Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turbulent]

ok, so tonight im calling girl number 2, who I have yet to talk to on the phone (just got her number last night). If the first girl who I was suppose to talk to last night calls or text wondering why i didnt call her today, do I ignore it, or tell her that she disrespected me yesterday by how she handled the whole situation.

did you tell her you would call her today? if so call her. if not and she asks you that shyt, tell her she's the one who said >talk tomorrow?"

well it looks like i striked out with girl number 2, i called her an hour ago, i asked what she was up to, she says she was eating with her friend and that she would call me when she (her friend) left her place. No return phone call yet....smh

ok so she just sent me a text saying if we could talk tomorrow. Her friend just left because they watched a show and that she is sleepy because she had a long day at work. Atleast she apologized unlike chick #1

dont really believe her though...smh

seems like both these chicks are controlling the interractions and they can sense you're eager to talk to them. they can sense they have the power and power corrupts. The problem is that you seem to be in a mindset where you're hoping not to make a bad move which would end up in them finding you less attractive. that mindset is poison. you are unsure of yourself. stop worrying about if you're doing the right move by calling, not calling, answering, not answering, checking her, not checking her, etc. If you want them to like you that much, that means you already like them. ask yourself why you like them exactly. why is it so important for you to "get" these chicks? why should you be the only one trying to qualify yourself to them and if you think they already qualified themselves to you, what exactly makes them qualified to you? and when asking yourself these questions, keep it real with yourself. don't make excuses for them OR for yourself.

once you get in the proper mindset, you'll realize that magic silver bullet you're looking for to get these chicks simply does not exist. and you'll be at peace with that. you're actions wont be based on trying to portray something to these women. you actions will be based on self-respect, fairness and realness. beyond that, you just let the women who feel your actions choose it. you wont even need to ask what you should or shouldnt do in most cases because you will feel it in your gut once you get your mind right. we all need to do some introspective work breh.

 

[Kartel13]

Fellas....I need some help with this situation. My daughter's mom and I have been trying to work things out and she's ok to be around sometimes BUT she can be rude and slightly disrespectful. Now, I've checked her on that BS in the past but today she went back to her old ways. We were on the phone and this broad just hung up in my face. When I checked her on this in the past, she acted like she didn't see anything wrong with it and gave an half assed apology. This is on top of the random, out-of-nowhere attitudes when things don't go her way. I'm really leaning towards droppin her after she crossed the line again today. What yall think?

Bushes, homie. The only reasonable choice.

 

[Turbulent]

it's as simple as this: No woman wants a man who is scared to lose her or lose his shot with her, period.

any woman who tells you otherwise is either tricking herself or trying to trick you.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

The code to getting women is in our DNA. Every man that is alive RIGHT now comes from a long line of p*ssy getting nikkas. You already know all the techniques that will lead to seducing females, you just haven't tapped in to them yet. Civilization has reached a point where the majority believe that we have outgrown our animal instinct, that traditional gender roles are obsolete. That is the matrix, feminism has convinced the new generation of males that what women really want are kind and gentle romantic gestures, empathy, and emotional connection. I call bullshyt. You know what women want? Men. Women don't define manhood, A woman would laugh at you in your face if you tried to define womanhood to her, why should you take her seriously if she attempts the vice versa?

You already know how to get women because you are a man, anyone having trouble with females is because they haven't tapped in to their animal instinct.
The animal instinct is the moment in a date when you look down at the chick and you know its the time to kiss her. When a girl puts her hands on you a couple of centimeters below or above the platonic zone and you get a funny feeling. Its the moment when you look across the bar at some chick you've never met and you can tell she wants you to fukk her.

The animal instinct IS NOT your dumb ass friend who think that every girl that glances at him wants him, he is thirsty, he hasn't tapped in to that instinct because he's ALWAYS on the prowl.

But the animal instinct doesn't just tell you when a woman is interested, it also lets you know when she's not. The animal instinct is when the girl that used to text you every morning just doesn't have the time anymore. The animal instinct is when the chick that will go out to dinner with you every weekend as long as you're paying still isn't comfortable having you back at her place. Every single man alive gets a funny feeling when he's being played, that is his animal instinct, to many of us are too easy to ignore our gut feeling as well as dignity in order to appease females. Even the tricks will undergo some sort of cognitive dissonance because they KNOW they are being played

My thoughts are a little jumbled right now so sorry if I'm having trouble articulating, but my whole point is that everything needed to know about dealing with women is already within us. Maturity, growth, and experience help us access these skills, but I would argue that we already had them all along.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

did you tell her you would call her today? if so call her. if not and she asks you that shyt, tell her she's the one who said >talk tomorrow?"



seems like both these chicks are controlling the interractions and they can sense you're eager to talk to them. they can sense they have the power and power corrupts. The problem is that you seem to be in a mindset where you're hoping not to make a bad move which would end up in them finding you less attractive. that mindset is poison. you are unsure of yourself. stop worrying about if you're doing the right move by calling, not calling, answering, not answering, checking her, not checking her, etc. If you want them to like you that much, that means you already like them. ask yourself why you like them exactly. why is it so important for you to "get" these chicks? why should you be the only one trying to qualify yourself to them and if you think they already qualified themselves to you, what exactly makes them qualified to you? and when asking yourself these questions, keep it real with yourself. don't make excuses for them OR for yourself.

once you get in the proper mindset, you'll realize that magic silver bullet you're looking for to get these chicks simply does not exist. and you'll be at peace with that. you're actions wont be based on trying to portray something to these women. you actions will be based on self-respect, fairness and realness. beyond that, you just let the women who feel your actions choose it. you wont even need to ask what you should or shouldnt do in most cases because you will feel it in your gut once you get your mind right. we all need to do some introspective work breh.

