Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[VertigoKnight]

Yeah, the apps are easy as hell to eat on. You have to think of it like marketing, set up your stall and let the chicks come to you.

But I'm not on the apps like I used to be. I deleted my Hinge and Bumble as I didn't really need them as I have a great rotation going.

I know if I went back on those apps today I would have a ton of interest.

But I have certain wants with any woman I get with. And women on those apps are not honest enough to talk about it there.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

That's probably true. I take that back then. They're not for me.

Why aren't they for you?

Curious what turned you off about them?

on my end, not liking the women I’d feel would be most compatible with me, bare minimum message starters, age factor, and I guess photo arrangement (???) … there was a period where I wanted to figure out the why but my ego kicked in:

you see my photos and the message I sent you, you either think I’m attractive or not. No corny one liner or “never heard that before” message will change the attraction
I’ve gotten matches and ONS out of them, I’m just not “flooding” in likes.

 

[Digital Omen]

Apps remind me of Slim Charles "game's the same, just got more fierce"
In my young days I ate heavily off AOL/AIM and MySpace. They weren't "dating apps" but that's how myself and many others saw them
It was a plethora of hoes, copious amounts just DTF on the regular
When Tinder first came on the scene it was one giant fukk fest as well
I was married at the time so I didn't partake but Tinder quickly became THE hook up app
Then all the others followed and here we are

I jumped on Hinge after I got divorced and for me at least it was a waste of time and money
swipe, swipe, swipe...hmmm ok she looks good...swipe swipe swipe...damm she got a nice body...swipe swipe swipe
Maybe it has to do with being older. I think I set my age range to 30-42
Got some matches, talked some shyt, ended up meeting a couple
I got got. I was rusty and trying hard to avoid depression after my divorce so as soon as they gave me play I was on some let's meet for dinner (big mistake)
Dates were cool and all, but it didn't feel organic to me. It felt like an interview, going through the motions.
Again, I had been out of the game for a decade and the shyt had progressed and passed me by
Long story short I got used for free meals then ghosted
No one to blame but myself. I wasn't even mad at them, they saw an opportunity and took it. The game is the game.
Deleted that shyt and KIM

I have a girl now and we met the old school way, where I shine. I'm not Pimp Player Mack of the Year but I can talk to women and have never had a problem vibing in person
Apps aren't for me, yet when I'm out and about I get eyed and smiles every now and then
Could be I'm not the most photogenic and I'm definitely not stunting with rented Ferraris and fake chains so it is what it is
I'm sure Gen Z and other brehs are eating on apps just like I did back in the day
You gotta get in where you fit in

 

[Ahadi]

I'm bout to rant for a sec and feel free to chime in

I don't believe many people are truly eating on any dating apps. I think there was a thread on how someone said he was eating good off one but i truly believe thats tales.

The things these women think are weird and nothing pisses me off more than a fat bytch with attitude on one.
You're not allowed to be fat with attitude while seeking a man.

That's like a fat guy trying to be the point guard running plays on a basketball team. Know your role and come off the bench when a starter gets tired.

Only in shape women can have attitude because they look good and work at it.

These hoes are completely lost on them. It's the Walmart DVD bin of dating and this is coming from an ugly nikka.

What yall think?

I was eating. Especially moving from a bigger to smaller city.

I favor my real time interactions more, plus the sex was better.

Online can be less organic, but I’d be open to downloading again if I go to a Toronto, Seattle or overseas.

Midwest is ehhhhhh

 

[The ADD]

I'm bout to rant for a sec and feel free to chime in

I don't believe many people are truly eating on any dating apps. I think there was a thread on how someone said he was eating good off one but i truly believe thats tales.

The things these women think are weird and nothing pisses me off more than a fat bytch with attitude on one.
You're not allowed to be fat with attitude while seeking a man.

That's like a fat guy trying to be the point guard running plays on a basketball team. Know your role and come off the bench when a starter gets tired.

Only in shape women can have attitude because they look good and work at it.

These hoes are completely lost on them. It's the Walmart DVD bin of dating and this is coming from an ugly nikka.

What yall think?

