Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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nikkas gotta think they doing women a favor with this I'll pay 60/40 bullshyt. If you make more than her thats her problem nobody told her to pick the career field she is in.I meant like I pay 60 she pays 40.
And granted, yea this is a girl we all spoke about but even when I was dating hinge joints when we broke up, after a while of cheap ethic food and drinks they always made some outlandish date idea or claim. "I really like Tao and Ruth Chris we should go"Y'all telling me that there are girls in the NYC 20's to mid 30's that don't want to go out in this age of social media and validation?
Either you are 100% provider (and like 95% of women cant handle what comes with that) or yall 50/50 everything. Anything else is confusion that leads you no where. This is for actual relationships. Anything else keep it FWB, I'll summon you when I want to see you so you dont invest unnecessary time on giving attention as time is money.
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
there is a third option
Tell her to give you her check every payday and you manage all the finances with all the money outside of some disposable cash she can keep for whatever.
It worked in the past for couples and it should work now. Especially if ya’ll living together and what not.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
Ion mean to interject because I haven’t been in a relationship yet where real finances came into play… but that shyt sounds too much for a simple BF/GF dynamicthere is a third option
Tell her to give you her check every payday and you manage all the finances with all the money outside of some disposable cash she can keep for whatever.
these nikkas aint married though. It's just two confused adults.there is a third option
Tell her to give you her check every payday and you manage all the finances with all the money outside of some disposable cash she can keep for whatever.
We over complicate gender dynamics because Dating isn't even real, it comes from prostitution culture but we now use it as method of relationship lol.
see my post.
Folks playing husband and wife and call it dating lmfao.
If you are not married with kids then things SHOULD NOT be this complicated.
Duke Wy Lin
It's been a good run. Wish y'all the best ✊🏿
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
Bro do you have a book or something I can learn up about this? It sounds like a POV worth learning about.
Brandsdale
Big Yella
Lotta relationships nowadays seem like business partnerships instead of people actually loving each other.
You kinda need someone to help you out with owning a home in this economy and im convinced thats why people in my age group (regardless of gender) damn-near force themselves into marriage.
I read about it a while back, and then I've seen dudes like Coach Greg Adams talk about it
but even till this day "Date" lingo is still used in the prostitution world when it comes to a Whore/Escort going out with a Trick.
What’s the backstory?
I forgot what happened, but he was going thru it with her..
Marriage in most functional societies always came from social circles
1.Families putting their kids together
2.Societal institutions such as church/school a man approaching the parents asking to court their daughter.
All this other shyt is remixed sex work culture and this is why it ends in fukkery.
Ask yourself why are 18-25 yr olds even on dating apps? They are not far removed from school, so you mean to tell me they do not know anyone in their social circles?
Like I said right now we are using Sex Worker Culture to form relationships and it simply does not work. You just get situationships where literally nobody can tell you why even get legally married makes sense when yall already having sex and living together lmfao only thing that changes is sharing debt and getting taken to the cleaners when yall divorce inevitably.
People fighting for shyt that aint even real. If someone was worth fighting for you would be married lmfao. This is why I'm saying if yall not married with kids then when shyt goes left leave. Dont sit around and fall into depression when the shyt is gonna end anyways and chick will move on ASAP while dudes come in here crying bout hoes aint shyt.
Nokids
Promise if I have a seed imma guide him right
Read the last 20 or so pages good questions and answers from everyone
Been working on myself the past few months got the new job, new crib downtown yada yada.. the thing I noticed the girls I used to like before I don’t even want to smash
Anyone else felt that gradual shift of wanting better when you leveled up in life? We all fukked a few wack bytches in our life but it’s crazy when you’re living in a better spot it impacts who you want over. Also since moving, I barely be on the apps other than hinge because it be bytches with multiple kids, mediocre jobs, etc giving trouble and it’s a waste of time since you’re doing so well in real life
TLDR- when you work on yourself and enter the dating game again you’ll be blown away how fast your standards changed
Been working on myself the past few months got the new job, new crib downtown yada yada.. the thing I noticed the girls I used to like before I don’t even want to smash
Anyone else felt that gradual shift of wanting better when you leveled up in life? We all fukked a few wack bytches in our life but it’s crazy when you’re living in a better spot it impacts who you want over. Also since moving, I barely be on the apps other than hinge because it be bytches with multiple kids, mediocre jobs, etc giving trouble and it’s a waste of time since you’re doing so well in real life
TLDR- when you work on yourself and enter the dating game again you’ll be blown away how fast your standards changed
IMO as men toss that level up term to the bushes, that shyt is for women.
1.Learn to be alone and enjoy it. Being lonely leads to us getting into situationships we shouldn't be in. Learn yourself and what you actually enjoy.
2.Once you learn to be alone, master yourself. Conquer whatever non productive vices you have whether it be porn, food addiction, etc. I say this because when we get down and out we lean to this shyt and it further puts us in a hole.
3.When you do 1 and 2 you understand how simple life is thus you abandon the level up bullshyt which is just shyt to make you a slave of capitalism.
4.Remember you dont own anyone and nobody owns you. Take people who come in your life as they are, you cant change them and that is ok. Simply ask yourself, if the characteristics they display things you want in your life and if so, do these things shift you off your square? if they do cut them out, reflect on the lessons learned and move on.