Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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It's not about building a roster though.
It's about building a system, or at least a routine.
- The typical dude looking for help isn't in the game at all, not even getting next to females IRL. They go to school/work and then come home to weed/video games/p.hub.
- The next level up is a normal guy that's just a little bit more social, and he's dealing with chicks from school, work, and maybe a little going out from time to time.
- Then you got the street fighters. They're out there trying to holla at broads at the grocery store, in line at the fast food spot, they hit the clubs religiously. Take a few bathroom pics, a gym pic, and some other stuff, and now they're trying to figure out if the bots on Tinder are real or not.
So we get these situations where a chick is being pursued via text, where dude is going out with her IRL but she's hot and cold. Maybe he's smashing it to the best of his ability, but she still hasn't bought in.
At this point, he can keep trying whatever to get/keep the chick - but at the end of the day he's going to "lose" her, because she's showing low interest and inconsistent behavior.
He has to start this one-on-one pursuit over again.
Rather than do the same thing over and over again, getting the same results - he decides to rethink the problem.
Because love connections get made by the 10's of millions every day. Meeting females in the night life or via online apps - is a man fighting against the void.
Building a roster on a 9-5 work schedule
That means you gotta pipeline from online dating
I’ll pass
Straw Hat Luffy
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Man the whole point of having a roster is when one leaves you don’t care cause you have a roster lol
And duh you have to maintain it it’s still a relationship
You either got it or you don’t I guess
The issue people over look is Roster = A Team that is more into you than you are them lol. The Problem is the types who fall into this category for dudes end up being women they aren't attracted to or they think they can do better than not realizing as men unless you tricking off you will always be "ranked higher" than the women you get due to the hypergamous nature of women. So dudes will be pissed women they deem 2s and 3s (I hate using numbers but will for example) are into them heavy but they want the 7s-8s not realizing they themselves are a 4.
The dudes doing numbers with low effort are usually getting with women 2-3 ranks below them hence the low effort. So if you want 5-7s then you better be an 8-9.
RaspberryFitted
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trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
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If this is how simplistic you believe roster building is, then you've never done any real roster building. @Apollo Creed hit the nail on the head with how it really tends to go, unless you're a celebrity or in that echelon, but then again this is the home of only Six-Packs, Six Certs, Six Foots............so you may be good......
Straw Hat Luffy
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Man it is simpleIf this is how simplistic you believe roster building is, then you've never done any real roster building. @Apollo Creed hit the nail on the head with how it really tends to go, unless you're a celebrity or in that echelon, but then again this is the home of only Six-Packs, Six Certs, Six Foots............so you may be good......
pretty much.
i get the importance of having a roster; it keeps you honest and better equipped to handle or walk away from a lot of the bs better looking women do.
unfortunate reality is that for me personally, if I am not THAT attracted to a chick I cant be bothered to really link up with her or spend time with her even if we fukkin. she might not even get my dikk hard unless she got real sex appeal and sense. the juice just isnt worth the squeeze usually. I'd rather just take the drought and spend the extra time focusing on my work, traveling, writing or other hobbies.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
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been there too many times breh....
i used to entertain chicks i half-way liked....but the sex part just didnt work because i wasnt attracted to them really....
i had to stop that shyt....no more dealing with women i wasnt really into
dude talking about the point of a roster is to not care when they walk away...
but the truth is if you have a roster of 3 chicks...all it takes is one chick travelling and one girl getting mad at you over some dumb shyt and now all of a sudden you down to one chick. then you gotta go through the same cycle of trying to add two new bytches to the roster.
on the flipside, a woman (at least the type i fukk with) is often gonna have at least 5 dudes waiting in the wings to claim your spot. You cant really compete realistically. this isnt even some scarcity/defeatist shyt either. it's reality unless you really willing to lower your standards and even then, all thats gonna do is make a 5/10 think she an 8/10 cause she was able to nab you and then start acting as dumb as a 8/10 girl does anyways lmao.
I remember last year I was fukkin with like 3 chicks. 1 girl got mad at me and stopped fukkin with me because she asked me in return if i had a good day after telling me she was going to sleep, and I responded, "yup goodnight". She thought I was being cold lol. A 2nd chick ghosted me after she found out that I previously met two of her friends - even though I didnt so much as kiss either of said friends and only went out on one date with one of them. This is all within like two weeks lol. All of a sudden you down to one chick. shyt is futile
but the truth is if you have a roster of 3 chicks...all it takes is one chick travelling and one girl getting mad at you over some dumb shyt and now all of a sudden you down to one chick. then you gotta go through the same cycle of trying to add two new bytches to the roster.
on the flipside, a woman (at least the type i fukk with) is often gonna have at least 5 dudes waiting in the wings to claim your spot. You cant really compete realistically. this isnt even some scarcity/defeatist shyt either. it's reality unless you really willing to lower your standards and even then, all thats gonna do is make a 5/10 think she an 8/10 cause she was able to nab you and then start acting as dumb as a 8/10 girl does anyways lmao.
I remember last year I was fukkin with like 3 chicks. 1 girl got mad at me and stopped fukkin with me because she asked me in return if i had a good day after telling me she was going to sleep, and I responded, "yup goodnight". She thought I was being cold lol. A 2nd chick ghosted me after she found out that I previously met two of her friends - even though I didnt so much as kiss either of said friends and only went out on one date with one of them. This is all within like two weeks lol. All of a sudden you down to one chick. shyt is futile
You are speaking from the lens of ownership lol, a Roster aint chicks you own or control. It's just an active list of people you possibly sleeping with and spending time with on a consistent basis. To even apply a finite number on this is thinking wrong. If you gotta count your roster you already on the path of scarcity.
These hoes all connected with awdtsg and tea apps
Good luck building a roster on the low unless you live that poly life. They more likely have a roster than dudes nowadays since dudes don’t play like that yet.
Stop playing boyfriend and there won't be a problem, at best someone makes up fake shyt about you cause they mad but aint no record of you playing boyfriend to get sex, and women don't care if you married if they want you they want you (hence chicks on these apps seeking if dudes posted are giving good sex).
Don’t you put that evil on me Ricky Bobby