tbh I`m not going out to dinner or shyt like that with someone I'm not actively having sex with lmfao.
The only exception to that rule is if I'm traveling and a chick is my tour guide, that is more so me experiencing some cultural stuff
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The only exception to that rule is if I'm traveling and a chick is my tour guide, that is more so me experiencing some cultural stuff
Brandsdale
Big Yella
-ice cream (idgaf if its winter
)-walks
-coffee/tea/bubble tea
-desert
-ice skating
-arcade
-home date (grab wine+charcuterie)
-paint & sip
-smoke weed
-cheap drinks at a bar
Im a cheap ass nikka but least to say, the options are endless. You prob shouldnt force yourself to have fun with a woman that seems expensive unless you got it like that
I mean depends on what a persons aim is but either way sounds like gets trying to spend too much time with too many chicks or spending on casual situations. Either way is bad strategy.
The truth is that these broads costs time and money.
It's one thing to be doing "walking dates" when you're 19. But if you are 30+ trying to do ice cream and expecting to hit...it's not your game that needs fixing.
Context matters
- How old are you? (college, early career, middle career, you a boss..)
- How old are these broads? (college, early career, she working a bs job...)
- Where you meeting these broads?
- What's your cost to bang ratio?
- Night Game - 2-4 hours of free time at bars and clubs + drinks/gas money + spit yo game..
- Everything Else - Running up on these broads in the day/meeting them online + at least one "outing" - which is also time and money (unless you're a pretty boy and pretty dumb and can invite them straight to the crib. Get Passport bro'd in your own city)
honestly dudes just want a chick they can smash consistently lol.
People hold on to the fairy tale of Marriage but imo if you dont have a social circle where you can pull someone from you better off with a match maker. Dating apps imo are purely for casual situations so when you juggling multiple convos it leads to stretching yourself thin.
I seen dudes say they doing 4-6 days a week, I dont see how a product man even has time for that shyt.
imo dudes are using passive avenues as their main source of funneling in chicks into their backlog lol.
With social media/apps it's easy to find women but then dudes try to pivot a high volume number into dating and it just isn't feasible. IMO Apps should be used to filter out chicks who have an insanely high amount of interest, but instead dudes are sending feelers out to every chick they match with.
On Dating apps if a chick doesn't message me first I dont message her at all lol. On IG if I see a chick stays liking my post/stories then I may send a DM
Brandsdale
Big Yella
why everyone in here shytting on ice cream dates all the time lol?
plenty nikkas hit after some Dairy Queen or Coldstone Creamery
Whole lot of them be proud of the fact too.
NoirDynosaur
Yurrrrrrrrrr
Being selective is key. A man's level of desperation is based on his level of thirst for female attention. Less is more.
On social media, it's all about interest level. There's a lot of clout chasing chicks on there looking for validation, usually, the ones under 1K is the sweet spot.
Killigraphy
Banned
Coffee dates, though I feel like many of you on here aren't even texting openly about what you want. I tell them immediately, make sure you eat, because we're gonna be walking all over the park, so we pick up coffee/water and thats it. First dates for me, are already established as the date wherein I just see your t*ts and ass in person, since I already have pics of them via text conversation.
Essentially; always plan the first date after you know for sure shes DTF.
Nokids
Promise if I have a seed imma guide him right
Fam I said the same thing most of the girls I met after a while I’d say to my self “ now I could see why you’re single” I noticed there’s something off about girls on dating apps
Yeah that marking of territory shyt is wild..
They want to wear t-shirts etc...I'm like bring your own shyt
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
It's hard to find quality women on dating apps.
Met another woman on the apps, had a great date with a few drinks ended up at her place. Chilled in her bed, we ended up having sex, she gave me the "I never usually do this lecture, I'm going through things" & she told me to go home at 1am. Apparently her last bf was 6 months ago, she is still getting over him, work stress, she lonely & new to the city. What a shame, its the best sex I had in a while & she had big soft ass booty
I got a date tonight with a new woman tonight, after this I'm taking a break from dating, I'm exhausted.
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Nokids
Promise if I have a seed imma guide him right
Thanksgiving date? Sounds lit fam keep us updated I feel you on the exhaustion but nikkas want p*ssy from time to time lol . Drinks~> back to the crib~> smash~> head home. It feels like a cycle after a while especially if you dip right after smashing
I met one since I’m back in my hometown for the holidays. She drove from another state that’s 30 min from me at like 3 am so it bugged me out to see the plates lol.. Took her to the Telly smashed and now I’m back home. shyt was smoove but damn these hoes fukkin lol