Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[twan83]

This algerian girl doe
I gotta stop getting at muslims chicks b.

Like I asked her out like a few months ago, and she was like but im working So i took it as a no and kept on moving, but everytime i see her maybe

and no I don't have all my eggs in one basket its just when I see her she kissin me on the cheek when she see me, she more touchful and shyt. but I know them signs aint shyt I'm prob in the friend zone(but I only see her at certain occasions I dont even try to call her or text her n shyt)

still man SHE SO FINEEEEEE
I should try to ask her out again(when I did i only knew her for like a month that was back in february)

hmm if u want u could do it this way just ask her too kick it with you aka chill
when i wasnt sure bout a female if she was giving me mixed signals no flat out answer or i felt playing games
i did this

me:hey im gonna see this movie wanna see it and chill out
her: u asking me out on a date
me: no i just was inviting you for a movie heard was good wouldnt mind the company but i can go alone too no biggie too me
her: oh ok sure lets go

after the movie
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: ya thats coo

or i did this too the one who gave mixed signals on purpose
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: give me ur number and i'll let you know when im free
next day she calls
her: i was wondering if ur busy tonite or tomorrow so we can do something
me: yea but i'll let you know
her:
3 days later
me: if ur down im free this day
her: ya
( then after the date she wanna give it up cuz of lack of attention those few days )

 

[Beerus]

hmm if u want u could do it this way just ask her too kick it with you aka chill
when i wasnt sure bout a female if she was giving me mixed signals no flat out answer or i felt playing games
i did this

me:hey im gonna see this movie wanna see it and chill out
her: u asking me out on a date
me: no i just was inviting you for a movie heard was good wouldnt mind the company but i can go alone too no biggie too me
her: oh ok sure lets go

after the movie
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: ya thats coo

or i did this too the one who gave mixed signals on purpose
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: give me ur number and i'll let you know when im free
next day she calls
her: i was wondering if ur busy tonite or tomorrow so we can do something
me: yea but i'll let you know
her:
3 days later
me: if ur down im free this day
her: ya
( then after the date she wanna give it up cuz of lack of attention those few days )

 

[MikelArteta]

hmm if u want u could do it this way just ask her too kick it with you aka chill
when i wasnt sure bout a female if she was giving me mixed signals no flat out answer or i felt playing games
i did this

me:hey im gonna see this movie wanna see it and chill out
her: u asking me out on a date
me: no i just was inviting you for a movie heard was good wouldnt mind the company but i can go alone too no biggie too me
her: oh ok sure lets go

after the movie
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: ya thats coo

or i did this too the one who gave mixed signals on purpose
her: ya that was a good movie i had fun we should do this again but go on a date this time
me: give me ur number and i'll let you know when im free
next day she calls
her: i was wondering if ur busy tonite or tomorrow so we can do something
me: yea but i'll let you know
her:
3 days later
me: if ur down im free this day
her: ya
( then after the date she wanna give it up cuz of lack of attention those few days )

i do the same thing, i always have something plan like

im going to the waterfront to take pictures want to come?

or im going to check out this new restaurant want to come?

they say no , they say yes I was going anyways

 

[twan83]

its crazy how a simple no call or text for a day or 2 gets them all wild up and then they wanna get down and have sex
im not ever gonna shyt on all females when i post my opinions cuz i know we got some good one's but i will always post what i truly believe and what personal experiences i went thru

i dont want u fellas thinking women aint shyt well some are and some aint but i want too help broaden ur knowledge so u will be ok and not make the mistakes some of us have too save u the trouble and heartbreak

if i help out one guy then my mission is accomplished
ill continue to drop stories and advice though and read post

 

[re'up]

This algerian girl doe
I gotta stop getting at muslims chicks b.

