TheKongoEmpire
The First Men
What's your plan then?
As I've said before, I'm apathetic towards dating and have been "compelled" to look for a partner. You back in Babylon?
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As I've said before, I'm apathetic towards dating and have been "compelled" to look for a partner. You back in Babylon?Household repairs and hand to hand combat. Depending on what car you drive (if you’re foreign gang for example), nobody trying to get under the hood of some german engineered luxury whip
Haven't shot a pistol in years or been in a real fight, can handle both decently, but I can't do ANY of that other shyt. But, to me, that's like pedestrian you can pay someone to do all that.
I never realized that people valued any of those things, remember someone asking me kinda drunkenly ten years ago to help her build a chair, or table lol
and I was like I don't want to do that! I would just pay the delivery people. That's not a good use of my time!
lot has to do with how you grew up, no one taught me basic things like that, and I was out of the house young. Therefore, the skills I developed, all revolve around money, or more intellectual based skills, social skills/emotional intelligence.
Digital Omen
All Star
Who among us has not gotten with a recently divorced joint knowing they ain't ready for a relationship but still wanting it cuz that's where they're comfortable?Come on breh, you should've known better
Who among us has not gotten with a recently divorced joint knowing they ain't ready for a relationship but still wanting it cuz that's where they're comfortable?
A year ago I met someone through another woman, who is a bit older than me, getting divorced, we had pretty intense physical chemistry and connected intellectually, we went out once, and then she ended up with a boyfriend, but she has kids, he probably does too, so I get it, I'm not going to spend weekends with the kids
and we connected again this year at a party, even more intensity, went out again, while she was broken up, and then she texted me she was back with her boyfriend, we still keep in touch here and there.
I would have been only good for sleeping together once or twice a week, and going out maybe twice a month. Maybe a one night trip somewhere close.
People like comfort, and they like reliability, and a lot of times people's lives align better than the next person.
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Lol we’re YOU sureThis is women we're talking about
They're hot one day cold the next
In this instance her divorce was finalized around 4 months before we met
So I was the rebound
But when we got together, I was the boyfriend
I asked her "you sure?" "yup!"
I was the "fun new guy" and she was coming off an 11 year failed marriage
some months pass by, I'm not the fun new guy anymore.
"I need time to be by myself, I have a lot on my mind, I'm just not ready"
skyrunner1
Superstar
Good question.. My assumption would be Black, american, women of child bearing age?
If so I dont think any of those things matter.. Only universal I would say is Leadership skills, after that its more swag/can you dress, funny, popularity, the highest on that list would be firearms but I been without pistol, and took girls to gun range and it didnt affect anything..
Brandsdale
Big Yella
ended up grabbing ice cream with a cute Congolese chic 
I prob shouldn’t be goin on dates right now but she was hella persistent to meet up so I couldn’t say no.
We’ll see what comes out of this but like I said previously, I’m still out of commission for the summer
I prob shouldn’t be goin on dates right now but she was hella persistent to meet up so I couldn’t say no.
We’ll see what comes out of this but like I said previously, I’m still out of commission for the summer
I was trying hard to get with Brehette, but it feels like I'm chasing her. I took her out, then texted her when I got home and didn't text her for a couple days. I finally text her, she asks me what happened, I tell her what really happened and she tells me she wants me to get her nails done and that she wants to make us official, I say ok (I'm not paying to get her nails done). It's been a few days and she hasn't texted me and the only time I get a text back is when I text first. At this point it feels like I'm chasing her and I'm not chasing any woman that isn't making me feel like she is into me too.
if you have a disagreement with ANY woman, if it can't get resolved in five minutes or less, charge it to the game and exit the conversation, especially if she's mad.
By the way, I'm not sexist and I believe women should have 100% equal opportunity with men, so let's just clear that up so there's no misunderstandings.
Anyway, with a lot of women they have debates, disagreements with their feelings first
The average man, if has a debate or disagreement he uses logic and linear thinking...2+2=4, let's talk using basic facts to resolve the issue or disagreement
I know this is a general statement, but it's true a lot
don't try to go back and forth with the average woman in a disagreement, she will go all over the place that has nothing to do with the subject lol
btw... I'm not talking about female posters on TheColi, y'all cool
By the way, I'm not sexist and I believe women should have 100% equal opportunity with men, so let's just clear that up so there's no misunderstandings.
Anyway, with a lot of women they have debates, disagreements with their feelings first
The average man, if has a debate or disagreement he uses logic and linear thinking...2+2=4, let's talk using basic facts to resolve the issue or disagreement
I know this is a general statement, but it's true a lot
don't try to go back and forth with the average woman in a disagreement, she will go all over the place that has nothing to do with the subject lol
btw... I'm not talking about female posters on TheColi, y'all cool
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
sounds like she wasn’t into you from the jump. Asking you to get her nails down isn’t right.
but you stated “I tell her what really happened” what exactly occurred for you not to text her?
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
truth.Good question.. My assumption would be Black, american, women of child bearing age?
young BM need to be stop being fed how to become an outstanding 40 year old man.
Good question.. My assumption would be Black, american, women of child bearing age?
A lot of women don’t like guns lol
But everything you said before it’s correct. In addition to fixing things & killing pest.