Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Tr0yTV

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Now that I can finally post in this thread instead of just lurking, I wanna thank y'all for the wisdom y'all dropping here. :wow:

Got a lot of game and motivation checking this place out when shyt hit the fan.


Still got a lot to work on tho, any tips for an introverted guy to expand his social circles? Gotta make more IRL connections to get better job offers and shyt.
In regards to connections. Showing up is half the battle. Become a regular at different places and always ask people their names ex. Bartenders, bouncers, etc.

As far as better jobs. Get certifications. That way you can always get jobs based on your own merit. If you are in a field that doesn’t require certifications. Jump into IT.
 

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In regards to connections. Showing up is half the battle. Become a regular at different places and always ask people their names ex. Bartenders, bouncers, etc.

As far as better jobs. Get certifications. That way you can always get jobs based on your own merit. If you are in a field that doesn’t require certifications. Jump into IT.
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Time + proximity, has remained undefeated in the game. If you're a bartender/bouncer, it goes without saying.
 

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Feels like every time I bring up something she's done or said that's irritated me I gotta spend the entire week consoling her about making her sad :pachaha:

Can't even have tough conversations without her trying to make me feel bad about bringing it up
 

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Feels like every time I bring up something she's done or said that's irritated me I gotta spend the entire week consoling her about making her sad :pachaha:

Can't even have tough conversations without her trying to make me feel bad about bringing it up
you playing babysitter over there
 

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Feels like every time I bring up something she's done or said that's irritated me I gotta spend the entire week consoling her about making her sad :pachaha:

Can't even have tough conversations without her trying to make me feel bad about bringing it up
just one of the many ways she will manipulate you into keeping quiet. stay safe :hubie:
 

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My nikkas I’m getting bytches on tinder but my self esteem is low due to fail relationships. When I occasionally get a bytch that flirts with me irl. I just can’t really do it because I fear rejection. Whether just no or getting dumped. I’ve been going to the gym but help me get my boldness back. I feel like a declawed cat, this shyt sucks.
 

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Strictly For My Lurkas...
Feels like every time I bring up something she's done or said that's irritated me I gotta spend the entire week consoling her about making her sad :pachaha:

Can't even have tough conversations without her trying to make me feel bad about bringing it up
Get away as fast as possible...
 

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Feels like every time I bring up something she's done or said that's irritated me I gotta spend the entire week consoling her about making her sad :pachaha:

Can't even have tough conversations without her trying to make me feel bad about bringing it up

Then why keep putting up with it?

If she doesn't have any concept of accountability (like most females) and acts like a sulky child for a whole week every time she gets called out then just bounce.
 

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i aint been back to that app since I deleted it

kept finding either trannys, gay nikkas, meme accounts or bots

I dunno wtf happened to that app lately cause last year there was less fukkkery
Not only that, but I set my preference to no more than 30 miles. Yet I’m getting matches and profiles that are 8,000 miles away :stopitslime:
 

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My nikkas I’m getting bytches on tinder but my self esteem is low due to fail relationships. When I occasionally get a bytch that flirts with me irl. I just can’t really do it because I fear rejection. Whether just no or getting dumped. I’ve been going to the gym but help me get my boldness back. I feel like a declawed cat, this shyt sucks.

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Not only that, but I set my preference to no more than 30 miles. Yet I’m getting matches and profiles that are 8,000 miles away :stopitslime:

A lot of profiles from Thailand and Latin America seem to be able to make it look like they're in your city.

I don't understand how Tinder has let their app go to shyt.
 
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