my move. I thought I was passed this type of shyt
Happens, everyone gets nervous...even the pros. That's usually when I advise men to create a mantra, or go to the bathroom and talk to yourself (in your head); she's only a woman, no better, no greater than you. Its all a joke, no one is watching, and no one cares. Be great, your greatness is beyond simple constructs like dating and women.
I told myself that every time I woke in the morning as a teen. Now its just always in my head, mechanical, if you will. I'm always "on", nothing really gets to me because my mouth and wit will save the day/situation. Train yourself to have a response to everything.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
Lemme shut up. I need to take game from the OGs in here. I been having a ego trip but when I think about it lots of brehs speaking from wisdom. This game universal and I need to pay attention
MollyGalaga
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Why you mad at me??
nobody told you post that stupid ass shyt on IG
nobody told you post that stupid ass shyt on IG
CountryBoyL
Pro
O boy the 39 year old red jawn is really on it. We exchanged all the sexual pics and what not (her request) she wanted to slide on me in the am but I told her I wanted to get tested first just for precautions. She respected my decision. I’m sitting at the clinic now waiting to get it done. Once I get these results tho I’m gonna beat the brakes off shorty
VertigoKnight
Veteran
O boy the 39 year old red jawn is really on it. We exchanged all the sexual pics and what not (her request) she wanted to slide on me in the am but I told her I wanted to get tested first just for precautions. She respected my decision. I’m sitting at the clinic now waiting to get it done. Once I get these results tho I’m gonna beat the brakes off shorty
Is she getting tested as well?
CountryBoyL
Pro
She already has negative test results. Whole time shorty is a doctor. This just me getting tested since I’m back in the dating market.Is she getting tested as well?
waltthizzney
All Star
I managed to see a girl for 8 month without having to have the "talk", I think she finally fed up 
I now have a lil roster of two bytches. Why is it I always fall in love? None of these two, they’re cute. I just don’t understand why I always fall in love for someone who I have no business falling for. I’m just stuck in a loop of unrequited love. I still think bout that girl from august. It’s pathetic. Why am I like this?
Action Mike
All praise..
This is facts, I thought I could switch the game back easy on when I came out of a long relationship - nope
Just really getting back into it making amateur mistakes, looking back at some texts I sent like
buzzkill
All Star
i feel like this chick i been smashing since late oct is starting to pull away
idk if i should listen to my gut or if im overthinking
how yall usually handle this?
think its time to return the energy and focus on some other chicks and see what happens
idk if i should listen to my gut or if im overthinking
how yall usually handle this?
think its time to return the energy and focus on some other chicks and see what happens
i feel like this chick i been smashing since late oct is starting to pull away
idk if i should listen to my gut or if im overthinking
how yall usually handle this?
think its time to return the energy and focus on some other chicks and see what happens
Listen to your gut. Stay busy.
Always.
I had a conversation with my friend about this recently
We both thought back to times when we thought things were off, and we both couldn't recall a single time when we were wrong about the energy shift.
Whether I listened to my gut at the time is another story