Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Apollo Creed said:
it isn't a thing. I got married homies and we only link for sporting events. Outside of that we live two very different lives and I don't mix into marry people shyt and I`m not putting them into Single people stuff and being the reason they screw up their marriage.

its the journey of a man so embrace it. Learn to chart your own path. IMO if you married you shouldn't even be doing singles people shyt/guys/girls trips. Link up with the homies for like local shyt or sports/whatever thing y'all bond on, but trips should be for you and your family or if you into the couples retreat things.
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yea very fair. I wouldnt wanna get the homies in trouble at all and you def wanna support their marriage

I just didnt wanna spend 3k just to feel like the awkward 5th wheel. I'd most likely end up leaving everyone to smoke weed on the beach tryna fukk whatever chic on the resort lol

Its good though cause solo travel is something I've genuinely wanted to get into trying. I guess this is just another situation where I gotta force myself :manny:
 
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Brandsdale said:
yea very fair. I wouldnt wanna get the homies in trouble at all and you def wanna support their marriage

I just didnt wanna spend 3k just to feel like the awkward 5th wheel. I'd most likely end up leaving everyone to smoke weed on the beach tryna fukk whatever chic on the resort lol

Its good though cause solo travel is something I've genuinely wanted to get into trying. I guess this is just another situation where I gotta force myself :manny:
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Jamaica aint worth no damn 3 racks anyways.
 
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Guvnor said:
Me and my girl got into a big fight about this. Question fellas, how y'all feel about you girl occasionally going on girls trips maybe once or twice a year?

I told her I wasn't comfortable because I wasn't raised that way where women do that kinda thing. Was I unreasonable?
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Women are strange as fukk .

How you should have done it was tell her "have a good time."

That's gonna throw her off guard and make her stay on her toes or change her mind about going because she's wondering your next move. Gatekeeping her moves gonna push her away
 
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Guvnor said:
Me and my girl got into a big fight about this. Question fellas, how y'all feel about you girl occasionally going on girls trips maybe once or twice a year?

I told her I wasn't comfortable because I wasn't raised that way where women do that kinda thing. Was I unreasonable?
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If you weren't raised that way, I get the thoughts that come with that situation, sometimes of what others may think when they ask you where she is. It's a respect factor, but it's also something for you and her to discuss and be comfortable with.

But if you don't give women space and time to be girly with their friends, they'll find another way to do it, or a shoulder to cry on about it.

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not sure where to ask this so imma ask here:

If yall had a chance to go on vacay with ya homies, but ALL their wives were attending, would you still go?

I ask because this trip to JA is looking like a couple's retreat (no single dudes are going), and the few times ive gone out with them and their wives, it ends up just being a discussion about marriage and they kids :francis: (no offence)
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That's a setup for all parties involved.
 
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Byronml said:
If you weren't raised that way, I get the thoughts that come with that situation, sometimes of what others may think when they ask you where she is. It's a respect factor, but it's also something for you and her to discuss and be comfortable with.

But if you don't give women space and time to be girly with their friends, they'll find another way to do it, or a shoulder to cry on about it.


That's a setup for all parties involved.
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From what I know about these trips, they end up causing tension between couples because of the now extended amount of time everyone is spending together. Now inside issues start becoming visible, especially if the discussions always end up being about marriage and kids. There's not much for you to relate to and someone will always try and "kick knowledge".

Also, being the only single one there, the women will either try and keep their husband away from you or act funny around any woman you meet and want to bring around. It just gets complicated. You're single, you can have fun, the husbands see you can have fun and the wives for some reason get alarmed and annoyed when they see their man having fun.
 
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Byronml said:
From what I know about these trips, they end up causing tension between couples because of the now extended amount of time everyone is spending together. Now inside issues start becoming visible, especially if the discussions always end up being about marriage and kids. There's not much for you to relate to and someone will always try and "kick knowledge".

Also, being the only single one there, the women will either try and keep their husband away from you or act funny around any woman you meet and want to bring around. It just gets complicated. You're single, you can have fun, the husbands see you can have fun and the wives for some reason get alarmed and annoyed when they see their man having fun.
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lol very good point

its funny cause the 2 homies who are guaranteed to go, I've hung out with them and their wives before and hanging out with them turns into them gossipping about the other wives and husbands in the group, or discussing my other homie whos single (they think hes toxic). I remember this happening on a day we were all suppose to watch NBA finals (we never watched the game cause the wives were busy talking)

I feel like these instances will just happen again on vacay :jbhmm: lol
 
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I’m back on the dating apps and I am feeling bad about swiping left on the big girls. They look like they have big hearts but the drawls are also to big:hubie:
 
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:mjlol: Girl talking about wedding plans and I saw a budget of $55K, I told her :camby:. Got me fukked up. Traditional wedding which should not cost much and destination elopement. Like wtf is wrong with women. I don't give a shyt about feelings just for a day.
 
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