Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[NoirDynosaur]

The game has changed so much bytches now expect aggression and /or pursuit. It’s annoying for a laid back ngga

Got this Somalian thick joint I’ve been on a few dates with. We’ve kissed, she came to the crib but it didn’t pop off but it went well… then we’re FaceTime’ing the other night she talkin about she need a full body massage, we talkin about what we’d do to each other if she was here right now, she bout to take a shower I was like ‘I’m about to FT you from the shower’. She was low key wit it but I wasn’t gung ho enough. She was like ‘I mean ..well…nooo we can’t’. The younger me would have told her im calling in 10 min and hung up. But I was like ‘oh okay next time’ We agreed I’d come thru the next night with a bottle of wine and give her a massage

Aint heard from her since

Actually tryin to be a good ngga don’t work. When I’m on my time is the most success

Brooo I feel you, I used to be a laidback dude myself so I understand the sentiment.

Women expect you to be assertive and lead the interaction or else they think you're soft or not into them. Women want to feel desired and wanted

Can't give these hoes boyfriend energy or simp energy, they feel disgusted. You have to be the most confident/cockiest person on the planet to have them on your team. This is called Big dikk Energy. fukk being nice, be a little arrogant to these hoes. You're the man, most of these chicks don't have the sauce besides looks. A lot of them aren't funny nor are amusing. Act like the prize. Be the catch.

Nice guys finish last, assertive men finish first.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Being thirsty takes a man's power away from him. Being selective gives a man more value.

Simps ruin the game because they simp over a girl's looks instead of evaluating her character

Ask yourself "Do you like this person? If this person cool enough for me to chill with her? Learn how to read a person. "Bad bytches" are a dime a dozen outchea.

Avoid getting emotional with a woman. Most of them are insecure don't let the "tough" exterior fool you. Be secure within yourself man. Women like men who are superior than them. Don't be so easy, be hard to want.

 

[Deathstroke]

Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us a lesson.
You would think I’d have learn my lesson by now with long distance relationships. Second one that fails back to back after such a strong start. They get so emotionally involved and then they start panicking. Same bs about how they fell for me but can’t do long distance. Money, and time all spent for bittersweet memories. I done got rid of so many girls for her. She had the nerves to say we can revisit things if we end up in the same city. I’m 30 looking at all this shyt like damn, I have no issues getting a chick but I can’t keep them for shiii How do others make it work ?

 

[Ahadi]

Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us a lesson.
You would think I’d have learn my lesson by now with long distance relationships. Second one that fails back to back after such a strong start. They get so emotionally involved and then they start panicking. Same bs about how they fell for me but can’t do long distance. Money, and time all spent for bittersweet memories. I done got rid of so many girls for her. She had the nerves to say we can revisit things if we end up in the same city. I’m 30 looking at all this shyt like damn, I have no issues getting a chick but I can’t keep them for shiii How do others make it work ?

By never getting rid of your rotation or stop talking to women.

Once you get that inner thought “I found a good one, I’m dropping all of my hoes” WRONG. Always keep them at a distance.

 

[The ADD]

Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us a lesson.
You would think I’d have learn my lesson by now with long distance relationships. Second one that fails back to back after such a strong start. They get so emotionally involved and then they start panicking. Same bs about how they fell for me but can’t do long distance. Money, and time all spent for bittersweet memories. I done got rid of so many girls for her. She had the nerves to say we can revisit things if we end up in the same city. I’m 30 looking at all this shyt like damn, I have no issues getting a chick but I can’t keep them for shiii How do others make it work ?

Starting a relationship LD from scratch is such a low probability of success that it’s astounding people try it.

Please tell me you didn’t cut local chicks for a LD chick.

 

[Ohene]

I had to re analyze something awhile back.. Why is it with majority of men when it comes to women they ften beat around the bush about what they want from her but when it comes to every aspect in life, We put our best foot straight forward?

When it comes to most aspects of life.. From ordering a Pizza to perfecting a jump shot to controlling a boardroom to even tackling a tiger, Men can take bold action but when it comes to women... Men start being indirect, they start lying to themselves, they start pretending, they start getting nervous, Why you guys think that?

because with women there is no correlation between effort and result, in fact, the correlation might even be negative. there is no cause and effect relationship. there is no one size fits all

being direct or aggressive in pursuing one women may work - be it for p*ssy or a relationship

for another woman with similar characteristics that may very well be and often is what turns her off

this doesnt even take into account their capricious moody nature. for the first woman it may work in the ovulation period of her cycle, and then turn her off cause shes on her period or the sun isnt out or some shyt.

thats why i say the whacamole method is the best way to approach hoes

 

[Deathstroke]

Starting a relationship LD from scratch is such a low probability of success that it’s astounding people try it.

Please tell me you didn’t cut local chicks for a LD chick.

Nah I didn’t cut local chicks off. That would have been stupid for sure. I only cut chicks that were in other cities too that had potential. But ya I def learned that, starting long distance off the bat is some impossible shyt. You could do your best and be on your best game and the chick still gon find something wrong.

