Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[KeysT]

i dont need to disrespect women, if shes not bringing what i want i just walk away, i think thats the strongest thing as aman you can have no matter how hot she is etc. if she disrespects just walk away.

im quiet and introverted and i avoid confrontation and hate drama, chicks have tried getting me mad jealous pushing my buttons i just keep my non chalant attitude and say nothing even though i may be burning inside and just cut them out of my life.

 

[kevm3]

I feel this thread is more than merely discussing 'dealing with women,' but also extends to general knowledge about being a man as well... which in turn also benefits how you deal with women.

Now, to all my brothers in Jesus Christ, keep up the struggle and keep on pushing and don't sacrifice your morals or your righteous nature to attract women. To the men in general, the big piece of advice I can give you is to DEVELOP a skill, and develop it to a VERY high level. You will need to be extremely competent in this day and age, especially for what is to come. If you are not sufficiently skilled, you will be in a very unenviable position. Make sure this is a marketable skill such as programming, accounting, engineering, medicine, etc. Put women on the backburner and put entertainment on the backburner and make sure your skills are up to par and you are above average in competence at that endeavor.

Secondly, get your passport while you still can and research living in different nations. You don't want to be tethered here. America is called 'the land of opportunity' and that was the reason so many immigrated here, but what happens with the opportunities dry up and they exist in some other land? Remember, societies that are rather middling today were once the prosperous, glorious societies of the past. Don't ever get caught up thinking that any nation's reign on top will last forever. You will want to have fluidity to get out if needed. This means not only be sufficiently skilled, but MINIMIZE your expenditures and debts. You don't want to have debt chaining you here.

Thirdly, move your mentality from one of dependency to independence. You will simply have to learn to be an initiator. In other words, you need to learn entrepreneurial ability and also how to many tasks on your own without having to rely on outside help. The way the economy is changing in this day and age, if you don't know how to get it for yourself, you will be given peanuts.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Fix yourself from the inside, out. Read constantly, listen to audio that will enrich your mind and feed it, write out your goals and conquer them. The game doesn't stop whether you're single, dating or married. The man has to be the hunter, so you never get a chance to fall asleep at the wheel in life and follow behind a woman for anything.

Make sure you don't just take your rightful place just to make sure you're better than and not getting played by a woman, but also make sure you're righteously living that "I know where I'm going in life and not taking any shyt" motto, because at the end of the day women want the dude that makes them comfortable in the fact that he can hunt and protect the home. All of the game playing, dating world posturing and submission and domination is, is a constant dance to keep testing and proving those roles. When you're playing your role and dealing with and instructing a woman on how to play hers, everything takes care of itself.

 

[DaRealness]

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[DaRealness]

Leanne Black is finally jailed after FIVE false rape allegations against her ex-boyfriends in eight years | Mail Online

 

[Schwarzkopf]

Breh's how do you hit up a woman after getting her number in the club?

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Breh's how do you hit up a woman after getting her number in the club?

Is this a trick question?

 

[Kartel13]

Breh's how do you hit up a woman after getting her number in the club?

It depends padawan. I normally send a text during the work day. Say hello and keep it moving. I'll eventually call when I have some time.

But don't keep it straight text. Make a call when you have the time.

 

[MikelArteta]

George clooney dumping stacy keibler because she wanted to DT married and have kids

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[DaChampIsHere]

In the "courting" stage, they offer sex and nothing else.

Look how many daps a post with this sentence got.

And you all wonder why everyone thinks of all of y'all in here as misogynist, bitter didues, and slightly sliding on the side of homosexuality.

Not to mention the "I thought you was the shyt so I holla'd at you, now you've rejected me and made me mad so now you're a loser and not shyt" mentality.

You can't make this stuff up.

 

[True Blue Moon]

I write about this kind of stuff all the time, so I'll drop posts in here every now and then since the Brehs are an audience that will appreciate it.

Why Can't I Get a Man?!: How the 2013 'Single and Looking' Woman is Hustling Backwards

In this scene from The Wire, Marlo, a narcissistic drug lord bent on power, swipes a few lollipops while making eye contact with the security guard, just to let him know there was nothing he could do about it.

The security guard, feeling that his manhood was on the line, went outside to confront Marlo. He told them that he realizes Marlo is powerful and could take him out if he chose, but he’s still a man with a job to do. Marlo’s response?

“You want it to be one way, but it’s the other way.”

You want to be able to step to me, right or not, without repercussions. You want the world to work in your favor, rewarding the meek for honesty and principle, rather than those who take what they want, running over the meek in the process. You want it to be one way.

But it’s the other way.

I can relate this quote to the single lady with the PhD’s and principles. The 100-point dating deal breakers list and the “hold out for Mr. Right until he comes riding in on a chariot” way of seeing things.

You gotta let that go, sweetheart.

Not because you’re not worth it. We all know you are. It’s because that’s not how things work, and because the deck is stacked against you.

The deck is stacked against you because men are in a position that gives them more choosing power. Society doesn’t encourage men to get married the way it did in previous generations. Men can have kids at age 80, so there’s no ticking biological clock. Women are also more educated than ever and able to explore and cultivate their personalities without societal repercussions, so dudes also have more options of interesting women to choose from than before.

