Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

ViShawn

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Ran into the girl I was casually dating between Dec and Feb. It's been over three weeks since we last spoke. She hit me up again early March but was asking me a question about a restaurant we went to. Then she tagged me in an IG video (why IDK). I pretty much muted her notifications. Nothing against her but even though I knew we were misaligned in our values and goals I still like that pretty little bytch :russ:

We hugged, exchanged pleasant conversation. She made a comment "I see you've been traveling a lot! How are you?" I have to travel for work and I was posting the places I've been + food stuff, etc. KInda stunting on IG lmao. I made a light joke and she said we'll catch up. She texted me 45 min later and it was just light/fluff.

I was trying to see if I could smash again not gonna lie but it would just be a stop gap for both of us because we both want life partners.
 
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So had a date today with this Nigerian chick was supposed to be Monday but she said she wasn’t doing anything so said screw it. She didn't look as good as her pictures so I was a little disappointed but wow this was one of my goat dates ever. When a woman is really into you damn you know.

Funny thing is I ended up at the same starbucks where I messed up on wednesday
 

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Good shyt with all the details breh.

:salute::salute:

I think with brehs not going out, it’s because of that red-pill shyt or whatever pill on YouTube telling them to stay home and not even bother with women. I think some only recommended to use apps.
Lotta nikkas dont care anymore or rather do self fulfillimg shyt. Chasing ass 24/7 is some
1985 unproductive shyt and we are in the position we are in as a society because men put too much energy in it vs focusing on self. All the depression suicides etc is cause dudes feel they “failed” at being the man society said they should be “the rich dude with all the hoes”.

Now if a dude is crying about not having women and doesnt do shyt but stay in the crib and whine, then yea.
 

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What is a safe but straight forward way to ask a coworker if she's feeling you? I still don't know for sure but this girl has given me sign after sign

:jbhmm:
The scared cowards will be against it, but just shoot your shot in a respectful way. If she turns you down don't act different or cold towards her.

If she down then keep it lowkey when y'all at work..and don't cut her off, let her cut you off if it ever comes to that.
 

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These females be so thirsty for the ugliest dudes in the world. I swear looks don't matter to women
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They gotta be paying these chicks
How ugly we talking? :patrice:

Women fall in love with what they hear

Having charisma, deep voice, swag and confidence is the 4 pillars of game

Honestly just being a cool person with a dope dope personality goes a long way with broads:yeshrug:
 

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These females be so thirsty for the ugliest dudes in the world. I swear looks don't matter to women
:russ:

They gotta be paying these chicks
You can’t regulate others attraction. The dudes are ugly to you? You don’t find them attractive compared to other men :dame:
 

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The scared cowards will be against it, but just shoot your shot in a respectful way. If she turns you down don't act different or cold towards her.

If she down then keep it lowkey when y'all at work..and don't cut her off, let her cut you off if it ever comes to that.
We're just friends right now. I make her laugh and shyt in person but I just text her songs she would like. When should I shoot my shot? She's been eyeing me but I want to be friends first. She seems like the wife and babies type
 

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These females be so thirsty for the ugliest dudes in the world. I swear looks don't matter to women
:russ:

They gotta be paying these chicks

you have to ignore the laws of sexual attraction when it comes to tricking. Modern dating is rooted in prostitution (go on a date, have sex after, repeat).

The shyt fueld on actually attraction tends to be some "sneaker link" or pure ONS stuff, where you don't see folks in public playing girlfriend and boyfriend.
 

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These females be so thirsty for the ugliest dudes in the world. I swear looks don't matter to women
:russ:

They gotta be paying these chicks

Some times also women are just insecure. An ugly guy won't get as many women.

Or how if they get a big dude he might not make them workout or live healthy lifestyle. It's much easier for them.
 

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One factor to consider, that I see a lot personally, is what the guy is willing to commit to. I can qualify a few people's relationships, and say that the defining factors pretty objectively aren't the typical, looks, money, attraction, but that the guy wants to "do it right", like living together, kids, family.

Also, the history between two people. There's a great movie called Last Night, (2011) where one character says to another, "it's the time you can never compete with, the years between them"

fukk it's, here's the exact quote:

"No, you don't, you've never been married. fukk the vows, it's the years you can't undo. You will never be able to take away the years with her husband. And the moment you try, this will be gone"
 
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I want to fukk my coworker :snoop: mind is telling me no, but my BODYYYYYY:damn:

Mind been winning so far but the flesh is weak

She basically giving me the green light :lupe:

Said she had a dream about me over the weekend....... in ear shot of one of our bosses too smh wtf :snoop:

Ain't been on here in a minute but I ended up clipping that :mjlol:

I had already given notice and it was my last week. We had drinks in the office after work and you know how the rest goes.
 
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