Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

You're going to cancel a date and make an excuse because her texts were "dry"? This is extremely weird and kinda low value behavior tbh

You already had the date set up with her and she was replying to your texts. What other "red flags" were there?





Y'all missing out on a LOT of p*ssy


Only text to set up dates. Stop sending lame texts that warrant dry answers. Call her or FaceTime her, or send voice messages. How y'all can be in this thread and not know this is wild

Yh, some women are bad texters, get them on a phonecall or facetime & the energy sometimes is different.

 

[twan83]

Yh, some women are bad texters, get them on a phonecall or facetime & the energy sometimes is different.

Let alone txt are badly misinterpreted a lot of times unintentionally hell I still have that issue with my own wife with txt I be like wth or wtf kind of response is that and she would revise it since it comes off wrong when it’s not her intention

 

[twan83]

There are actual academic theories about the "universal" appeal of Asian women. I done seen a lot of stunners, but let's just say they're eating off of headshots mostly. When you go full body..............

Homegrown ones

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

Met a new coworker today and she's gorgeous. Has so much ass. Why must there be so many bad bytches at my workplace?



Even my boss looks like Dascha Polanco but badder

 

[Braman]

That car jacking line was funny man lol

There's definitely ways not be creepy, but there isn't really a way to not be interested, which means you have to make yourself vulnerable, yelling at a woman from across the street, 'WHAT UP", with your boys isn't that, right? you have to expose that vulnerability, and the possibility of being rejected on some level. That's what's hard for many people. That's what confidence is. Like your story, she could have looked at you crazy and drove off.

People approach me, and I approach them, sometimes it's as simple as "hey I see you all the time, my name is _____", and the convo will flow. Timing and context is important to, like if someone seems stressed, busy, on the phone, I let that pass.

@ first bold Yea if you’re interested you gotta let it be known. And thats why I pushback on the 2nd bold. Anyone who works a decent job has fired up convo at work or work events. We can all do that. That kinda stale chit chat going thru the motions. So a lot of guys use that type of approach and get the number but end up getting friendzoned or she ain’t interested.

You gotta be respectful and nice yea but also gotta come with the requisite aggression and romantic intent. It’s EASY to withhold that and just chit chat like she a coworker.

I see it at the gym all the time it’s in the body language, you can tell just by looking if it’s romantic or not. Granted, some dudes like collecting female friends

Pineapple show is another great example. Nggas get on there and talk like it’s the office mixer. Scared to color outside the lines

 

[re'up]

@ first bold Yea if you’re interested you gotta let it be known. And thats why I pushback on the 2nd bold. Anyone who works a decent job has fired up convo at work or work events. We can all do that. That kinda stale chit chat going thru the motions. So a lot of guys use that type of approach and get the number but end up getting friendzoned or she ain’t interested.

You gotta be respectful and nice yea but also gotta come with the requisite aggression and romantic intent. It’s EASY to withhold that and just chit chat like she a coworker.

I see it at the gym all the time it’s in the body language, you can tell just by looking if it’s romantic or not. Granted, some dudes like collecting female friends

Pineapple show is another great example. Nggas get on there and talk like it’s the office mixer

Well yeah, on the second point, once you have some introduction, names, and whatever, you can go to like the intention part, that's the most important. You have to have an ask. An invite. One of my boys collects numbers, with on follow up/no intention.

But, you need the intro first. You can't really lead with a date, or an invite, as the first or second sentence. You have to start somewhere, I see/meet a lot of women in my immediate neighborhood, we are all walking around.

you may see someone 2/3 times, and build some chemistry, before, once you have an idea of what you both are into. Or, 10 minutes into the first convo, you say 'lets go tomorrow to that place we were just talking about."

 

[NoirDynosaur]

As an experienced Paager, these chicks can smell a yellow fever guy a mile off.

If you really want to try and deal with an Asian chick do not mention her ethnicity.

It would be like a white chick telling me how much she loves black guys, that would be an instant turn-off for me.

As that is stepping into creepy fetishism.

I dealt with that plenty of times offline and online

Had some broad on IG sending me pictures of her p*ssy

Her legs spreading out like this

 

[VertigoKnight]

You're going to cancel a date and make an excuse because her texts were "dry"? This is extremely weird and kinda low value behavior tbh

You already had the date set up with her and she was replying to your texts. What other "red flags" were there?





