Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

King

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how do you approach them? my bad if you already said it

iunno. to get 0 success out of that many approaches is kinda astounding. what works for me is just being direct and to the pt

hey, i saw you and I thought you were really pretty. would love to get to know you some time...you from around here? blah blah. let me get your number

but i dont do clubs, i meet women in broad daylight / on road. at the gym, grocery stores, subways etc. anywhere but clubs pretty much. my style isnt conducive to clubs
If I’m direct, immediately get the “i have a boyfriend, sorry, i have to go, etc.”
 

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If I’m direct, immediately get the “i have a boyfriend, sorry, i have to go, etc.”
i get those too, and i am sure most of the time its a lie.
but maybe 3 to 4/10 times i get them digits. 3/80 is wild man. inbox a pic of yourself or sumn lol
 

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real shyt ive always agreed with that. the west is a wasteland for black men

I got some Naija homies, and they tell me that Aunt such and such has a good village girl waiting for them when they get tired of playing around.

The West has done something to us.
 

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You lost the plot. I asked you how you knew you looked better to those guys in the eyes of those women. You just know but aren’t getting any traction with them.

Doesn’t compute
Speak for yourself, I already explained that in my first post.
 

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i get those too, and i am sure most of the time its a lie.
but maybe 3 to 4/10 times i get them digits. 3/80 is wild man. inbox a pic of yourself or sumn lol
Trust me it’s not my looks. Hell I had a few women this weekend tell me how handsome I was as they rejected me.
 

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Trust me it’s not my looks. Hell I had a few women this weekend tell me how handsome I was as they rejected me.
do you ever holla at shorties outside the club?
80-90% of the women ive fukked in my life, i met just going about my day
 

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do you ever holla at shorties outside the club?
80-90% of the women ive fukked in my life, i met just going about my day
Nope. Clubs work best with my lifestyle atm.

Said in an earlier post how my area is. Not really an option to intentionally go out during the day unless it’s like a college campus or something.
 

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I understand what the brother is saying.He is telling truth. Only he knows his approach and how he looks etc. At same time it is difficult out here. At end of day be upfront and be YOU. That smooth shyt doesnt work etc best to be upfront and direct then to come off soft. Some women will rock with you,some wont. Most of these women dont have bf's. Women are excellent liars,womens lies are almost as powerful as a truth. Women always have built in excuses for men they arent feeling. "im busy" "i have a bf" "i gotta go" "my break is up" etc. Women are intimidated by strong,upfront men. They want a weak beta to control,maniuplate . They are doing you a favor when they reject you,shoot what if majority of those women had stds' etc you never know and shouldnt care why they dont want you. Dont even count your failures. A chick turns you down its forget her and on to the next. A shooter doesnt cry over a shot they miss they keep shooting. Yes some rejections hurt more then others but still the art is to not care.When you dont care you win.
 
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