I don’t have ig, but how you gonna make one poppin if it ain’t already poppin? How you even compete with all the other nikkas tryna floss on ig, Buy some followers and rent foreign whips?
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BlueHeffner
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You dont even need foreigns or high-end gear to make your ig poppin
Chicks seeing u out and about, making moves will get you more attention from chicks than the material stuff
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
Yall are wasting time off of precious life Jesus has given us by stressing over women.Get on your purpose women will come . I dont know who im speaking to but you have lost your mind over her,never too late to gain yourself back.Release!!!!#
The thing with IG, is that if you aren't living that life, to one degree or another, you are done. You have to deliver a version of the life depicted. And you have to be on it all the time. it's a good way to soft connect with someone. it's a slow sell. You start off liking pics and posting yours, and whatever, and then eventually decide to meet up. Getting the number and inviting someone out directly is what I do, but it's almost considered like a faux pax by current norms.
for some people it's like a fantasy life, that's why it's so easy for people to have even a good ion person interaction, and then ignore a text message. Once you get in person, all that instagram is over, and there' no distance to present yourself.
for some people it's like a fantasy life, that's why it's so easy for people to have even a good ion person interaction, and then ignore a text message. Once you get in person, all that instagram is over, and there' no distance to present yourself.
1. Learn to take Quality Photos of yourself - as a hard skill. Since the advent of camera phones, this has become a low key important skill to have.
2. You need a niche and to stay in your niche. Most people have unfocused pages, it's them and their lives. Most people's lives are visually boring. A player needs something that is visually interesting.
That's 2 components - Ideally the niche is 1) photo friendly and 2) female friendly.
Reading Books, Book Clubs, etc - are female friendly, but not really photo friendly.
Guns, Cars, "stuff", ends to be photo friendly, but not female friendly.
The obvious ones are travel (urban, outdoors, exotic, etc) , food, style, etc.
But there are not so obvious ones out there, that cats just need to uncover.
Practically every good and service is marketed these days as a "lifestyle". So a lot of the modern man's work is picking something that he can showcase to the world. The examples of photos are already out there.
3. Be Consistent - Anyone can cobble together 5-6 photos, but the real key to the IG life (and using it as a draw for women, but for people and business) is really using the medium like a professional.
This is relatively new territory. None of this was necessary 15 years ago, but the prime market of women grew up in the past 15 years. They grew up looking at these images, forming their social media identity as the basis of their identity, even if they can't match that in real life.
For most guys, 99%, this already sounds like too much work.
And they won't do it.
Which is why guys that do take it serious reap the benefits.
This guy's page - a professional photographer - keep that in mind - and even though I think the page speaks more to men than to women) - Login • Instagram - is a good IG page.
Take out the exotic cars, "exotic locales", and celebs and it still looks good.
More importantly, most of the shots are something a man could learn to take. A lot of these shots could be accomplished with standard tripods and camera phones, no need to break out $3,000 DSLR. The real key is knowing what to shoot, and then editing. And that requires effort.
Social Media creation and management is getting to be up there with meditation and body building. Something that's worth the rewards, but too few people will actually do the work, because it's not fast enough.
Real talk, if you're not living the life you want - you're kinda already done though.
It's a bitter pill to take, but I'm still digesting it myself.
It's necessary though.
Not everyone, as a population of people, can live the lives they want.
But individuals sure can.
@WIA20XX
hahha, well yeah.
But, there's room for most people to FIND a relationship, but getting at bottle service girls, probably not. A homie of mine told me how she had some dude in her house, kinda cute, doing like a chore, lifting a dresser, or whatever, from an APP, and she was like I could tell he was going to ask me out, and saw he was wearing Skechers. And she was like nah. She kept thinking, but where would we go? He can't take me anywhere I want to go. She's a stripper, on the low, but he didn't know that.
A relatively low cost one is new restaurants, new spots, like that. New boutique hotels, doesn't cost much to just go and grab drinks, take the glam pics.
I do live that life, relatively speaking, think hit like a dozen new places this year, but only share the pics or invites with people that know me.
hahha, well yeah.
But, there's room for most people to FIND a relationship, but getting at bottle service girls, probably not. A homie of mine told me how she had some dude in her house, kinda cute, doing like a chore, lifting a dresser, or whatever, from an APP, and she was like I could tell he was going to ask me out, and saw he was wearing Skechers. And she was like nah. She kept thinking, but where would we go? He can't take me anywhere I want to go. She's a stripper, on the low, but he didn't know that.
A relatively low cost one is new restaurants, new spots, like that. New boutique hotels, doesn't cost much to just go and grab drinks, take the glam pics.
I do live that life, relatively speaking, think hit like a dozen new places this year, but only share the pics or invites with people that know me.
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Just hopped back on Hinge and Bumble, these women and their dogs 
I don’t mind dogs (or cats for that matter) but if I see one more “dogs are better than people” “we’ll get along great if my dog likes you” “way to my heart is through my dog”
I don’t mind dogs (or cats for that matter) but if I see one more “dogs are better than people” “we’ll get along great if my dog likes you” “way to my heart is through my dog”
Yea you fukked up. Not terribly bad, you can still get out the hole but you did it wrong.
You have to let her message you first or send her a DM commenting on something from one of her stories then go from there.
If you met her at the gym you could have made a curated story to fish. "I'm lit right now I hope I make it to the gym tomorrow. Somebody make sure I go to the gym tomorrow."
Just hopped back on Hinge and Bumble, these women and their dogs
I don’t mind dogs (or cats for that matter) but if I see one more “dogs are better than people” “we’ll get along great if my dog likes you” “way to my heart is through my dog”
It’s definitely an epidemic. A lot of women either have these big ass pit bulls (husbands) or tiny chow chow dogs. (children)
The numbers spiked during covid
Went out on a date with this girl so many red flags:
No job, tattoo of an abortion, tattoo of the date her and her ex got together, breath issues & has small problems with taking direction (30)
(met at a lounge, everything seemed normal)
No job, tattoo of an abortion, tattoo of the date her and her ex got together, breath issues & has small problems with taking direction (30)
(met at a lounge, everything seemed normal)
Went out on a date with this girl so many red flags:
No job, tattoo of an abortion, tattoo of the date her and her ex got together, breath issues & has small problems with taking direction (30)
(met at a lounge, everything seemed normal)
Was it a picture? How did she explain that? Why would she tell a first date she has a tattoo of the date her and her ex got together? You better lie about that shyt
Was it a picture? How did she explain that? Why would she tell a first date she has a tattoo of the date her and her ex got together? You better lie about that shyt
Nah it was like 2 hearts next to one another (one heart for her and the other for the “kid”. It was on her arm & the relationship tat other was on her lower leg. She has to cover up, but she doesn’t have a job / funds.
RaspberryFitted
Boyz In Motion Member
the fukk are you apologizing for? Because you sent a late night text?!
what exactly were you wildin’ at?