Depends on how you define eat. I had decent success on apps and ended up in a relationship off it

 

[Braman]

Just bagged a chick at a coffee shop. When you get the number and check WhatsApp to see if it’s real and you see her pic

Saw her siting down and I was plotting to leave when she left , then she got up to leave I started scrambling left all my shyt at the table laptop n everything I stop her as she’s gettin down into her car it damn near looked like a car jacking. But it worked

 

[Braman]

There really is no way to bag outside of a club environment and not be “creepy”. So I’d advise folk to say f’it and not even pay attention to that. If it’s creepy then so be it

Favorite quote ever is Robert horry. They asked him how he makes all those high pressure shots buddy really chuckled and said ‘bc I don’t care ’. Shoot your shot! Fuk it

 

[re'up]

That car jacking line was funny man lol

There's definitely ways not be creepy, but there isn't really a way to not be interested, which means you have to make yourself vulnerable, yelling at a woman from across the street, 'WHAT UP", with your boys isn't that, right? you have to expose that vulnerability, and the possibility of being rejected on some level. That's what's hard for many people. That's what confidence is. Like your story, she could have looked at you crazy and drove off.

People approach me, and I approach them, sometimes it's as simple as "hey I see you all the time, my name is _____", and the convo will flow. Timing and context is important to, like if someone seems stressed, busy, on the phone, I let that pass.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Met a new coworker today and she's gorgeous. Has so much ass. Why must there be so many bad bytches at my workplace?



Even my boss looks like Dascha Polanco but badder

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

I was in Myrtle Beach earlier today and I cold approached this cute Asian chick. I asked her out and she had a boyfriend. Surprise, it turned out to be a white dude that looked like a drug addict. she wasn't even from here, either. She and the guy were visiting from Georgia.

 

[Street Knowledge]

I’ve seen dudes cut off girls cause they thought they had one particular chick in “da bag” and then she ends up ghosting or flaking on him

 

[WIA20XX]

I cold approached this cute Asian chick. I asked her out and she had a boyfriend. Surprise, it turned out to be a white dude

In the States, I'm literally surprised when I see an Asian Girl with an Asian BF. Asian women marry white more than Latinas.

About three-in-ten Asian newlyweds (29%) have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity. The same is true of 27% of Hispanics.

Trends and patterns in intermarriage

In 1967, when miscegenation laws were overturned in the United States, 3% of all newlyweds were married to someone of a different race or ethnicity. Since

www.pewresearch.org

If anybody is losing recipes, it's Ryu n'nem.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

In the States, I'm literally surprised when I see an Asian Girl with an Asian BF. Asian women marry white more than Latinas.

About three-in-ten Asian newlyweds (29%) have a spouse of a different race or ethnicity. The same is true of 27% of Hispanics.

Trends and patterns in intermarriage

In 1967, when miscegenation laws were overturned in the United States, 3% of all newlyweds were married to someone of a different race or ethnicity. Since

www.pewresearch.org

If anybody is losing recipes, it's Ryu n'nem.

That was a sarcastic surprise. I should have italicized it.

I've seen that statistic about Hispanics marrying out a lot. I also read something about the cac passing ones just identifying as white and then marrying other Hispanics and that seems plausible.

On a related note, everybody has all this smoke for black men that date out, but nobody ever really comes for Asian women, even tho they literally mock their men on social media about their white man fetish.

 

[AStrangeName]

That was a sarcastic surprise. I should have italicized it.

I've seen that statistic about Hispanics marrying out a lot. I also read something about the cac passing ones just identifying as white and then marrying other Hispanics and that seems plausible.

On a related note, everybody has all this smoke for black men that date out, but nobody ever really comes for Asian women, even tho they literally mock their men on social media about their white man fetish.

People love telling us what we should or shouldn't be doing, but get mad when we still do what we want to do. Also, the ones that stay complaining about what we do, are the ones who are doing the same thing so don't take any of them seriously and always call them out on their shyt.

The only one who're calling out Asian women are Asian men and White women, but more of a read between the lines way of doing it.

 

[WIA20XX]

That was a sarcastic surprise. I should have italicized it.

I've seen that statistic about Hispanics marrying out a lot. I also read something about the cac passing ones just identifying as white and then marrying other Hispanics and that seems plausible.

On a related note, everybody has all this smoke for black men that date out, but nobody ever really comes for Asian women, even tho they literally mock their men on social media about their white man fetish.

Haha, my bad homie.

Bruce Lee n'nem are starting to speak up on it. But that said has a weird complex (like the rest of the world) with Black Men. Worry about insane vagrants in NYC subways, while Guile is running off with Chun Li.