Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Capacity of a 13-14 year old
All the women under 24 have the same look when you talk to them
They call it “Gen Z stare”

a blank, expressionless gaze that some young adults (often those of Gen Z) give in response to questions or in social situations



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All the women under 24 have the same look when you talk to them
They call it “Gen Z stare”

a blank, expressionless gaze that some young adults (often those of Gen Z) give in response to questions or in social situations



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The social awkwardness is insane, like I don't even know how these folks are making it through the education system, like has technology ruined things where people in public school aren't even social with each other anymore?
 

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The social awkwardness is insane, like I don't even know how these folks are making it through the education system, like has technology ruined things where people in public school aren't even social with each other anymore?

No communication skills.

Growing up I remember going to the mall on Fridays and you'd see people from other schools etc. and you'd chop girls had to develop a mouth piece. Even the early days of online dating not everyone has a photo. I'd be meeting up with women with no idea how they look. Oh you'll be by the payphone in front of the movie theatre and 1pm see you there.

No cell phone as well you'd just cross your fingers that the nice sweet voice you heard wasn't some obese brehette

But even the finest of fine chicks would only have their school or at worst a city over now they got simps in every area code sending money, likes , gifts etc.
 

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The social awkwardness is insane, like I don't even know how these folks are making it through the education system, like has technology ruined things where people in public school aren't even social with each other anymore?
Can’t even banter
Even when you trying to get at them
Gotta talk slowly and make sure they not offended

Younger hoes are the woat
 

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No communication skills.

Growing up I remember going to the mall on Fridays and you'd see people from other schools etc. and you'd chop girls had to develop a mouth piece. Even the early days of online dating not everyone has a photo. I'd be meeting up with women with no idea how they look. Oh you'll be by the payphone in front of the movie theatre and 1pm see you there.

No cell phone as well you'd just cross your fingers that the nice sweet voice you heard wasn't some obese brehette

But even the finest of fine chicks would only have their school or at worst a city over now they got simps in every area code sending money, likes , gifts etc.
Not too long ago
Back in 2014
I legit used to chat with women with no profile pic on plenty of fish and still link up after we exchange numbers
 

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The mall days. This was like 97-2000, when I was 12-15. Walking around getting girls numbers, go to a movie, (this was my favorite thing) and the food court, but yeah, the social skills. Groups of 3-5, meet up, flirt with girls, I took all that for granted. Lately I think more and more about how it must have been for the kids who didn't have that experience back then.

Or going out with girls in middle school, without really knowing what to do. You would just have like convos in class, and the crazy wave hi when they saw you. And her friends slip you her number. Just had girls calling my house, and we would "go out". I am not sure kids relationships look like that anymore. They are all navigated through social media and phones.
 

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One other point on communications, from the book I read called The Shallows, about the affects of online/digital life on the brain: basically that when new technology appears, we as a society, debate the content. Using dating/sex/relationships as the framework, as texting moved 100% into the mainstream around 2012, the dominant debates, or conversations, even on places like SOHH/The Coli,were around content, and the user. I remember these convos. I remember asking these questions.

What did she text? Did she reply fast? Did he introduce himself? Was he too forward? Did she agree to the date? Did she late respond?

What no one really questioned was the format. The medium. What is this going to do to interpersonal relationships, if we all collectively begin texting each other as the dominant form of communication. You can apply the same to social media. The same debates, and answers, it's about what you post, it's about what you look at, how you curate your feed, it's about how YOU, the individual uses it, not the format itself. We didn't think what it would collectively to do a society to filter the world through social media.

I think now we are getting to where this is what the effect was.
 
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One other point on communications, from the book I read called The Shallows, about the affects of online/digital life on the brain: basically that when new technology appears, we as a society, debate the content. Using dating/sex/relationships as the framework, as texting moved 100% into the mainstream around 2012, the dominant debates, or conversations, even on places like SOHH/The Coli,were around content, and the user. I remember these convos. I remember asking these questions.

What did she text? Did she reply fast? Did he introduce himself? Was he too forward? Did she agree to the date? Did she late respond?

What no one really questioned was the format. The medium. What is this going to do to interpersonal relationships, if we all collectively begin texting each other as the dominant form of communication. You can apply the same to social media. The same debates, and answers, it's about what you post, it's about what you look at, how you curate your feed, it's about how YOU, the individual uses it, not the format itself. We didn't think what it would collectively to do a society to filter the world through social media.

I think now we are getting to where this is what the effect was.


I just finished reading this book not that long ago which touches on the same types of topics:


Then I realized that the book you mentioned, ('the shallows') is written by the same guy :russ:
 
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