While womankind has advanced in terms of life’s rewards, they haven’t evolved in terms of dating state of mind. What do I mean by that? Let’s explore it.

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Life: The Rough Draft - Blog - Why Can't I get a Man?!: How the 2013 'Single and Looking' Woman is Hustling*Backwards

 

[Jahmal]

Look how many daps a post with this sentence got.

And you all wonder why everyone thinks of all of y'all in here as misogynist, bitter didues, and slightly sliding on the side of homosexuality.

Not to mention the "I thought you was the shyt so I holla'd at you, now you've rejected me and made me mad so now you're a loser and not shyt" mentality.

You can't make this stuff up.

Go cry in a corner H*mo

 

[Malikthegod]

fukk these hoes man. Literally, GET MONEY.

 

[The_King_of_Everything]

Fix yourself from the inside, out. Read constantly, listen to audio that will enrich your mind and feed it, write out your goals and conquer them. The game doesn't stop whether you're single, dating or married. The man has to be the hunter, so you never get a chance to fall asleep at the wheel in life and follow behind a woman for anything.

Make sure you don't just take your rightful place just to make sure you're better than and not getting played by a woman, but also make sure you're righteously living that "I know where I'm going in life and not taking any shyt" motto, because at the end of the day women want the dude that makes them comfortable in the fact that he can hunt and protect the home. All of the game playing, dating world posturing and submission and domination is, is a constant dance to keep testing and proving those roles. When you're playing your role and dealing with and instructing a woman on how to play hers, everything takes care of itself.

 

[Turbulent]

Look how many daps a post with this sentence got.

And you all wonder why everyone thinks of all of y'all in here as misogynist, bitter didues, and slightly sliding on the side of homosexuality.

Not to mention the "I thought you was the shyt so I holla'd at you, now you've rejected me and made me mad so now you're a loser and not shyt" mentality.

You can't make this stuff up.

maybe they agreed with other parts of that posts and disagreed with that part how do you know they dapped specifically because of that? I didn't mean it like "women a good for nothing but sex". What i meant is, a lot of chicks act like you should audition to get the puss. All her faith is put in that power-u (wu slang for the older heads ) I actually have a female friend and i constantly tell her to be better than her p*ssy. cause if not, once she's gives it up, she's done. does she listen? that's a whole other subject...

Someone even made your point about me being bitter and i actually explained that i'm more disgusted at myself more than the woman because early on i'd put them on the pedestal. matter of fact, here's my exact answer regarding that.

lol, i fee what you,re saying but i'm not bitter at all. That's why i said if you find a good chick treat her accordingly as well (meaning treat her right). My post was just speaking on how amazed i am at their air of arrogance in general. It's not even that they said no that disgusts me. It's the ones that were acting all high and mighty but when i dug deeper, i saw how lame they were, their insecurities and how LOST they are and when they notice that i saw their lameness, they start to stick like glue. That's why i said a few pages ago that even my "wins" disgust me sometimes.

followed by this:

lol, if anything i'm more disgusted at myself for putting them on the pedestal early. They should neither be treated like scum or godesses. they are women, nothing more, nothing less. i just feel like we tend to put them on the pedestal when we dont know them. but i hear you though...

heck, how about quoting the whole post

chuch'

they might hate cause you say it in a brash way but it's nothing but truth. They walk around like their shyt doesn't stink like they are celebs. And like idiots we fall into their hype. But spend a few days talking to them and you realize how lost some of them are. They don't even know why they want what they want, no idea where they are going, they constantly wonder if what they are doing is cool/appropriate/nice and it's almost like they need confirmation from the outside that what they are doing is ok. almost like they are scared they'll get in trouble. IOW, a lot of them need a man to put a seal of approval on their actions cause if they don't have that, it makes them anxious. This is not all women but it is a lot of them. Heck it's becoming more and more men as well.

and that's not even talking about their other flaws that you mentioned. And yeah, guys are flawed too. but we don't act as entitled as them in general. In the "courting" stage, they offer sex and nothing else. But i take that power away from them (meaning i show them i'd like to fukk but if i don't it's no big deal) now what other power does she have over me? how else can she keep my attention? Some of them do have more to offer and when you find one, recognize and treat accordingly. but most of them are just messes. lipstick on a pig. and still act like they are prizes. treat accordingly as well. Most of them are LOSERS. They don't know how to find happiness on their own. They need someone to make it happen for them and they're buying it with sex. Eventually the dude wises up and charges more than sex for what he offers.

i honestly tried to answer your post in good faith. if you disagree, cool we can always continue and maybe one of us will realize he's wrong or maybe we're both partially right. I'm always open to the possibility that i could be wrong.




EDIT: in case you miss my point about chicks who have rejected me, i actually respect the ones that rejected me respectfully and kept it moving. it's the ones who rejected me but come back after and stick like glue after i notice their lameness and they notice me noticing it, THAT's when i'm disgusted. Makes you feel like a loser for even fukking these chicks who fronted on you but ain't shyt themselves. Makes me realize how much of a slave we can all be to puss and affection when we don't have our egos in check (hence "even my wins disgust me sometimes...")