Am I out of line for being mad at my gf because I found out via her Facebook post that she was in an accident yesterday that totaled her car? Like I saw the post hours after it had already happened. She had the time to post on FB about it but didn’t even contact me knowing sooner or later I’d see it and be freaking out. Only reason I got on her about it is 1) because she’s physically okay and 2) I texted her something at like 2 today and she ain’t respond to it all day but she had time to post on fb 3 times in the same timespan. I know she was at work and busy most the day as shes a pharmacist but how hard is it to throw a fukkin emoji or to like a text? Especially when you got time to share shyt on fb during that same time? She said she didn’t respond or read it because we had talked yesterday about me coming over tonight after class. But what does that have to do with simply acknowledging my muhfukkin words to you?
I don’t get emotional with her like in terms of raising my voice or anything but talking to her about it today I had to tell her bout herself a little and I honestly am not feeling bad about it. Okay maybe a little, but that’s why I’m here
Ive Been in a similar situation interesting enough and i broke up with her
I’m on my phone so excuse my shyt typing but basically in 2020 i started to develop an app and build a start up and put together a group of founders to work on doing so. I had a meeting for the business one day and before the meeting i think i messaged my girl to ask how she was doing or whatever. Typical shyt
After the meeting i see her response that she’s ok and how she got in a car accident the night before with her friend. I’m thinking to myself, “she got into an accident last night and I’m hearing about it this afternoon??? Wtf. Must have not been a serious accident” so i message her asking what happened and if everyone is ok thinking that it’s no big deal…maybe a fender bender
she doesnt respond, i get home and see an hour later that she hasnt responded so i call to get the scoop. I was right…nobody was hurt but the car was damaged quite a bit. She was a passenger though
anyways…later on that weekend she calls me just to say what’s up and then within minutes starts balling her eyes out on the phone asking why i didn’t call her immediately after hearing she was in an accident and how she feels like she isn’t good enough for me and all this other bs.
it was the straw that broke the camel’s back for me for reasons i dont wanna go into causw rhis story long enouggh as it is
but i couldnt help but think, why would this bytch get into an accident and not think to let me know immediately? It was a recurring them in the relationship that she didnt know how to be a girlfriend nor how to communicate. Also she was very egotistical in that she always kinda wanted to be chased and accomodated so to speak. I had to cut the cord because i knew then that there was either just a lack of reverence/respect and that there was a fundamental lack of understanding of relationships. She was insatiable and an attention whore and i had to accept that or walk away. I chose the latter
… that’s cool it went from 12hours to 4hours