Y'all missing out on a LOT of p*ssy


Only text to set up dates. Stop sending lame texts that warrant dry answers. Call her or FaceTime her, or send voice messages. How y'all can be in this thread and not know this is wild

Naw I'm just not ready to force things with low-energy and low-excitement chicks. I get plenty of women.

I've been on more than enough dates to know when a chick is going to be a slog to deal with and I'm going to be making all the effort. And in the past, I wish I paid attention to the red flags before the date.

When these chicks can't even hold a short basic opening conversation that tells me a lot. And I'm someone who doesn't like to do the text back and forth I like to setup a meet asap within a few days if possible.

All the more in-depth stuff I will hold onto when I chat on the phone or voice message or see them in person if they pass my initial checks.

I can tell chicks who maybe text is not their forte vs chicks who are dry texters, low effort and are just looking to get out of the house. There will be no building a rapport with these kinda chicks as that is not their intention.

The excitement of a woman who is looking forward to meeting and getting to know about you VS a woman who is doing bare minimum in your opening convo is startling.

And I've learnt to trust my gut.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Expound on this?

Black Men are the most progressive/liberal men on this planet. Any new movement, craze, liberation, or shift in culture we (collectively) cheer that shyt on.. even when it’s destructive.


It would greatly benefit us if we stopped treating BW like toddlers and call out shyt for what is it, without unwavering from the potential backlash and WITHOUT DEMEANING THEM AND THEIR EXISTENCE.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

that’s why anytime I hear a breh say the phrase “they won’t allow us to…” who tf is giving you orders like you a fukking dog bruh?

 

[Astroslik]

It’s not ducktales.. brehs really do “eat” on there and they’re not this magical “top 20%”

It’s cool to accept the apps aren’t for you. They aren’t for me tbh and I believe I’m handsome and funny

Location matters as well

I got over 1k likes during my month long trip in johannesburg. I was feasting like i never had before. Straight up record breaking numbers

 

[Balla]

People love telling us what we should or shouldn't be doing, but get mad when we still do what we want to do. Also, the ones that stay complaining about what we do, are the ones who are doing the same thing so don't take any of them seriously and always call them out on their shyt.

The only one who're calling out Asian women are Asian men and White women, but more of a read between the lines way of doing it.

Thinking about it, I don’t think I’ve ever heard any non bw or non bm talking down on each other.

The only different thing I heard was when the Asian chicks were defending themselves after bw said they were uneducated and barely knew English.

I’d be surprised to see that.

 

[Balla]

Black Men are the most progressive/liberal men on this planet. Any new movement, craze, liberation, or shift in culture we (collectively) cheer that shyt on.. even when it’s destructive.


It would greatly benefit us if we stopped treating BW like toddlers and call out shyt for what is it, without unwavering from the potential backlash and WITHOUT DEMEANING THEM AND THEIR EXISTENCE.

I think brehs are finally starting to wise up a lil. A lot of dudes was defending MBJ after that twitter comment.

I even noticed it on here that there are a lot of dudes finally sticking up for bm.

There are still dudes who wear a cape and aren’t a hero, but some brehs are really getting better and sticking together.

 

[Ahadi]

I think brehs are finally starting to wise up a lil. A lot of dudes was defending MBJ after that twitter comment.

I even noticed it on here that there are a lot of dudes finally sticking up for bm.

There are still dudes who wear a cape and aren’t a hero, but some brehs are really getting better and sticking together.

Keep kicking a dog and think it won’t eventually bite back.

KS and a lot of ppl woke dudes up. That’s why women hates him

 

[AStrangeName]

Thinking about it, I don’t think I’ve ever heard any non bw or non bm talking down on each other.

The only different thing I heard was when the Asian chicks were defending themselves after bw said they were uneducated and barely knew English.

I’d be surprised to see that.

Yeah, bw shytting on those se Asian women two months ago was nasty and I wasn't surprise when the women start fighting back and it end up making it those news station in those countries. With non black people talking down on each other, it still happens it doesn't go viral like it used to (unless you're on TikTok) due to the constant in fighting that goes on with our people which always goes viral.