Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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“You haven’t given me a single reason to hang out with you”

These bytches are nutty

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Have y'all ever planned a date and on the day of felt like you weren't in the right mood for it. I had a date planned tonight but I just wasn't feeling it not that there was anything wrong with her but I want to do it another day. If so how would you handle that?
 

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Have y'all ever planned a date and on the day of felt like you weren't in the right mood for it. I had a date planned tonight but I just wasn't feeling it not that there was anything wrong with her but I want to do it another day. If so how would you handle that?
Just cancel it if you're not feeling up to it. I do it all the time. I think 3-4 hrs heads up is a good amount of time.
 

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Have y'all ever planned a date and on the day of felt like you weren't in the right mood for it. I had a date planned tonight but I just wasn't feeling it not that there was anything wrong with her but I want to do it another day. If so how would you handle that?

I do the same. I listen to my gut.

If something doesn’t feel right with her or the energy isn’t meh / I may be wasting my time. I’ll just pull the plug.
 

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Some of that is just anxiety/nerves

like before a trip, debating whether to get on the plane

it's about control, and not knowing how it will turn out, dinner with a stranger, could be terrible---- feels reassuring/powerful to be able to not go through with it

probably every date/trip I have been on, have second guessed myself up the first moment.
 

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Some of that is just anxiety/nerves

like before a trip, debating whether to get on the plane

it's about control, and not knowing how it will turn out, dinner with a stranger, could be terrible---- feels reassuring/powerful to be able to not go through with it

probably every date/trip I have been on, have second guessed myself up the first moment.

That’s why it’s important that whatever the activity is, it’s what YOU want to do. Because that energy is translate.

Instead of jus doing something to completely please her.
 

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That’s why it’s important that whatever the activity is, it’s what YOU want to do. Because that energy is translate.

Instead of jus doing something to completely please her.

100% always do this, that's why all my dates are good, because it's always dope shyt

but also, try to make sure it's something THEY want to do, or like anyone would want to do

who doesn't want to go to the newest spot in the city? or the luxury resort outside the city? and yet, not everyone goes.
 

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I hear IG is better than dating apps.

Do y'all send messages to randoms on there or only talk to women you've already known or at least met irl?
 

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I hear IG is better than dating apps.

Do y'all send messages to randoms on there or only talk to women you've already known or at least met irl?
I haven’t done it, but I have a strong feeling I can set some plays up w girls I already know. I have a small following but it’s niche and my engagement is higher than pages w thousands of followers. If you clouted up I could see it working
 
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