Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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One thing I've noticed recently talking to a bunch of broads is many of them have never even had a relationship before :dahell: or just had one many years ago. And these are chicks in their late twenties, early thirties.

Nope. They been in one or two relationships in their early 20s (even teens) and then the trauma will scare them into their late 20s & 30s.
 

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One thing I've noticed recently talking to a bunch of broads is many of them have never even had a relationship before :dahell: or just had one many years ago. And these are chicks in their late twenties, early thirties.

It's way more common than the interwebz will have you believe.
  • Never been kissed
  • Never been on a date
  • Never had a boyfriend
  • Actual Virgins
  • Chicks that can't give the P away. (like not even on Tinder)
Some chicks too ugly, too fat, too tall.
Many are too Christian.
Many are too awkward and inexperienced.
Many spent too much time in the books.
A lot of them spend too much time at the job.
A lot of them are "too busy" - with bs activities for work or with their girls....

That said, with the professional set, a lot of them have "reasonable" expectations - attractive dude, not fat, hold a convo, same education and $.... (although they all hope for 2-3x the money)

But a Black Man that dates Black Women, that is decently attractive, not fat, makes the same money (or more) and can hold a convo - he's a rare commodity.
*looks at mirror, points to self, cheesy grin *

And a lot of women don't want to face that reality.

They don't want to compete. (c) Kevin Samuels.
They don't even know what a man like this wants.

That's how they end up in an Umar Johnson type harem or having a baby with Darnell their personal trainer...
 

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Travel, food. It’s all lazy.

“Travel to all 50 countries”

Anything about “The Office” or Friends aka cac signaling.

“No hook ups”

“Love language - Receiving gifts, acts of service”

“Coffee is lazy”

“Dinner”

“Princess treatment”

“Bring me flowers”

“I’m a CEO”

“Make me laugh”

Photos with African children


lul. But at the same time its like....

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There's gotta be more to this shyt than all that. Where are the unique women at? I'm ngl the coolest women i meet are at conventions and festivals. But alot of times they're cosplaying as a more interesting girl for the week.
 

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What's with these women that are in their early/mid 30s "not sure" about wanting kids? Interesting enough I've met women in their late 30s that want them "someday" :mjlol:
If they have gotten that far and haven’t had them, the uncertainty makes sense.
 

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Another one down last night “dates” during the week >>> weekends

Having your own place and car really is cheat code.

But a lot of these women dull, pretty but not much else going on oh well back to work Monday back to monk mode :yeshrug:
 

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Another one down last night “dates” during the week >>> weekends

Having your own place and car really is cheat code.

But a lot of these women dull, pretty but not much else going on oh well back to work Monday back to monk mode :yeshrug:

Yup. You have all the power.

If one of the joints on your roster acts up, just replace.
 

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What happened
Nothing in particular, just a random thought I had when thinking about the whole dating discourse out here and how women are complaining about the lack of good dudes.

And how all women just assume that they're good women off rip. It's crazy how they assume you'll want them however they are
 
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