Please save yourself from this brehs. The stress over the last weeks was unbearable. She was on her hot-cold bs while I was tryna work through things with her. They gon tell you no they just need time or make it seem like there’s nothing wrong but nah they’re checking out mentally.

 

[Manolo]

I met a girl from LA while she was in town and she had every quality I wanted in a woman. Physically, mentally, financially and I’m a bougie and picky ass nikka when it comes to women

She added me to her Close Friends after we met and started reposting mad baby IG accounts and super dramatic marriage proposals at the Griffith Observatory

As we got to know each other better I can tell she wanted to start a LD situation with her coming to NY and me staying with her in LA.

We still keep in touch but I ended up just falling back off her because of how impossible a LDR always seemed to me. I know how needy women are when it comes to affection and attention from the man they want and no amount of FaceTime can fill that void

A LDR seems like that much of a lost cause that I turned down a girl I would’ve otherwise wifed because even a LDR on those terms has no chance IMO especially in NY/LA

 

[DJSmooth]

I met a girl from LA while she was in town and she had every quality I wanted in a woman. Physically, mentally, financially and I’m a bougie and picky ass nikka when it comes to women

She added me to her Close Friends after we met and started reposting mad baby IG accounts and super dramatic marriage proposals at the Griffith Observatory

As we got to know each other better I can tell she wanted to start a LD situation with her coming to NY and me staying with her in LA.

We still keep in touch but I ended up just falling back off her because of how impossible a LDR always seemed to me. I know how needy women are when it comes to affection and attention from the man they want and no amount of FaceTime can fill that void

A LDR seems like that much of a lost cause that I turned down a girl I would’ve otherwise wifed because even a LDR on those terms has no chance IMO especially in NY/LA

We just live in different times today. Women back in the day use to move accross the country and world for dudes they wanted.

Now they catch an attitude if you ain't trying to me to the same city as them.

 

[The ADD]

I met a girl from LA while she was in town and she had every quality I wanted in a woman. Physically, mentally, financially and I’m a bougie and picky ass nikka when it comes to women

She added me to her Close Friends after we met and started reposting mad baby IG accounts and super dramatic marriage proposals at the Griffith Observatory

As we got to know each other better I can tell she wanted to start a LD situation with her coming to NY and me staying with her in LA.

We still keep in touch but I ended up just falling back off her because of how impossible a LDR always seemed to me. I know how needy women are when it comes to affection and attention from the man they want and no amount of FaceTime can fill that void

A LDR seems like that much of a lost cause that I turned down a girl I would’ve otherwise wifed because even a LDR on those terms has no chance IMO especially in NY/LA

This is true relative to LDRs but you hardly knew her. Might have been good initially and not so much later on.

 

[tyfireman15]

Being thirsty takes a man's power away from him. Being selective gives a man more value.

Simps ruin the game because they simp over a girl's looks instead of evaluating her character

Ask yourself "Do you like this person? If this person cool enough for me to chill with her? Learn how to read a person. "Bad bytches" are a dime a dozen outchea.

Avoid getting emotional with a woman. Most of them are insecure don't let the "tough" exterior fool you. Be secure within yourself man. Women like men who are superior than them. Don't be so easy, be hard to want.

Nothing ever goes away until it teaches us a lesson.
You would think I’d have learn my lesson by now with long distance relationships. Second one that fails back to back after such a strong start. They get so emotionally involved and then they start panicking. Same bs about how they fell for me but can’t do long distance. Money, and time all spent for bittersweet memories. I done got rid of so many girls for her. She had the nerves to say we can revisit things if we end up in the same city. I’m 30 looking at all this shyt like damn, I have no issues getting a chick but I can’t keep them for shiii How do others make it work ?

I’m in one now. I’m trying to back off a little cause the “logistics “ is just unattainable right now. She don’t understand.

 

[Apollo Creed]

This is true relative to LDRs but you hardly knew her. Might have been good initially and not so much later on.

Dudes live disney fairy tales more than women. nikkas talking wifey after two weeks of netflix sex and uber eats lol

 

[The ADD]

Dudes live disney fairy tales more than women. nikkas talking wifey after two weeks of netflix sex and uber eats lol

Yeah I was reading like

 

[Ahadi]

Dudes live disney fairy tales more than women. nikkas talking wifey after two weeks of netflix sex and uber eats lol

This is what happens in households with single moms. Meanwhile the moms are putting their daughters on game lol

“Have fun”

Meanwhile the boys are set up to get their pockets ran, if they don’t have a father or male figures in their lives..

 

[Apollo Creed]

This is what happens in households with single moms. Meanwhile the moms are putting their daughters on game lol

“Have fun”

Meanwhile the boys are set up to get their pockets ran, if they don’t have a father or male figures in their lives..

In 2023 you literally gotta take shyt day by day with chicks lmfao. Planning a future is idiotic and if you do always gave a contingency plan.

This sounds harsh but we have never in history been jn the currently climate we have thus to ignore it and think “you different” is asking for it


We treat women as clueless helpless creatures and they dunking from half court on us