Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[africngiant]

Rewarded with what?

pleasure and physical validation, preferably a wife. every man wants a woman it’s key to his self esteem you feel like a bytch otherwise

 

[The ADD]

pleasure and physical validation, preferably a wife

Yeah, life doesn’t work that way. What you think was hard work towards pleasure and physical validation likely wasn’t.

In terms of working hard with the reward of a wife. You are miles off it and most single people likely are.

 

[DJSmooth]

tbh i think some people are just predestined to a better social reality than others. someone can take your advice of “just be yourself” but then they look goofy

while you being yourself may come off as more attractive to women. it might not necessarily be clear to why you’re keeping their attention, so your advice might not be directly applicable to others. some nikkas have to go to the drawing board or they’re just gonna keep taking the same ls

some nikkas just “got it”

me being myself has never kept any female attention. i run out of things to talk about (boring/weird) or they just think im not masculine enough (black women)

You got to find your type that like you and stick with it. You might be trying to talk to hood rats, sorority chicks and IG badies and your lane is artistic hippie chicks that like you.

 

[360dagod]

You got to find your type that like you and stick with it. You might be trying to talk to hood rats, sorority chicks and IG badies and your lane is artistic hippie chicks that like you.

I've admittedly kept up with his posts and it's a fundamental issue that needs to be fixed before that part even gets mentioned..

 

[360dagod]

im trying not put my mind on women so much but when you work hard and still never get rewarded it makes you feel like something’s wrong with you

im just chasing money then gain better confidence and stories by being able to do more

It's not about women..

Communications are treated as a transactional affair

If they have different views/ideas/philosophies/ they are looked down upon just because

That's equivalent to a basketball player who has a bad release when he shoots...

It's a "technical" issue that is going to hold you back the rest of your life until you begin to address it...

 

[africngiant]

It's not about women..

Communications are treated as a transactional affair

If they have different views/ideas/philosophies/ they are looked down upon just because

That's equivalent to a basketball player who has a bad release when he shoots...

It's a "technical" issue that is going to hold you back the rest of your life until you begin to address it...

i just think most women look for the wrong things tbh


i was raised by an african mother so i can only tolerate the westernized feminist bs for so long. i can’t help it

 

[Apollo Creed]

facts that’s why i don’t put myself out there anymore at my young age cause most women around me are like this.

ill definitely be traveling and building my portfolio. i haven’t posted on ig in 3 years since before the pandemic so ppl might be surprised

post your travels on IG, its easy p*ssy lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

It's not about women..

Communications are treated as a transactional affair

If they have different views/ideas/philosophies/ they are looked down upon just because

That's equivalent to a basketball player who has a bad release when he shoots...

It's a "technical" issue that is going to hold you back the rest of your life until you begin to address it...

if you need to learn to communicate join Toastmasters not post up in a shytty ass club with losers.

 

[Apollo Creed]

You got to find your type that like you and stick with it. You might be trying to talk to hood rats, sorority chicks and IG badies and your lane is artistic hippie chicks that like you.

after a while you see a trend in the chicks that give you the best cooperation, the issue may be dudes hate their lane lol

 

[RaspberryFitted]

i just think most women look for the wrong things tbh

Are you putting yourself in the position and environment so the women who are looking for the right thing can find you?

Eventually us Gen Z brehs might have to sacrifice the happy marriage + family dream and let the future generations enjoy it.

i was raised by an african mother so i can only tolerate the westernized feminist bs for so long. i can’t help it

I come from an African background as well

 

[RaspberryFitted]

after a while you see a trend in the chicks that give you the best cooperation, the issue may be dudes hate their lane lol

It’s fine to hate ya lane, but not changing anything to leave it THEN crying about it is where some brehs fail.

 

[africngiant]

the first line of his post was it’s not about woman and you decided to focus on women

I come from an African background as well

yeah but why continue trying to hang around people whose lifestyle i don’t fundamentally agree with when they’re also more likely to not fw me either lol

 

[WIA20XX]

i just think most women look for the wrong things tbh


i was raised by an african mother so i can only tolerate the westernized feminist bs for so long. i can’t help it

If the motherland is a legit option for you, I'd be hitting up Aunties and Cousins to see if they have someone for you. Provided your paper is right, cause every African woman I've ever deal with is SERIOUS.

 

[africngiant]

If the motherland is a legit option for you, I'd be hitting up Aunties and Cousins to see if they have someone for you. Provided your paper is right, cause every African woman I've ever deal with is SERIOUS.

real shyt ive always agreed with that. the west is a wasteland for black men

 

[King]

How do you know you look better than them to the women they are engaging with?

So attractive women in your area only go out at night and stay inside all day otherwise?

When you go out at night, do you go by yourself?

You were asked about hobbies but didn’t really answer. So you don’t have any that are not based on being online?

1. I just know 2. From what I’ve seen pretty much 3. Yeah 4. Nope

U coming across as desperate. Women smell that a mile away. Just relax and be cool.

How?

Honestly, I don't know if you're "hard" case or not, but acknowledging that your game has problems is the first part.

Lemme ask you this, can you get into a small talk type conversation with ANYONE you meet - girls, women, kids, teenagers, old people, cops, cashiers, bus driver, etc?

Because that's the underlying skill set for shooting the gift with broads.

If you can't small talk - you gotta break that apart into its components

• Assessment of them
• Acknowledgment of your own emotions and body language
• Approach
• Topics - With females - Food, Music, Popular People, Dating, Relationships, and finally Sex
• Delivery - Are you shaking like a leaf? Are you rushing through your words? Are you making eye contact? Are you purposefully not making eye contact?
• Reaction - How is she reacting? How are you reacting to her reaction?
• Improvisation - Are you talking about things that allow you to improvise?
• ETC

Without having a the play by play on "80 girls" - I can't do more than point you in this direction.

That said, pat yourself on the back, most guys would kill themselves after approaching 80 girls in a weekend and not getting any traction.

That alone tells me you have the foundation to be GREAT.

Nope. I mean I could if I was forced to but I don’t have great conversations.