So you dont like women who were athletes? Couldnt be me breh
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Illuminatos
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So she actually goes to the gym every day lol. I had to tell her to chill and take some rest days.How high on the list of activities were exercise related things such as the gym, martial arts class, cross fit, etc in comparison to the sedentry and lazy activities like netflixing, always going out to eat, etc...... if she showed a focused lack of enthusiasm towards physically demanding activities or outright glossing over them with excuses...... well you have your answer.
But went on our third date Saturday night. Went to a nice Indian restaurant. Got a better look at her body and it’s definitely in better shape than I thought. It was definitely the clothes she was wearing previously. I was thinking of bushing her after date 1 but she’s been looking more and more like her Tinder pics after each date.
skyrunner1
Superstar
I love sports and played growing up but feel same way now lol. I used to think it would be dope to have girl who was into sports as much as me, then I got that and she was debating about kobe/Lebron and into fantasy football
, would feel some type of way when would go to away games with boys.. Learned real quick I liked it better when they were completely oblivious and didnt care one bit.I dont want to speak for breh but you would be surprised how many breh nevertheless women who are athletes but dont even watch or pay attention to even their individual sport. I have seen fans question ballers because they dont eat sleep or some even care about whatever sport some play just because they can.
issue is dudes aint getting no motion thus want to hang on to any sense of hope. Apps should be some passive shyt you do when on the toilet. Have a real life lol. When you don't have a life apps are your only source thus you try to make anything shake
Yeah these brehs are putting way too much stock into these dating apps and dating in general. Just go out and mix and mingle. People are too focused on the finish line and going on these interview style dates.
yeah im like if I don't even enjoy talking to you why would I want to meet you in real life? And if a bytch is on an app has the "don't have time for the app" shyt you are clearly dealing with a weirdo so you just as weird even wanting to chat. nikkas must not value their time to want to waste their day with any ol person especially when most chicks are bums or mentally disturbed
shyt honestly becomes exhausting. And I personally think that as a man, what makes it worse is that no matter the situation you are always considered to be at fault. "You blew it", "Why did you say that", "You should have called her instead", "Dont call, thats creepy", "You shouldve invited her over". "You invited her over too soon", "Apply pressure", "Don't chase". You're always doing too much or not doing enough.
I can go on and on. No matter the case...it is always YOU who dropped the ball and fukked up.
At this point I am prolly gonna stop discussing my escapades with friends altogether. shyt makes you feel like something is wrong with you
This is the truth and also why alot of guys don't even talk to their friends , family , about relationships because 9 times outta 10 regardless it's YOUR fault
"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "
I'm like so what the fukk ?
It's like dating became such a mind fukk that it's a wonder people are tapping from that shyt.
I can go on and on. No matter the case...it is always YOU who dropped the ball and fukked up.
At this point I am prolly gonna stop discussing my escapades with friends altogether. shyt makes you feel like something is wrong with youThis is the truth and also why alot of guys don't even talk to their friends , family , about relationships because 9 times outta 10 regardless it's YOUR fault
"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "
I'm like so what the fukk ?
It's like dating became such a mind fukk that it's a wonder people are tapping from that shyt.yea i could tell that comment resonated with a lot of pplshyt honestly becomes exhausting. And I personally think that as a man, what makes it worse is that no matter the situation you are always considered to be at fault. "You blew it", "Why did you say that", "You should have called her instead", "Dont call, thats creepy", "You shouldve invited her over". "You invited her over too soon", "Apply pressure", "Don't chase". You're always doing too much or not doing enough.
I can go on and on. No matter the case...it is always YOU who dropped the ball and fukked up.
This is the truth and also why alot of guys don't even talk to their friends , family , about relationships because 9 times outta 10 regardless it's YOUR fault
"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "
I'm like so what the fukk ?
the problem is that women have the power and they not equipped to handle that shyt given how fickle, delusional and emotional they are naturally. despite this delusion, men would rather chastise each other than accept that the women are just on some bullshyt.
Back then it was kinda an even trade. Men had resources and women had p*ssy. Men needed p*ssy and women needed a mans resources so to some degree it kept people honest. Now, women have resources...but still want and expect your resources but dont respect your resources because they have their own. As a result, most men feel like they not getting anything out of the equation. They gotta work just as hard if not more for what they want, but get none of the respect or appreciation they once did.
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
I think there’s also a communicative and relationship disconnect that has rapidly eroded over the last decade or so and I can’t quite figure out when that happened. Sometimes dating app threads will pop up and older brehs will reminisce about the early days of the apps. 2013-2015 ish and how easy it was to meet women. For example I was on Tinder, POF, Okcupid back then and it was nothing to get a girl to meet same day or next day minimum effort required and they’d be decent quality looks wise and actually pretty cool chicks. Very little cat and mouse games. I used to approach girls in the gym back in 2014-2016 and would get constant dates, no flaking at all. Wild to think about how much has changed.
Fast forward to 2025. Literally 10 years later. What happened?
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
dating has ALWAYS been like this...as an adultshyt honestly becomes exhausting. And I personally think that as a man, what makes it worse is that no matter the situation you are always considered to be at fault. "You blew it", "Why did you say that", "You should have called her instead", "Dont call, thats creepy", "You shouldve invited her over". "You invited her over too soon", "Apply pressure", "Don't chase". You're always doing too much or not doing enough.
I can go on and on. No matter the case...it is always YOU who dropped the ball and fukked up.
This is the truth and also why alot of guys don't even talk to their friends , family , about relationships because 9 times outta 10 regardless it's YOUR fault
"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "
I'm like so what the fukk ?
and since men are the ones who do the pursuing...it's always on us....
it's like sex....it's on us to 'perform'
if a session is bad its always on us...even if she just laying there (which is a lot of them)....
it is what it is breh
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
the social media explosion is what happened
yeah social media was around but it wasnt what it has become now
now EVERY woman has a dm full of thirsty men....that kind of attention has inflated womens ego to crazy proportions....
we talk about it all the time here that the most average of women think they are supermodel status....
and dont let them have a nice ass....
a nice ass AND a social media following....you cant compete with that
the social media explosion is what happened
yeah social media was around but it wasnt what it has become now
now EVERY woman has a dm full of thirsty men....that kind of attention has inflated womens ego to crazy proportions....
we talk about it all the time here that the most average of women think they are supermodel status....
and dont let them have a nice ass....
a nice ass AND a social media following....you cant compete with that
Yup even the most hideous girl you can think of, the most obese can hop on an app and be bombarded with dudes calling her this and that etc
With online dating and social media women don't have any dry spells
I even went out on a date with a girl with sickle cell and she wasn't well at all very nice girl and even she had crazy amount of options
Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
Working out and being an athlete is diff to me than someone who is a die hard sports fans and wants to argue and knows all the players and shyt. Most college and high school athletes are freaks I know this first hand lol.
Tommy Lee Jones
All Star
the problem is bytches are retarded and the younger they are the more retarded. I just matched one her prompt said typical Sunday is cooking for my man. I said this is my love language then we matched. she wrote lol ok and I wrote what's your favorite thing to cook? she says I have a lot.
I already know what type of time she's on either shes dumb, playing games, or just matched to match. usually when they send answers like that it's one of those few scenarios or all 3.