Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Had to walk away from a girl I had strong feelings for. The energy changed with her. Not texting me back right away, not calling as much, couldn’t spend as much time with me. She said she got busy with work and life but we all know that if a woman really wants to see you, they gonna make it happen. Just had that feeling in my gut and had to bounce she swore up and down that things were the same but my gut was screaming at me :francis: Idk if I’m making a mistake or not but the last time I didn’t listen to my gut I got burned…
 

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Had to walk away from a girl I had strong feelings for. The energy changed with her. Not texting me back right away, not calling as much, couldn’t spend as much time with me. She said she got busy with work and life but we all know that if a woman really wants to see you, they gonna make it happen. Just had that feeling in my gut and had to bounce she swore up and down that things were the same but my gut was screaming at me :francis: Idk if I’m making a mistake or not but the last time I didn’t listen to my gut I got burned…
Listen to that gut man. It’s for the best
 

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Had to walk away from a girl I had strong feelings for. The energy changed with her. Not texting me back right away, not calling as much, couldn’t spend as much time with me. She said she got busy with work and life but we all know that if a woman really wants to see you, they gonna make it happen. Just had that feeling in my gut and had to bounce she swore up and down that things were the same but my gut was screaming at me :francis: Idk if I’m making a mistake or not but the last time I didn’t listen to my gut I got burned…

A woman who is into you is never truly busy
 

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Had to walk away from a girl I had strong feelings for. The energy changed with her. Not texting me back right away, not calling as much, couldn’t spend as much time with me. She said she got busy with work and life but we all know that if a woman really wants to see you, they gonna make it happen. Just had that feeling in my gut and had to bounce she swore up and down that things were the same but my gut was screaming at me :francis: Idk if I’m making a mistake or not but the last time I didn’t listen to my gut I got burned…

What did you say? Or did you just ghost?
 

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We've all been there brehs non stop messages, first few phone calls hours . Constant dates , everything just connecting


Then boom.busy with work or with life. If you don't message they never do . If you don't call they never do.

They are not busy. I've dated a gynecologist, I've dated a lawyer at a big firm. They all had time to message or reschedule if they were "busy"

Women use busy as a easy way to let you down hoping you get the point to stop messaging and calling.

Just go out anywhere the avg person is looking at their phone every five min at least.


The same woman who is so busy with work is texting during work hours and scrolling through social media
 

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We've all been there brehs non stop messages, first few phone calls hours . Constant dates , everything just connecting


Then boom.busy with work or with life. If you don't message they never do . If you don't call they never do.

They are not busy. I've dated a gynecologist, I've dated a lawyer at a big firm. They all had time to message or reschedule if they were "busy"

Women use busy as a easy way to let you down hoping you get the point to stop messaging and calling.

Just go out anywhere the avg person is looking at their phone every five min at least.


The same woman who is so busy with work is texting during work hours and scrolling through social media
It's elementary shyt we learned in high school
the minute she stops sweating you is the minute another dude caught her fancy and made her tingle
strike while the iron's hot, enjoy your turn, and when her feelings get spun up by the next man charge it to the game and KIM

"I'm busier than Jeff Bezos," ghosting, leaving you on read, "I just saw this" 3 days later: IT'S OVER
 

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It's elementary shyt we learned in high school
the minute she stops sweating you is the minute another dude caught her fancy and made her tingle
strike while the iron's hot, enjoy your turn, and when her feelings get spun up by the next man charge it to the game and KIM

"I'm busier than Jeff Bezos," ghosting, leaving you on read, "I just saw this" 3 days later: IT'S OVER
Lol exactly. 90% of being busy yohe phone is in your hand or on the table mext to you. And these chicks aint working at constructions sites or stuff like that 9/10 times.
 

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Had to walk away from a girl I had strong feelings for. The energy changed with her. Not texting me back right away, not calling as much, couldn’t spend as much time with me. She said she got busy with work and life but we all know that if a woman really wants to see you, they gonna make it happen. Just had that feeling in my gut and had to bounce she swore up and down that things were the same but my gut was screaming at me :francis: Idk if I’m making a mistake or not but the last time I didn’t listen to my gut I got burned…
Were y’all together officially?
 

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Were y’all together officially?
Yea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for me :heh: I’m in my 30s now and I have that sixth scent when it comes to bullshyt. She started getting distant over the summer. The final straw was when I hit her in the morning and she didn’t respond until the next day.. we would talk daily but now you ghost? Only saw me once in the last 2 weeks.

If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.

It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t work :manny: I’m sad over it but I’ll be alright.
 

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Yea for about a year. This woman is a teacher and wouldn’t be allowed on her phone during class and still got right back to me. Would see me at any time always called right back if she missed it. She was busier last year but made more time for me :heh: I’m in my 30s now and I have that sixth scent when it comes to bullshyt. She started getting distant over the summer. The final straw was when I hit her in the morning and she didn’t respond until the next day.. we would talk daily but now you ghost? Only saw me once in the last 2 weeks.

If I was younger I would have been “what’s going on you’re not the same?” stressing and shyt.

It’s crazy. They wake up one day and that’s it. In reality she was probably planning her exit like they all do but I beat her to the punch. That begging pleading shyt don’t work :manny: I’m sad over it but I’ll be alright.

This why you keep a roster/never commit.

Lotta women have a “if i dont have a ring im single” mentality, yet men dont dk the same.
 
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