YUP. I don’t plan shyt anymore lol. That’s dead.
My go to: “I’m going to be here, you’re welcomed to join” or having a drink here, come through”
Every time I plan shyt, I get caught off guard or they feel “pressured” or I’m moving too fast. That’s done. Plus they’re juggling, so let somebody else pay the bill or use some other simps resources.
Then they complain “guys don’t wana plan anymore” NOPE.
All it takes is a post on social media to say “why this is a red flag, or maybe you spoke to someone the wrong way, or etc.
That’s the problem, they aren’t clueless. They know how to go to work, focus on their useless careers, collect debt, girls trip, but they just don’t prioritize men because of their sisterhood of bitter moms, aunts, etc.
Be selfish & lie