Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Got a Fwb been seeing for a minute think I’m gonna fall back.

Known her for years only
Didn’t want anything serious from her which was clear from beginning.

I’d say it wasn’t your typical Fwb set up, which probably hasn’t helped in hindsight.

Been comfy as was getting everything I needed and more

However there’s been a big shift in energy has been obvious for months, especially in terms of seeing each other and just her messages generally.

You know when a woman stops sending you cute messages and shyt lmao. Sexy videos and pics etc
Going from that to what it is now is like getting dumped in a bucket of cold water lmao

And just acting hot/cold overall, yet still wants the attention

Im pretty easy going but certain things she’s saying she’s not keeping it 100 and in my mind I’m just like don’t insult my intelligence. Called her out on her shyt couple of times but also I’m like meh


I’d say lesson here is don’t get too comfy.

Time to lock in for last half of the year

Ahhh the good ol' FWB, the euphemism for "We have romantic feelings for one another, but are both so peteified and juvenile about our emotions possibly being hurt that we will. pretend we are not romantically interested in one another while we do everything that people who are romatically interested in one another do, except call it what it is..... "

 

[The ADD]

Ahhh the good ol' FWB, the euphemism for "We have romantic feelings for one another, but are both so peteified and juvenile about our emotions possibly being hurt that we will. pretend we are not romantically interested in one another while we do everything that people who are romatically interested in one another do, except call it what it is..... "

 

[DA_LURKA]

Hypergamy in action

*Begging...

 

[Canon]

Hypergamy in action

we are in an extreme mental health crisis with women and no one wants to talk about it

 

[General Mills]

 

[DA_LURKA]

we are in an extreme mental health crisis with women and no one wants to talk about it

People talk about it... They just get called incels, sassy, or pickme's to deter people from talking about it...

 

[WIA20XX]

we are in an extreme mental health crisis with women and no one wants to talk about it

I mean women have always been

• Hypergamous
• Unwilling to make the first move (because she's afraid of rejection)
  • and the only chicks that usually do are fat AND drunk (and often white)

A chick's whole game is

1. Look as good as possible
2. Show up to the right places
3. Screen out the losers
4. Hold the guy (or guys).

AND

They only want "the best" - which is what other women want. So off rip, somebody's gotta lose, and it's usually MOST MEN.

There are female Coli members yapping about only giving their all when the dude is the BEST of Handsome gang. Not even handsome gang, but the best of the best.

But even when they find him, when they get tall, dark, handsome, famous, ready to commit - they pull a Lori Harvey. Still thinking they can do better than a Michael B. Jordan.

Not just her generation, mine too.

Older Gen X Dude gets a major glow-up and becomes the president of the United States - and His wife looking for the spolight turns his presidency into the "hardest part of our marriage"...

So the real thrust of the "mental health crisis" is to not spotlight it, not try to get hoes to admit they wrong, that they're damaged, but to accept it.

THIS IS WHO THEY ARE.

To understand, that's how she gon' be, and either learn to live with it, or be alone.

Ain't no place on earth that you can run to and find something that's not gonna be this.

Not Down South, Not the Midwest, not the Caribbean, not Asian, Not Latin America, not Africa. I'm a passport bro! But there are no women without tradeoffs. Some set of tradeoffs, a man can live with, some he can't. But it ain't all steak's and BJs.

And if you think location is washed, so is TIME. Folks yapping about "modern women".

You can look at the genetic studies - women pass down their genes at least twice the rate of men. The worst i've seen in print was 80% to a man's 40%.

There were NEVER any good old days.

Even YHWH tried to tell y'all in Proverbs

It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.

A quarrelsome wife is like the dripping of a leaky roof in a rainstorm;

You can't escape the nature of woman.

 

[Canon]

I mean women have always been

• Hypergamous
• Unwilling to make the first move (because she's afraid of rejection)
  • and the only chicks that usually do are fat AND drunk (and often white)

A chick's whole game is

1. Look as good as possible
2. Show up to the right places
3. Screen out the losers
4. Hold the guy (or guys).

AND

They only want "the best" - which is what other women want. So off rip, somebody's gotta lose, and it's usually MOST MEN.

There are female Coli members yapping about only giving their all when the dude is the BEST of Handsome gang. Not even handsome gang, but the best of the best.

But even when they find him, when they get tall, dark, handsome, famous, ready to commit - they pull a Lori Harvey. Still thinking they can do better than a Michael B. Jordan.

Not just her generation, mine too.

Older Gen X Dude gets a major glow-up and becomes the president of the United States - and His wife looking for the spolight turns his presidency into the "hardest part of our marriage"...

So the real thrust of the "mental health crisis" is to not spotlight it, not try to get hoes to admit they wrong, that they're damaged, but to accept it.

THIS IS WHO THEY ARE.

To understand, that's how she gon' be, and either learn to live with it, or be alone.

Ain't no place on earth that you can run to and find something that's not gonna be this.

Not Down South, Not the Midwest, not the Caribbean, not Asian, Not Latin America, not Africa. I'm a passport bro! But there are no women without tradeoffs. Some set of tradeoffs, a man can live with, some he can't. But it ain't all steak's and BJs.

And if you think location is washed, so is TIME. Folks yapping about "modern women".

You can look at the genetic studies - women pass down their genes at least twice the rate of men. The worst i've seen in print was 80% to a man's 40%.

There were NEVER any good old days.

Even YHWH tried to tell y'all in Proverbs



You can't escape the nature of woman.

 

[WIA20XX]

Lol, it's easy to focus on red meat content. I need to get my red pill grift on.

The game really is how to enjoy and thrive off of her "energy".

If you go for food, and she say she don't want none - you know that she does want some. You know that she will eat your food.

So you get yourself some fries, and in another bag, you say you got her something too.

