nah yall brehs overthinking it
Ive seen/known this chick in the gym for over 2+ years now. I had a lady so I wasnt interested like that or anything.
Ffwd to about 2 months ago, we started a dialogue because she was impressed by my deadlift. From there we exchanged names. From there, I saw tell-tale signs of her flirting so that put her on my radar (like it would any man). Eventually we started talking about topics outside the gym (hobbies, vacations, where we live, careers etc).
I got her ig because I had questions about her, and im not going to have a long ass convo in the gym while she trying to workout. She looked young as hell. At one point, i was telling my mans (gym partner) “yo she prolly like 19” so I was curious as hell to know her age and how she move. Me personally, ive never fukked w a chick more than 3 years younger than me so I didnt want to even bother trying to bag this chick if she was as young as I thought.
The DM i sent wasnt even no crazy shyt. I was lit in a club w the homies and I saw she viewed my story so i sent her a message from my story “hey wat you still doing up?” Corny, but this isnt a chick i havent had several conversations with already and i was “comfortable”.
She didnt “see” the message until the morning which I have my doubts because you can still see someone sent u a message on ig but if u dont click it the sender wont know u read it.
It is what it is at this point for me though. Im not gonna stress it. She still watched my stories all weekend and liked my pics and im most likely gna see her in the gym wen i get back in town tmrw. Ill chat w her and tell her my bad for the late text, i was wildin and keep it at that.
I do agree wit yall that now, if i still try and pursue this chick, ill do it in person now