Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Sleepy Floyd]

I met this chick recently who likes to do a lot of white people shyt. But she's not white...I grew up in an area where there were no white people and no white people things to do.

Like she invited me to a rave...and she be going to those white karaoke bars with her friends. I feel like I would be so bored and out of place so I don't go. I wonder how compatible we'd be in the long run

At least we both have in common that we speak Spanish and like to go to the Latin clubs

 

[Apollo Creed]

Women are obsessed with that "Love Languages" shyt. It's like the Zodiac. Just learn the basics so you can play along when women bring it up.

The author had the right idea, it just wasn't executed well. It really should be called Love Preferences.

Basically, each person does have a certain way that they show love and affection, and they also have a certain subconscious preference as to how they like to receive love and affection. The author misses the mark because it's not as simple as he makes it out to be. For example, I enjoy giving gifts to the special people in my life. However, I don't really care to receive gifts. On my birthday or Christmas I don't want or need any physical gifts.

the issue imo is behavioral observations being used as another "requirement". the context is always framed in "this is how I need a man to serve me"

 

[Apollo Creed]

I met this chick recently who likes to do a lot of white people shyt. But she's not white...I grew up in an area where there were no white people and no white people things to do.

Like she invited me to a rave...and she be going to those white karaoke bars with her friends. I feel like I would be so bored and out of place so I don't go. I wonder how compatible we'd be in the long run

At least we both have in common that we speak Spanish and like to go to the Latin clubs

with human interaction I always say be open to exploring new things you never know you may like it. Just don't compromise morals or if you feel your life is in danger.

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Why do women ghost/ignore you instead of telling you what the problem is? If she had just told me I could have cleared the entire misunderstanding up.

Off topic, but madison beer is so damn hot. I can’t even watch those two ridiculousness episodes she’s in anymore because it’s a bummer.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Why do women ghost/ignore you instead of telling you what the problem is? If she had just told me I could have cleared the entire misunderstanding up.

Off topic, but madison beer is so damn hot. I can’t even watch those two ridiculousness episodes she’s in anymore because it’s a bummer.

Would you want to even be withsome one who ghost instead of working out the issue once comitted? Ghosting is a blessing in disguise if yih ask me

 

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

Would you want to even be withsome one who ghost instead of working out the issue once comitted? Ghosting is a blessing in disguise if yih ask me

i mean if she's like really hot then I'd try to make things work out, but the girl in question is not so I cut things off.

 

[Apollo Creed]

i mean if she's like really hot then I'd try to make things work out, but the girl in question is not so I cut things off.

you must be new here.
"hot"

 

[Ahadi]

i mean if she's like really hot then I'd try to make things work out, but the girl in question is not so I cut things off.

Nah, have some self respect for yourself. Cut that hoe.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Why do women ghost/ignore you instead of telling you what the problem is? If she had just told me I could have cleared the entire misunderstanding up.

Off topic, but madison beer is so damn hot. I can’t even watch those two ridiculousness episodes she’s in anymore because it’s a bummer.

call them out and be direct. sometimes they stressed out or busy. if a chick likes you yea she makes time for you and moves mountains etc. but at least if you are direct and say whats up you might get a straight answer or some bird babble you can decipher. Ive reignited situations by being direct.

 

[Apollo Creed]

call them out and be direct. sometimes they stressed out or busy. if a chick likes you yea she makes time for you and moves mountains etc. but at least if you are direct and say whats up you might get a straight answer or some bird babble you can decipher. Ive reignited situations by being direct.

lotta dudes never been with chicks that like them, they think all this chase and move the world for a bytch shyt is normal lmfaooo

nikkas legit think a women shouldn't be putting in any effort.

 

[re'up]

Won't write an essay, but people in general, like to avoid confrontation, and what I would say is based on my experiences, a lot of reading, a lot of reading about tech and social media, is basically this, there can be many variables for "ghosting", as far as reasons, the one you noted, is that communicating primarily through texting makes ignoring something that much easier. Like if you could have a convo in person, you could easily just talk this out in probably 5-10 minutes, at most. One way or another.

so, I think currently, the bar for discomfort is so low, and the rationale for ghosting is so high, (he's toxic!) as soon as anything comes up that can be defined as "awkward" or "conflicting", people will just ghost. Someone I've known for like 20 years ghosted me the other day about meeting up, like I have seen her strip down for me in a hotel room in highs school, we are old homies, there's no need to ghost me, or avoid conflict, but, that's how people respond. She's getting divorced, I get it.

This is too cerebral and a whole tangent, but I also think that text allows you to control your image a lot more, and people like that, just like social media. But controlling your image is not really consistent with healthy communication.

 

[Ahadi]

lotta dudes never been with chicks that like them, they think all this chase and move the world for a bytch shyt is normal lmfaooo

nikkas legit think a women shouldn't be putting in any effort.

She got into a fake fight to get space and get smashed by the guy she really wants

 

[Apollo Creed]

Won't write an essay, but people in general, like to avoid confrontation, and what I would say is based on my experiences, a lot of reading, a lot of reading about tech and social media, is basically this, there can be many variables for "ghosting", as far as reasons, the one you noted, is that communicating primarily through texting makes ignoring something that much easier. Like if you could have a convo in person, you could easily just talk this out in probably 5-10 minutes, at most. One way or another.

so, I think currently, the bar for discomfort is so low, and the rationale for ghosting is so high, (he's toxic!) as soon as anything comes up that can be defined as "awkward" or "conflicting", people will just ghost.

Won't go into a whole tangent, but I also think that text allows you to control your image a lot more, and people like that, just like social media. But controlling your image is not really consistent with healthy communication.

Ghosting is a mix of minimize confrontation + the sheer volume of how many people someone interacts with that the value of human relationships has hit rock bottom. Folks deal with so many folks they aren't trying to go through the lows that come with human interactions knowing they can just jump to the next person or already got other people in the cut.

 

[Apollo Creed]

She got into a fake fight to get space and get smashed by the guy she really wants

this shyt has made lotta chicks so delusional where I legit think now any woman who has to use a dating app is a werido so that shyt is just for shyts and giggles and maybe layup hook ups. You got hoes using phrases like "win me over" like bytch you can die today and nobody outside of ya parents will really care

 

[re'up]

Ghosting is a mix of minimize confrontation + the sheer volume of how many people someone interacts with that the value of human relationships has hit rock bottom. Folks deal with so many folks they aren't trying to go through the lows that come with human interactions knowing they can just jump to the next person or already got other people in the cut.

Overwhelmed is one aspect of it too for sure. People are just digitally burned the fukk out.