Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[africngiant]

Your furthering my point..

Keyword here is TIME..

Time to chill
Time to step on the gas
Time to speed up
Time to hit 5th gear..

You going from step 1 to step 4 full throttle..

Those middle 2 steps that you not doing are where you making your mistakes at

if they truly wanted me and weren’t playing games i wouldn’t mind trying to organically court them from there but since they act like little girls they don’t get the middle steps no more that shyt is otherwise just adding free attention for them so they can feel better than you and switch up

 

[Apollo Creed]

if they truly wanted me and weren’t playing games i wouldn’t mind trying to organically court them from there but since they act like little girls they don’t get the middle steps no more that shyt is otherwise just adding free attention for them so they can feel better than you and switch up

“Courting”

Why do you nikkas do this to yourself lmfaoooo

 

[africngiant]

“Courting”

Why do you nikkas do this to yourself lmfaoooo

what advice do you have to offer? cause when the girl went out of her way to act submissive towards me my first thought wasn’t to dog her out i wanted to match her energy initially by being courteous. so you would’ve just hit the jr smith anyway off rip?

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

"act submissive" in what way? Walking to class with you? Man I'm certain you're misreading cues and frustrating yourself in the process.

Even if she flirtatious/playful, it doesn't mean she wants to buss it wide open for you.

 

[Ohene]

I was shocked that she's 23 because all of this time I just wanted to wife her you and call it a day. Now I know what im supposed to do but I've been doing that the past few months and im legit tired of it lol

If she just wants to smash then so be it, im down...it will be interesting to see if this will lead to anything

young chicks get wifed up all the time, but unfortunately they not fully developed mentally

her mind will wander
she'll get bored
she'll feel controlled/tied down

etc.

I would use her as a companion while i look for something else/more mature. Having fun doesnt only have to mean sex

 

[Ohene]

I get the whole women exploiting men for free dates thing but to be honest...if a nikka doesnt have a couple hours and $30-50 bucks to waste in an attempt to lock down some p*ssy , he probably shouldnt be dating in the first place.

A date doesnt have to be elaborate or "courting". It could be a couple cheap meals...a coffee...ice cream...a pool hall and some drinks.

It's many girls I have fukked off the strength of a single movie date, ice cream etc. Nothing more than $50

Its really just a way to set up an opportunity for you and a woman to talk, get to know each other in a romantic (aka non-platonic or professional) setting.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

young chicks get wifed up all the time, but unfortunately they not fully developed mentally

her mind will wander
she'll get bored
she'll feel controlled/tied down

etc.

I would use her as a companion while i look for something else/more mature. Having fun doesnt only have to mean sex

This is what im thinking...we are going to meet up this weekend so im going to see how it goes

 

[Ohene]

This is what im thinking...we are going to meet up this weekend so im going to see how it goes

word

i may go so far as to say a 23 year old now is the equivalent of a 16 year old in your day, 18 year old in my day lol. this generation is just fukked in how they see relationships/human interaction.

 

[International Playa]

nevermind she’s playing games.

everyday i understand @Crayola Coyote more and more

these women keep giving me blue balls. i feel defective atp and im tired. they get around me yet reject me later on. just gomd…

Dating comes with flaking & ghosting. You are supposed to be talking to multiple women & keeping your options opened when you are dating.

When one woman flakes on you, you are not phased, because already got other women you are talking to you.

When you are on dating apps, you can easily be talking to 5 women & have 3 women lined up for dates. If one flakes, it's OK, you got another woman to replace her.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Every 3 months I get STI tested. And get my Urine and blood tests done. Last week me and the women I see all got ours done. Got my results back today. And they've been sending me theirs throughout the day.

Everyone clear.

When It comes to sexual health I can't take anybody's word that they're 'clean' I want to see the evidence.

I hope everyone in here especially you younger cats are taking care of themselves.

 

[Dave24]

Every 3 months I get STI tested. And get my Urine and blood tests done. Last week me and the women I see all got ours done. Got my results back today. And they've been sending me theirs throughout the day.

Everyone clear.

When It comes to sexual health I can't take anybody's word that they're 'clean' I want to see the evidence.

I hope everyone in here especially you younger cats are taking care of themselves.

Real shyt

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Every 3 months I get STI tested. And get my Urine and blood tests done. Last week me and the women I see all got ours done. Got my results back today. And they've been sending me theirs throughout the day.

Everyone clear.

When It comes to sexual health I can't take anybody's word that they're 'clean' I want to see the evidence.

I hope everyone in here especially you younger cats are taking care of themselves.

Checking our sexual health is mandatory

Those STD's and STI's ain't nothing to play with

 

[NoirDynosaur]

I get the whole women exploiting men for free dates thing but to be honest...if a nikka doesnt have a couple hours and $30-50 bucks to waste in an attempt to lock down some p*ssy , he probably shouldnt be dating in the first place.

A date doesnt have to be elaborate or "courting". It could be a couple cheap meals...a coffee...ice cream...a pool hall and some drinks.

It's many girls I have fukked off the strength of a single movie date, ice cream etc. Nothing more than $50

Its really just a way to set up an opportunity for you and a woman to talk, get to know each other in a romantic (aka non-platonic or professional) setting.

What I never understood is dudes spending a bunch of $$$ on dinner dates. That's how dudes get finessed


shyt....a walk in the park could be a perfect first date. Y'all just enjoying each other's company. Enjoying the sun light...for my east coast people that's gonna be the chilly chill breeze for y'all

The most important thing in a date is the vibe. Are both parties vibing or being socially awkward? Does the chick feel comfortable?

When I take girls on an adventure I adopt the mentality "I am the vibe she's gonna enjoy this vibe" cause girls just wanna have fun

 

[LiveFromLondon]

No matter how much you may think you know women every once in a while you get a shock to the system. Low key Women truly are the wolves

Crazy how women ALWAYS keep their options open regardless of their relationship status Dating game all fukked up now

What i was alluding to in my post above

 

[Ahadi]

i actually didn’t even get to that part breh that’s the annoying thing. im gonna try being lot more stern off rip. i want undeniable respect smh. tired of being taken for granted it doesn’t even make sense to me. why bother me in the first place? fukkbytches man

Always mean what you say & put YOU first