I understand what the brother is saying.He is telling truth. Only he knows his approach and how he looks etc. At same time it is difficult out here. At end of day be upfront and be YOU. That smooth shyt doesnt work etc best to be upfront and direct then to come off soft. Some women will rock with you,some wont. Most of these women dont have bf's. Women are excellent liars,womens lies are almost as powerful as a truth. Women always have built in excuses for men they arent feeling. "im busy" "i have a bf" "i gotta go" "my break is up" etc. Women are intimidated by strong,upfront men. They want a weak beta to control,maniuplate . They are doing you a favor when they reject you,shoot what if majority of those women had stds' etc you never know and shouldnt care why they dont want you. Dont even count your failures. A chick turns you down its forget her and on to the next. A shooter doesnt cry over a shot they miss they keep shooting. Yes some rejections hurt more then others but still the art is to not care.When you dont care you win.