How y’all feel about your girl bragging to her male friends about y’all sex life?
And no this question ain’t for me but I was called “insecure” by my homie.

So you finally have something to talk about with women and your first instinct it to gatekeep instead of using it to get the draws, y’all new nikkas is something else![]()

My gf's insistence on getting me to become friends with her male friends is getting on my nerves
I'm cordial with them, isn't that enough
I know exactly what y'all are probably thinking right now
Yup. He THANKFUL
nikkas is weirdos manSo you finally have something to talk about with women and your first instinct it to gatekeep instead of using it to get the draws, y’all new nikkas is something else![]()
5 Days Later.
Her: “Hey sorry! I have been busy with work and didn’t have time to reply. How are you?”
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5 Days Later.
Her: “Hey sorry! I have been busy with work and didn’t have time to reply. How are you?”
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5 Days Later.
Her: “Hey sorry! I have been busy with work and didn’t have time to reply. How are you?”
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You reckon it's important to have/know your girls social media accounts?
So my girl (of 8 months) earlier on in our relationship suggested that we add each other on IG but i declined because I really don't care to follow and see the mundane posts that they be posting plus i'm not big on social media like that and mainly use my account to see informative/educational posts. I also know that women purge their IG accounts when dating someone new so anything she didn't want me to see on her IG would have already been deleted.
It got me thinking tho this past week that while i don't have my girls IG account, i can't search for her on other social media platforms like FB or Twitter.. I think she's got it on hidden or something.
You reckon this is a red flag?
Being able to view a girls past posts is an indication to how she thinks right so not being able to see the transparency is not really knowing who you're dealing with.
Am i overthinking this