Like I asked her out like a few months ago, and she was like but im working So i took it as a no and kept on moving, but everytime i see her maybe

and no I don't have all my eggs in one basket its just when I see her she kissin me on the cheek when she see me, she more touchful and shyt. but I know them signs aint shyt I'm prob in the friend zone(but I only see her at certain occasions I dont even try to call her or text her n shyt)

still man SHE SO FINEEEEEE
I should try to ask her out again(when I did i only knew her for like a month that was back in february)

In similar spot, except girl is Iraqi....I've been into her for like 2 years, 5 years older....flirts with me, asks me to take her out, (we should go out together) asks for #, complimented/commented on my looks multiple times, has called me to tell me some meaningless little thing, tells me she doesn't see anybody has nowhere to go...so like 3 weeks ago, I'm talking to her at her work, she says 'I almost called you last weekend, I went to ____ bar, by myself (to see a mutual girlfriend) but it like was 12:30 when I got there, and I didn't know if you'd want to, or what you were doing'

So, enough is enough, I pull it together, and I'm like 'do you want to go out this weekend with me'? Looking back I should have specified, lunch, drinks..not just generic going out like a bar/club, but I think it was clear enough... something I wanted to ask forever, and she....run arounds me.....in that so sweet and agonizing way, like I knew she would....She's like 'I'll call you when....' and I was still polite and laughing, I didn't go dark or desperate, 'You have my #, I don't have yours...and I see you like once a month, so...', then later makes reference to us out on date 'Will you do this..." I think theres a lot wrapped up in her actions, from family (her brother is close/best friend), her age, she sees herself as some old spinster or some shyt...whatever, i'm still into her though, you know how that shyt is, when I see her just does that thing to me like very few women can, half breathless and forget all the other shyt you were thinking, even about her...

 

[360dagod]

I remember when I used to have fun with women....

I still have a lil roster, but im just never in the mood to take chances anymore

 

[MikelArteta]

How did you know your wife was a good woman?

its crazy how a simple no call or text for a day or 2 gets them all wild up and then they wanna get down and have sex
im not ever gonna shyt on all females when i post my opinions cuz i know we got some good one's but i will always post what i truly believe and what personal experiences i went thru

i dont want u fellas thinking women aint shyt well some are and some aint but i want too help broaden ur knowledge so u will be ok and not make the mistakes some of us have too save u the trouble and heartbreak

if i help out one guy then my mission is accomplished
ill continue to drop stories and advice though and read post

 

[Turbulent]

it's been said before but i'll say it the way i see it.

the more hope, affection and p*ssy a woman has invested in past failed attempts to secure a man, the harder her heart becomes and the more resentful and unruly she will be in the long run in a relationship until she truly forgives herself. but to forgive yourself you have to accept reponsibility...and us men are the same way except you replace giving up p*ssy with general simping.

this is why wifing women with high numbers of sexual partners.

 

[Shameonyou]

women want you to keep playing the game...thats how they stay relevant...DONT PLAY when you dont play, she has nobody to win, or lose to within the game....

I stopped taking this girl seriously when I found out she already had a dude she was close to getting into a relationship with...while she was leading me on having me think Me and her had something...all these women are sneaky as fukk. Its funny now that I think back at it. This chick just wanted me to tell her I wanted her, just so she could pull the friend zone card....But im a grown ass man, and I know these bytches and how they are....so I cut contact, I dont entertain her, I dont even look at the bytch...

and now shes all on my facebook liking all my pics....but little does she know shes already lost...shes done to me. These bytches wont win if you DONT PLAY... DONT PLAY BREHS DONT PLAY!!

 

[MikelArteta]

The only way to win is not to play .

As shocking as it seems as times go on I care less and less about dealing with women.

I'd watch watch college football and the NFL than hang out with a broad .

I don't need the stress, the lies, the pandering the playing of games to keep a chicks attention.

The only thing women have over you is their vagina

women want you to keep playing the game...thats how they stay relevant...DONT PLAY when you dont play, she has nobody to win, or lose to within the game....

I stopped taking this girl seriously when I found out she already had a dude she was close to getting into a relationship with...while she was leading me on having me think Me and her had something...all these women are sneaky as fukk. Its funny now that I think back at it. This chick just wanted me to tell her I wanted her, just so she could pull the friend zone card....But im a grown ass man, and I know these bytches and how they are....so I cut contact, I dont entertain her, I dont even look at the bytch...

and now shes all on my facebook liking all my pics....but little does she know shes already lost...shes done to me. These bytches wont win if you DONT PLAY... DONT PLAY BREHS DONT PLAY!!

 

[Turbulent]

women want you to keep playing the game...thats how they stay relevant...DONT PLAY when you dont play, she has nobody to win, or lose to within the game....

