Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

Truth is with women like that, they really respect and want conflict, smh.

They see you as avoiding that conflict as being weak, avoidant and passive.

Why are women like this @Pseudonym

Its a fine rope.

As a man, you should never argue with a woman. Relationship or not. It don’t matter if she is wrong, being irrational, etc.

I get it. Drama is a subconscious thing that women crave for. However, the minute she sees you engage in an argument with her, her respect and attraction to you goes out the window.

You’re a strong man that isn’t supposed to be phased by things. You’re her anchor. The immovable rock. How can you perceived to be any of those things when you’re arguing with someone who subconsciously knows is a weaker person?

If your woman tries to start shyt, shut it down quick by saying what you need to say once. Firm and direct. Anything being said after that? ignore. She wants to continue? let her argue with a wall.

She doesn’t stop? Remove yourself from the area and leave. Ignore her too. Come back after a few hours or days.

Fukk tryna keep the peace.

These women don’t want peace.

A woman has to look at you at being strong both physically and emotionally. The minute you fail a test that checks the strength of either, the countdown to the end of your relationship has begun.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

So are we doing damn near everything for women? Seems like there are so many rules we as men gotta follow and standards to uphold, while on the other hand what must women do/ offer?

it seems like so much of what we do is for the approval of women meanwhile they simply exist. some would even get upset that you asked them to shave their legs. a lot of the time when a chick is asked for what she wants in a man, she gives the king form answer of nearly everything. while a guy may just want her to be pretty

So like, what are the rules/ standards ladies must uphold? Are there any?

even on the red pill yt channels, everything ultimately ends up being for the ladies

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Its a fine rope.

As a man, you should never argue with a woman. Relationship or not. It don’t matter if she is wrong, being irrational, etc.

I get it. Drama is a subconscious thing that women crave for. However, the minute she sees you engage in an argument with her, her respect and attraction to you goes out the window.

You’re a strong man that isn’t supposed to be phased by things. You’re her anchor. The immovable rock. How can you perceived to be any of those things when you’re arguing with someone who subconsciously knows is a weaker person?

If your woman tries to start shyt, shut it down quick by saying what you need to say once. Firm and direct. Anything being said after that? ignore. She wants to continue? let her argue with a wall.

She doesn’t stop? Remove yourself from the area and leave. Ignore her too. Come back after a few hours or days.

Fukk tryna keep the peace.

These women don’t want peace.

A woman has to look at you at being strong both physically and emotionally. The minute you fail a test that checks the strength of either, the countdown to the end of your relationship has begun.

This the stuff that blow my mind. Reading this you may as well be arguing w a mentally insane person.

what type of ask is it to expect someone to be immovable against literally any and everything, and then the moment you’re not, your relationship begins to fall apart

shyt give me some stupid ass tests to try too

dating n relationships just seem like a big stupid ass game of manipulation sometimes

 

[The ADD]

So are we doing damn near everything for women? Seems like there are so many rules we as men gotta follow and standards to uphold, while on the other hand what must women do/ offer?

it seems like so much of what we do is for the approval of women meanwhile they simply exist. some would even get upset that you asked them to shave their legs. a lot of the time when a chick is asked for what she wants in a man, she gives the king form answer of nearly everything. while a guy may just want her to be pretty

So like, what are the rules/ standards ladies must uphold? Are there any?

even on the red pill yt channels, everything ultimately ends up being for the ladies

They uphold what you require them to uphold or you don’t deal with them.

 

[Guvnor]

How do you find it?

I’ve noticed recently a surge of shall we say Hinge type women have popped up on it. Which is cool.

I’ve got a few chicks on there I’ve met up with. I do like that conversation and clear expectations are upfront on there without any of the sleaze.

Tbh I'm not the biggest fan of it. I got it cause I'm into bdsm and want a long term fwb/sub to do scenes with if you're familiar with that terminology. Basically someone I can chill with and have kinky sex with from time to time. However to me there are a few problems with the app.

1.Not sure if it's just my area but I noticed the app is heavily Caucasian. You do have some black people or people of color but not enough for my taste.

2.The women I matched with say they want long term and causal but it never ends up with me smashing more than twice. They over sell it too saying how I was so good in bed, the best they ever had and etc etc but then they just go ghost or get really annoying and want a serious relationship so I cut them off.

3. I've noticed a lot of the women I matched with got some kinda mental illness or trauma. I feel a lot of women who are into bdsm or kink are that way. It could be something as simple as they were raised too over protective and wanna rebel, to being molested when they were young, to being too progressive. You know the non-binary, don't do labels, don't shave my arm pits, offended and ready to cancel every little thing type of woman.

With all that said I don't take many women on there seriously but it's cool for some fun and ons.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

So are we doing damn near everything for women? Seems like there are so many rules we as men gotta follow and standards to uphold, while on the other hand what must women do/ offer?

it seems like so much of what we do is for the approval of women meanwhile they simply exist. some would even get upset that you asked them to shave their legs. a lot of the time when a chick is asked for what she wants in a man, she gives the king form answer of nearly everything. while a guy may just want her to be pretty

So like, what are the rules/ standards ladies must uphold? Are there any?

even on the red pill yt channels, everything ultimately ends up being for the ladies

Everything you said in this post is exactly what those redpill channels, feminist groups, and the rest of the world wants you to believe.

for starters: WHAT A WOMAN ASKS FOR =/= WHAT A WOMAN GETS/ACTUALLY WANTS. She can say all the silly qualifications she wants, but none of them matter.

