Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Brehs.....is it a bad thing not to trust women at all?? Dealing with these females i find myself not trusting them and expecting them to cheat,lie,hide thingsfrom me and if they are and i find out im not even hurt/disappointed about the situation.... i guess a youngin just use to the game now, the women and the games they play.. i dont put nothing pass no one
There's a scripture where Jesus himself says to "seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you"

Pray to god for a good wife brehs :yeshrug:
 

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i stopped trusting women years ago, its when you finally let your guards down you will get played.

In my mind many people mix up trusting me with say being bitter or scared of being hurt not at all.


I know poeple will come in here and say relationships are built on trust etc. :heh:

Did you see this story? :heh:

http://nypost.com/2013/09/27/death-fake-son-tracked-down-in-ohio/

yall think we exagerrating when we discuss this power trip certain women be on....

yeah what the dude did was fukked up.......but it really says something about her to actually take glee in giving people permanent criminal records like this is some joke
 

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what do you mean?

Basically the guy who would get turned down, or females would turn their noses/look down upon over superficial, nonsensical reasons. For example:

"He doesn't have this or that/act this way or that way
He doesn't do this enough, or that enough"

You know, stupid reasons like that....
 

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Basically the guy who would get turned down, or females would turn their noses/look down upon over superficial, nonsensical reasons. For example:

"He doesn't have this or that/act this way or that way
He doesn't do this enough, or that enough"

You know, stupid reasons like that....

every man has been there, different women have different tastes, i never let what a woman thinks of me affect me, theres over 3.5 billion of them out there
 

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sad thing is being a nice guy and not just a nice guy to get puzzy, but a legit nice guy because you were brought up to treat people with respect, lead, be loving etc. will get you nowhere with most women today.

You will be looked upon as weak,you'll get more joy and praise in forgetting her birthday and doing nothing for valentines day, than taking her out for dinner and buying flowers because if you don't remember in her mind she's not a priority and she wants to be. It's messed up but sadly this is how alot of women think. I've been there been the loyal faithful guy, guy who cooked dinner on valentines day, guy who remembered her birthday, guy who never cursed at all, but I didn't give her the "tingles", i was stable steady, not the current waves and drama.

Like i said before, ive ignored a few women in my life, had sex never called back, strung them along, ignored etc. was the @sshole and they would always pop up whether it was a week or a month later they just couldn't stop even though they knew i was no good for them. The thing is when they get older, that child out of wedlock, when men are just running through them left and right thats when they want to "settle down", that's when they want the "nice guy", the starter husband :childplease:
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Man i've tried being the nice guy for 30 years, that has gotten me no where... I don't mean the push over, yes masta type nikka either. But legit nice dude and all that, who and just likes to chill and go out and have a good time....I swear if you don't fight with a chick and make them feel threaten they don't know how to act....



Any and every time I hook up with a chick I go out in a:birdman: mood or I'm like chick:whoa: up....of course they flock to me. Its like they have a "clearly this nikka is just trying to do himself tonight" radar. I want to be proven wrong, but these ladies just keep re enforcing that a nice dude isn't what they want until they can barely bare children.


Got my head hurt'n over here:whew:

#HARDONHOES is the way my brother. See you at the next meeting my friend.
 

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I want to get some opinions on a cold open asking out as opposed to chatting someone up for a few minutes before hand. Some nice looking chick caught my eye at this Mexican restaurant I go to semi-regularly (like twice a month) for lunch (she works there during the dinner hours, and I rarely/never go there for dinner). I'm debating just walking up to her one night and just straight up seeing if she wants to do something instead of possibly wasting my time by chatting her up only to get shut down.

Either way, I want to just say what's what, and see what happens.
 

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so she got engaged and is now trying to get back in my good graces? why wont she leave me the fukk alone?
 

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I think the location and where a woman is from says alot about her too. If your from lets say Willaochie,GA and your woman is from NYC you guys will clash not only culturally but in each other ways.I lived in North (from tri state area) and South. I will say although all women are same.However you can find deal with a woman easily from your birthplace ways easily compared to an out of towner.Culture and background are huge when dealing with women."Know the culture know the ways"
 
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