I stopped taking this girl seriously when I found out she already had a dude she was close to getting into a relationship with...while she was leading me on having me think Me and her had something...all these women are sneaky as fukk. Its funny now that I think back at it. This chick just wanted me to tell her I wanted her, just so she could pull the friend zone card....But im a grown ass man, and I know these bytches and how they are....so I cut contact, I dont entertain her, I dont even look at the bytch...

and now shes all on my facebook liking all my pics....but little does she know shes already lost...shes done to me. These bytches wont win if you DONT PLAY... DONT PLAY BREHS DONT PLAY!!

if you notice when most women give you advice on women, it's always about what you should do that would be pleasant to the woman. it's always "you should do XYZ because women like that". they want you to play their game but when you step back and actually think about it, what does XYZ and her liking this have to do with your happiness? see they give this advice with the assumption that your happiness is dependant on the woman being happy. That's the trick. that's the game they try to play right there. "make her happy and she will stay with you and therefore you will be happy because you obviously need her to be happy." that's the conventional wisdom they operate on. Once you're letting yourself being sucked into that belief system, you end up selling your soul.

 

[twan83]

How did you know your wife was a good woman?

u never know 100% of the time u go by what u see and what u know and their actions. im not gonna sit here and say she is flawless and dont get on my damn nerves cuz u know what she gets on my damn nerves and can piss me off too but at the same time she is there when i need her and has always been truthful too me. she shows her love in so many ways and very often that i cant even keep up.

i mean i can play video games with her, watch movies and tv, sex is always there and good, cook, clean and take care of kids and she works. she is in school right now too make even more money.

she does all those things and more of course there are times where she slacks off in diff areas and can upset me but nobody is perfect but she fits my needs on a good woman that i want


i need a woman too show me alot of love and attention. someone i can have a convo bout anything without worrying bout her reaction all the time. i need a woman that respects me and etc

cuz the way my mind frame of thinking of how females are shyt wont last cuz i truly dont trust a female 100% no matter how good they are too me cuz of what i have seen but i can build that trust up with how they are and their actions. and i like alot of attention

no matter what i say now sure i can be sharing that girl and all but i dont be thinking bout shyt like that cuz that is out of my hands i enjoy what i have and if shyt dont work or falls apart i worry bout that if ever comes and if it did

I WILL ALWAYS BE ALRIGHT CUZ IM ME AND I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF AND KIDS

 

[Drew Wonder]

It's always annoying to hear that "so where are we going with this" talk from a chick you're messing with. Buuuut, I'm also learning that if you never get that talk, she only sees you as a fling.

I met this older woman(she's 31, I'm 25) at an outdoor concert back on July 4. Extremely laid-back and just had an overall chill vibe about her. she let me hit it after the third date. from there we entered something that I guess wasn't quite a relationship, but def had more depth than jumpoff territory. like we still went out to places together and I genuinely enjoyed her company even when we weren't having sex.

that whole time I was wondering when the inevitable, "so where are we going with this?" question would come, but it never came, which was cool with me. but I'm not even gonna front, I started to see her as someone I could possibly build something with. she was extremely chill, never dramatic, very smart, no kids and was just a cool person to be around. so while I wasn't gonna straight up ask her "will you be my girlfriend," I was ready to act more "boyfriendish" in my actions(take her out on more formal dates, call her more often, etc). but just as I was about to do that, she starting to ignore my calls and was always "busy" when I tried to make plans.

I was legit cuz she never gave me any signs she was angry at me. but when I told my boy about the situation he was like, "she just saw you as a fling, especially with you being so much younger, the fact that ya'll were fukkin and she never asked for any type of commitment confirmed that, she had her fun now she's just talking to someone new."

i was kind of at first cuz she is cool as hell(which is hard for me to find these days) but in the end I had to and keep it moving. if she never got emotional or tried pressuring me into anything serious then she just didn't see me as a potential boyfriend. it's just crazy how it seems like the jumpoffs have the perfect personalities while the girls who actually want relationships are annoying as fukk. if I find someone who combines the two, then I'll know it's someone special

 

[semicko82]

I got advice from this female that I should ask for feedback from women that flaked on me or we just didn't hit if off. YAY or NAY?

 

[Atlrocafella]

Don't know what got into me today brehs, I was in my gym clothes and still decided to approach a chick at the grocery store with no fukks given. Got the digits with relative ease