Then pull out a salad, cause you "know" she wants something to eat.



And of course have an off camera 2nd bag of fries. Just to prolong the joke and tension before release.

Am I joking? I'm not sure to be honest. But often girls will reward you, for manipulating them. See every pimp there ever was

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

I mean women have always been

• Hypergamous
• Unwilling to make the first move (because she's afraid of rejection)
  • and the only chicks that usually do are fat AND drunk (and often white)

A chick's whole game is

1. Look as good as possible
2. Show up to the right places
3. Screen out the losers
4. Hold the guy (or guys).

AND

They only want "the best" - which is what other women want. So off rip, somebody's gotta lose, and it's usually MOST MEN.

There are female Coli members yapping about only giving their all when the dude is the BEST of Handsome gang. Not even handsome gang, but the best of the best.

But even when they find him, when they get tall, dark, handsome, famous, ready to commit - they pull a Lori Harvey. Still thinking they can do better than a Michael B. Jordan.

Not just her generation, mine too.

Older Gen X Dude gets a major glow-up and becomes the president of the United States - and His wife looking for the spolight turns his presidency into the "hardest part of our marriage"...

So the real thrust of the "mental health crisis" is to not spotlight it, not try to get hoes to admit they wrong, that they're damaged, but to accept it.

THIS IS WHO THEY ARE.

To understand, that's how she gon' be, and either learn to live with it, or be alone.

Ain't no place on earth that you can run to and find something that's not gonna be this.

Not Down South, Not the Midwest, not the Caribbean, not Asian, Not Latin America, not Africa. I'm a passport bro! But there are no women without tradeoffs. Some set of tradeoffs, a man can live with, some he can't. But it ain't all steak's and BJs.

And if you think location is washed, so is TIME. Folks yapping about "modern women".

You can look at the genetic studies - women pass down their genes at least twice the rate of men. The worst i've seen in print was 80% to a man's 40%.

There were NEVER any good old days.

Even YHWH tried to tell y'all in Proverbs



You can't escape the nature of woman.

I'm not surprised that you drew these conclusions knowing the sphere of your technical thinking since it is similar to mine....

It was probably around my early-mid 30's where I said "I'm not fighting anymore and attempting to bring awareness to something that has been happening way before my existence."

As much as we like to paint our own mothers as angelic, they also fall into these patterns. When one would see their mother getting on their father's case and we'd see pops just throw his hands up amd go to his sanctuary we couldn't understand why until we got into our own long term relationships...... it's up to the individual to become aware of it and conciously decide if they are willing to accept the ebbs and flows of that constant tumult or do their own thing amd chill...

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Lol, it's easy to focus on red meat content. I need to get my red pill grift on.

The game really is how to enjoy and thrive off of her "energy".

If you go for food, and she say she don't want none - you know that she does want some. You know that she will eat your food.

So you get yourself some fries, and in another bag, you say you got her something too.

Then pull out a salad, cause you "know" she wants something to eat.



And of course have an off camera 2nd bag of fries. Just to prolong the joke and tension before release.

Am I joking? I'm not sure to be honest. But often girls will reward you, for manipulating them. See every pimp there ever was

such a paradoxical dynamic because at the heart of it every man does not want to have to always be turned on and having to create tension all the damn time.... we realllllllyyyy just want to chill.... we already got a world where we have to be turned on amd defensive. We just want to come home and find a place where we can come down from all that. But nope even in our proverbial home we have to create that "tension"....

 

[WIA20XX]

As much as we like to paint our own mothers as angelic, they also fall into these patterns. When one would see their mother getting on their father's case and we'd see pops just throw his hands up amd go to his sanctuary we couldn't understand why until we got into our own long term relationships...... it's up to the individual to become aware of it and conciously decide if they are willing to accept the ebbs and flows of that constant tumult or do their own thing amd chill...

I remember a breh talking about his folks, and as a kid, he would think, "Why doesn't he just do what he asks her to do"

But as he became a man and had a girlfriend, a wife, a family, - he started to understand his father.

If I would have known this stuff about women at 15-16 - that a chick is probably not gonna be your "peace" - I'd prolly be yapping with cats about "My kid's addicted to Minecraft, HALP".

It's not that happy wife, happy life is the answer.

But as Patrice said, "You can't MAKE a woman happy" - emphasis on make - emphasis on you doing something EXTERNAL to affect her INTERNAL state.

Can't force a kid out of depression.
Can't make people like you.
Can't calm someone down that doesn't want to be calmed down.

Bring a smile, wipe away a tear, make someone laugh, can't convince - but at the end of it - it's really on them.

I think the other side of this, if I'm speaking honestly, is that we - as ourselves - can't even force OURSELVES - to do what we want.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

Already smashed but we going on a 4th date this weekend. shes family oriented, works hard, and cooks for me. What are some good vetting questions I need to ask? She hasn't been in a relationship in a year, shes 28 and from the Ivory coast. Not sure I wanna know her body count but I don't think it's super high.

 

[cyndaquil]

Already smashed but we going on a 4th date this weekend. shes family oriented, works hard, and cooks for me. What are some good vetting questions I need to ask? She hasn't been in a relationship in a year, shes 28 and from the Ivory coast. Not sure I wanna know her body count but I don't think it's super high.

Vetting for what? We dont even know what your intention are with this girl. She seems like long term to you?

 

[WIA20XX]

Already smashed but we going on a 4th date this weekend. shes family oriented

Sure about that potna?

But being serious for a minute

1. What do you want out of life?
2. What are your life goals?
3. What are your family goals?

Then the question is how does she help/support YOUR goals?

Does she have goals of her own?
She thinking about going back to school?

You make enough so that her little 350K don't mean anything? Might as well stay at home, raise and home school?