Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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With a text from her profusely apologising, I'll wait 20 mins over that. I'm outta there.

Though any chick whose been late has made up for it though.
yea in toronto, more times they wont even offer to make up for it.
like at least offer to buy a round of drinks or something :laugh:
these chicks aint shyt out here man
 

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Her: can we talk on this app first so I can feel comfortable

Me: unmatch
Thats the thing though its like aint enough texts in the world to get "comfortable" on an app. If I was Ted Bundy i could keep the act going for years and still get the strap when I see you.

shyts just dumb. If u let a girl get that off she's going to continue to say progressively dumber and dumber shyt once you actually hang out with her.

These apps are like sifting through trash and leftovers like an alley cat. I'm sure its like that on both sides, so when we actually match it shouldnt be nothing be accommodations and good vibes. Fukk all that nonsense.
 

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From the article

“Back home in Toronto, I would have said I’d wait for a first date for 20 minutes, unless they messaged and explained. But in Colombia, 30 minutes late is normal. So it depends where I am and also how into the woman I am (how attractive she is, if we have a connection, etc.).”

Passport Bro !

And apparently I answered this question, and forgot about it.

“I have had a couple of dates be egregiously late; I found a wonderful solution. I simply hit on a few women until I find one who wants to talk to me. I make sure to get her contact information early in the conversation. Then, when the late date shows up, she sees me talking to another girl and subconsciously realizes it wasn’t a good idea to be late. In one case, I wasn’t interested in the girl I was scheduled to meet, and I ended up dating one of the other girls that I’d met while waiting for her.”
 

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Usually the first link we’re somewhere in proximity to my place. I usually leave when she says she tells me she’s close
 

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From the article



Passport Bro !

And apparently I answered this question, and forgot about it.

Overseas you should either be
1.getting the uber for both of you (add her stop first and yours second then the destination)
or
2.if she is in a taxi tell her send her live location on WhatsApp.
 

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Thats you? ??

When a chick late I would always look around for new girls too

Now I just Leave

Haha. Naw, it's something I do.

Part of the date protocol

1) always meet some place central
2) always meet someplace where I can holla
3) expect the broad to be late.

These days, if a chick want to play with my time, I'll bounce.
 

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Thats the thing though its like aint enough texts in the world to get "comfortable" on an app. If I was Ted Bundy i could keep the act going for years and still get the strap when I see you.

shyts just dumb. If u let a girl get that off she's going to continue to say progressively dumber and dumber shyt once you actually hang out with her.

These apps are like sifting through trash and leftovers like an alley cat. I'm sure its like that on both sides, so when we actually match it shouldnt be nothing be accommodations and good vibes. Fukk all that nonsense.
Yeah spend few days talking to her for no reason and then she either flakes or you meet up and the chemistry is off
Getting to know before meeting up is such a waste of time
 

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Never underestimate how much modern women have been compromised. Even a seemingly ‘good’ chick will try you to see if you goin for it

My ex actually ended up being a solid chick, but in the very beginning she almost didn’t make it.

1- Before we even went on the first date she asked ‘ would you be okay with it if I ordered 2 entrees’ :what:I asked why and she was basically on some ‘just to see what you would say’:beli:

2- For like a whole week she was obsessed with finding out how much I made. This is like 2 weeks into dating

3- One day out the blue she said ‘how come you don’t send me money for groceries’ (we didn’t live together):scust:

I eventually broke up with her for other reasons, she was just too clingy, too into me. The gold digger shyt proved to be completely out of her character. Can honestly say this was a good chick. But in the beginning it was almost like she saw stuff on IG or was told by her girls to say it. When you’re talking to a chick who’s been single and exposed to the world you gotta jailbreak her ass. Factory reset.
 

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Never underestimate how much modern women have been compromised. Even a seemingly ‘good’ chick will try you to see if you goin for it

My ex actually ended up being a solid chick, but in the very beginning she almost didn’t make it.

1- Before we even went on the first date she asked ‘ would you be okay with it if I ordered 2 entrees’ :what:I asked why and she was basically on some ‘just to see what you would say’:beli:

2- For like a whole week she was obsessed with finding out how much I made. This is like 2 weeks into dating

3- One day out the blue she said ‘how come you don’t send me money for groceries’ (we didn’t live together):scust:

I eventually broke up with her for other reasons, she was just too clingy, too into me. The gold digger shyt proved to be completely out of her character. Can honestly say this was a good chick. But in the beginning it was almost like she saw stuff on IG or was told by her girls to say it. When you’re talking to a chick who’s been single and exposed to the world you gotta jailbreak her ass. Factory reset.

Always pay attention to her friends, understand her values & what she follows on social media.

If she’s worth it, you break her down and reset her.

If a bytch every ask me for money, she’s getting dropped.
 

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Never underestimate how much modern women have been compromised. Even a seemingly ‘good’ chick will try you to see if you goin for it

My ex actually ended up being a solid chick, but in the very beginning she almost didn’t make it.

1- Before we even went on the first date she asked ‘ would you be okay with it if I ordered 2 entrees’ :what:I asked why and she was basically on some ‘just to see what you would say’:beli:

2- For like a whole week she was obsessed with finding out how much I made. This is like 2 weeks into dating

3- One day out the blue she said ‘how come you don’t send me money for groceries’ (we didn’t live together):scust:

I eventually broke up with her for other reasons, she was just too clingy, too into me. The gold digger shyt proved to be completely out of her character. Can honestly say this was a good chick. But in the beginning it was almost like she saw stuff on IG or was told by her girls to say it. When you’re talking to a chick who’s been single and exposed to the world you gotta jailbreak her ass. Factory reset.
You broke up with a good woman because she actually liked you
:francis:

Throw away a unicorn, brehs
 

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You broke up with a good woman because she actually liked you
:francis:

Throw away a unicorn, brehs
bish aint got no hobbies or activities besides standing up under you and sending asinine texts. some might think this is what love/intimacy is and if so, cool. But that shyt is so surface level and performative after awhile. All that unicorn shyt gonna turn into dragon tales when the show gets cancelled. iykyk
 

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Always :wow: give me advice, breh

Well, the first thing you're going to have to get used to is telling the truth to a chick about how you live your life. Trust me, you want to cut the stress down.
And I've seen that a lot since I moved into this avenue. I want my life to be as unfussy and undramatic as possible.

I usually wait until after we've smashed as it could be a one-off or agreed hook-up but if she wants to be in my life she is going to have to either be into this or not

Which brings me to my second point. For a lot of chicks, this will be too much, to be confronted with it so upfront can be a lot. Some come around some are not down at all. Many prefer a man to be honest over bullshytting them.

At the moment I have a primary chick who is my 'main' and I see other chicks around her, some who are very happy not being in a full relationship. Suits me, everyone is open and honest with each other.

I have to say I don't think I've been in this much of a healthy mind state for a long time.

Obviously this is not for everyone but I prefer it.
 
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