Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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But brehs every failure is :blessed: I think back before I met my wife. I was talking to this Ghanian girl we went out like six times but I felt like I had to do everything, always the one to call, text or schedule a date and even when I asked to take her out it was always let me see my schedule and get back to you.

If this chick made more of an effort I would have prob just travelled never met anyone etc. and came back and continue the dog and cat chase but I picked up this ish wasn't going anywhere and then I met my wife and never looked back at these time wasting brehettes again.


Every rejection, ever chick messing up is just leading you to a better chick that won't we don't see it at first but it's for the best
 

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Or just talk to a bunch of chicks until you're in a serious relationship

I remember some chick calling me and I was like who is this? She got so upset and I never heard from her again . Wasn't till after I realized who it was but yeah
Would rather gaslight the bytch into giving up the cheeks so she lives with the fact that I was inside her
 

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But brehs every failure is :blessed: I think back before I met my wife. I was talking to this Ghanian girl we went out like six times but I felt like I had to do everything, always the one to call, text or schedule a date and even when I asked to take her out it was always let me see my schedule and get back to you.

If this chick made more of an effort I would have prob just travelled never met anyone etc. and came back and continue the dog and cat chase but I picked up this ish wasn't going anywhere and then I met my wife and never looked back at these time wasting brehettes again.


Every rejection, ever chick messing up is just leading you to a better chick that won't we don't see it at first but it's for the best
im quick to let them go when I notice its gonna play out like this
 

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shyt honestly becomes exhausting. And I personally think that as a man, what makes it worse is that no matter the situation you are always considered to be at fault. "You blew it", "Why did you say that", "You should have called her instead", "Dont call, thats creepy", "You shouldve invited her over". "You invited her over too soon", "Apply pressure", "Don't chase". You're always doing too much or not doing enough.

I can go on and on. No matter the case...it is always YOU who dropped the ball and fukked up. :laugh: At this point I am prolly gonna stop discussing my escapades with friends altogether. shyt makes you feel like something is wrong with you



This is the truth and also why alot of guys don't even talk to their friends , family , about relationships because 9 times outta 10 regardless it's YOUR fault

"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "

I'm like so what the fukk ? :mjtf: It's like dating became such a mind fukk that it's a wonder people are tapping from that shyt.

That’s why I just do what I want. If I’m attractive enough to her, I’ll either get away with it, or she’ll leave.

Following rules is a headache.
 

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I know how you feel. In my last job i was making about 350K a year lol. If I didnt get effed over it woulda been closer to 400K. I was the only black man in a like a 200 person investments division that included private equity, credit investing, infrastructure investing and other shyt. I am not entitled or egotistical enough to think that just because I have a good job that I am superior but i mean lets keep it real ... we kinda are. For goodness sake I have on at least two occassions had two women tell me that I am like a black superman due to my looks, build, demeanor, glasses and everything. But somehow it aint enough for these bytches bro. :laugh:. They stay on code and try to keep us down/desperate and if you not secure enough you will fall for it.

Theres a serious issue in our community/culture man. Do these women know what it takes to make it as a software engineer at a good firm? How competitive it is. shyt's wild.

Is the question posed in this video even a question in most other cultures? lol


Granted they asking the lowest of the low but I have known professional women on the same shyt


& meanwhile, the dude who doesn’t have a bed frame is smashing the women you want

:laff:

It’s basically power. They just don’t want to submit.

He’s not a well known starter or anything but even he’s showed me some of the bullshyt he’s dealing with. But then again, he’s also shooting at top tier elite ig hoes who have access to the dubai shiekh’s, drake’s and futures of the world. Even he gets humbled

As for your NFL bud, he gotta shoot much lower lol. For ex. If I’m on the same team with Jalen Hurts, I know I’m not getting the same looks. There’s still levels and I’m sure those women are looking up his salary too.
 
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