Most men don’t hold women to any standards or rules. That’s why they can balloon up to 300 pounds and think it’s acceptable. That’s why they can beg for $$$ off the rip. Some men understand they should, but are mentally weak to do so. Why do you think these fellas worship or look up to how monks move?

So like, what are the rules/ standards ladies must uphold? Are there any?

That’s for you to discover based on your previous experiences and life experience.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

This the stuff that blow my mind. Reading this you may as well be arguing w a mentally insane person.

what type of ask is it to expect someone to be immovable against literally any and everything, and then the moment you’re not, your relationship begins to fall apart

shyt give me some stupid ass tests to try too

dating n relationships just seem like a big stupid ass game of manipulation sometimes

Bold is why so many attractive women spent yesterday alone at home. If you not on board with keeping frame 24/7 then that “my girlfriend is my best friend” shyt is out the window, for me at least.

Advice my OG gave me is “the dating game should be fun” whether it’s through a date, sex, or regular conversation.. if you aren’t enjoying the situation you’re in then simply leave.

ULTIMATE GEM: OUR GREATEST STRENGTH AS MEN IS TO IGNORE OR WALK AWAY

 

[MikelArteta]

ULTIMATE GEM: OUR GREATEST STRENGTH AS MEN IS TO IGNORE OR WALK AWAY

 

[RealAssanova]

I understand women askin for ig if ya’ll match on dating apps...

But if you vibin with a jawn in person...why do you want my ig?

You see me...

No filters, no alternate reality....

But yet you still want my ig?

I don’t even have ig

 

[2 one 3]

I understand women askin for ig if ya’ll match on dating apps...

But if you vibin with a jawn in person...why do you want my ig?

You see me...

No filters, no alternate reality....

But yet you still want my ig?

I don’t even have ig

Background research man. They want to see what you are into, who you’re connected with, and what you are about.



some people use it as a way to gauge people. I personally like looking at women’s IG pages to see how they look in different outfits and different settings. I also like to see how those legs and toes are looking lol

 

[RaspberryFitted]

I understand women askin for ig if ya’ll match on dating apps...

But if you vibin with a jawn in person...why do you want my ig?

You see me...

No filters, no alternate reality....

But yet you still want my ig?

I don’t even have ig

another follower in the follower count. At this point it’s custom to ask for someone’s IG. I understand it for screening purposes.. but if you met me irl and see I’m a normal dude…

 

[VertigoKnight]

Tbh I'm not the biggest fan of it. I got it cause I'm into bdsm and want a long term fwb/sub to do scenes with if you're familiar with that terminology. Basically someone I can chill with and have kinky sex with from time to time. However to me there are a few problems with the app.

1.Not sure if it's just my area but I noticed the app is heavily Caucasian. You do have some black people or people of color but not enough for my taste.

2.The women I matched with say they want long term and causal but it never ends up with me smashing more than twice. They over sell it too saying how I was so good in bed, the best they ever had and etc etc but then they just go ghost or get really annoying and want a serious relationship so I cut them off.

3. I've noticed a lot of the women I matched with got some kinda mental illness or trauma. I feel a lot of women who are into bdsm or kink are that way. It could be something as simple as they were raised too over protective and wanna rebel, to being molested when they were young, to being too progressive. You know the non-binary, don't do labels, don't shave my arm pits, offended and ready to cancel every little thing type of woman.

With all that said I don't take many women on there seriously but it's cool for some fun and ons.

I met someone on there and we’ve been seeing each other for about 7 months. The thing I like about her is we both sat down and talked though what our expectations and wants were for our connection. We were both fairly new to exploring kink but we muddled through initially.

I love doing scenes with her as we both know we’re both on the same thinking level. My fear of the influx is a lot of women treat it as a dating app instead of a kink app which is why I like to read profiles and also see how initial chats with the the chick goes

Yeah ton of white chicks on the app. Because I’m in Van I also see a ton of East Asian and south asian and a handful of black women though the ones I’ve seen on here are of the septum piercing type.

Luckily so far the women I’ve dealt with have not shown any types of trauma I talk to a lot of them about finding yourself first. Makes our interactions a lot more healthy.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Vulnerability is very risky, but it feels cool to get shyt off your mind cause we're human. However, there's levels to opening up, I notice that women love winners, be sure to add a victory to your story.

At my class, I vibes with this sista, but I never talked about my issues. Cool vibes, flirting, humor and pleasantry is my game.

I hide complaining and talking about my problems with women, I feel like that stunts a connection instead of building one. Besides us men are problem solvers and leaders, lead away fellas!

 

[OmegaK2099]

I was once a former simp as well. Simping leads to empty wallets and broken hearts.

We've all been there, hopefully most of us have learned from that shyt and leveled up. As for what I just witnessed with those two dudes, I hope that shyt rips their soul apart. I'd never toss a dude I know under the bus just to score in with a chick. If that's what you have to resort to in order to get a broad to notice you, then you deserve all the c class lower grade hoes youre stuck with.

 

[OmegaK2099]

Vulnerability is very risky, but it feels cool to get shyt off your mind cause we're human. However, there's levels to opening up, I notice that women love winners, be sure to add a victory to your story.

At my class, I vibes with this sista, but I never talked about my issues. Cool vibes, flirting, humor and pleasantry is my game.

I hide complaining and talking about my problems with women, I feel like that stunts a connection instead of building one. Besides us men are problem solvers and leaders, lead away fellas!

Learned my lesson the hard way, NEVER vent to a bytch. They eventually use that against you or if it's a broad you're into they'll only see you as that gay best friend.