This gneeguh spitting heat

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

My jumpoff just texted me with that "What are your feelings toward me" bullshyt

I knew this would happen eventually. Why can't girls just be happy with emotionless sex?

I bet one of her wack ass friends got in her head because everything has been going smooth for awhile now
Lord knows the p*ssy is too good to let it go

But I ain't trying to date her either

Brehs

 

[kevm3]

Man, when you don't have drama causing women around you, it's beautiful. The key is to control the capacity in which you allow women to enter your life. You go out and invite crazy into your life and you wish you didn't. In regards to that 17 year old situation, don't invite those problems into your life. When dealing with ANY woman, you ALWAYS need to consider what she provides beyond what's between her legs. That's how so many negroes end up in life situations they hate... because they got to jump up off inside a woman without assessing what she will bring to your life. Use that big head, not the little one and your life will go much smoother.

 

[MikelArteta]

Man, when you don't have drama causing women around you, it's beautiful. The key is to control the capacity in which you allow women to enter your life. You go out and invite crazy into your life and you wish you didn't. In regards to that 17 year old situation, don't invite those problems into your life. When dealing with ANY woman, you ALWAYS need to consider what she provides beyond what's between her legs. That's how so many negroes end up in life situations they hate... because they got to jump up off inside a woman without assessing what she will bring to your life. Use that big head, not the little one and your life will go much smoother.

if most men thought with the big head not little head they would realize hanging around most women is not worth it at all

 

[Kartel13]

My jumpoff just texted me with that "What are your feelings toward me" bullshyt

I knew this would happen eventually. Why can't girls just be happy with emotionless sex?

I bet one of her wack ass friends got in her head because everything has been going smooth for awhile now
Lord knows the p*ssy is too good to let it go

But I ain't trying to date her either

Brehs

You should have expected that unless it's your first jump off. Jump offs are normally temporary. Jump offs can be work too since you always have to reaffirm your position on the whole jump off status.

it happened to me when my last jump off caught feelings so I eventually had to cut it off and find another one. Good luck.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

You should have expected that unless it's your first jump off. Jump offs are normally temporary. Jump offs can be work too since you always have to reaffirm your position on the whole jump off status.

it happened to me when my last jump off caught feelings so I eventually had to cut it off and find another one. Good luck.

Nah she isn't my first jumpoff but I guess I was just in denial this time thinking shyt would stay cool forever. It just sucks when you find a good one to watch it fall apart.

I mean the bytch has her own place & she cooks

bytches always gotta catch feelings man

I'm just gonna try & ride it out without giving a direct answer for awhile. I need to hit it at least a few more times before I say goodbye

 

[360dagod]

nikkas is talking about hitting underaged Spanish p*ssy...lol

Wow

 

[MikelArteta]

just remember guys

 

[Kartel13]

Nah she isn't my first jumpoff but I guess I was just in denial this time thinking shyt would stay cool forever. It just sucks when you find a good one to watch it fall apart.

I mean the bytch has her own place & she cooks

bytches always gotta catch feelings man

I'm just gonna try & ride it out without giving a direct answer for awhile. I need to hit it at least a few more times before I say goodbye

That's where you

You have to be cold and hit and dip. You start cuddling in bed and having her cook for you, that's where it gets messy.

 

[360dagod]

That's where you

You have to be cold and hit and dip. You start cuddling in bed and having her cook for you, that's where it gets messy.

Yea...I'm a lover type nikka and these mess around situations can turn bad...

I could use some jumps but I know the chances of it turning bad at some point are kinda strong

 

[MikelArteta]

i know some of y'all are struggling and hooked on one female or something

this is a exercise that helped me out back in my oneitis, simp days.

Took out a piece of paper or opened a fresh document on my pc

and I listed every girl i ever dated, smashed, kissed, knew that was interested in me, my list was long , now how do you feel about those broads? nothing right? they could be dead and youd be rip and get on with your day etc., now try and remember thier last names if you can, google it look at their facebook, instagram whatever, maybe they are hotter than they were when you were laying it down, maybe they are uglier, maybe their married with kids and everything is good but the key is at one point they were interested in you, at one point they wer in their bed thinking of you, their heart fluttered at your presence etc. So why are you stuck on this one broad/bm/ the one/ i love her so mch reincar why?

she is not better or special than all those other chicks you messed with, , so snap out of it and get someone knew. THERE ARE BILLIONS OF WOMEN OUT THERE.