Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

You are speaking from the lens of ownership lol, a Roster aint chicks you own or control. It's just an active list of people you possibly sleeping with and spending time with on a consistent basis. To even apply a finite number on this is thinking wrong. If you gotta count your roster you already on the path of scarcity.

nope. not speaking from a lens of ownership at all. they free to come and go as they please. even in the story i mentioned above, when the shorties left I wasnt trippin. i use the number 3 because it has to be at least that or more to be a "roster"

the point i am making is that the whole roster thing is just a never ending loop a lot of the time...designed to keep you chasing more and more women and spending more and more time/energy on shyt that isnt gonna yield anything much in the first place.

dudes can talk this theoretical shyt all they want. in actual practice, for most men thats not how it actually goes down. if it was, dudes wouldnt be flying overseas because the women are 'easier' there or paying for p*ssy lol

 

[Ohene]

what most dudes refuse to admit is that aint no amount of youtube videos, reddit posts, IG memes and p*ssy is going to solve for x

it's either in you or it isnt a lot of the time

you can apply a lot of the tactics and shyt these women do or what ppl online teach and its just going to lead to a lot of frustration and you might even lose yourself in the process. youre better off just being who you are and the woman who is on your wavelength either will or wont come into your orbit, but if she does she will stay while the ones who are on some weird shyt will enter and leave accordingly.

or you can try to be somebody you are not and play all the dumb games, but eventually the real you will come out and she will lose attraction anyways.

 

[Apollo Creed]

nope. not speaking from a lens of ownership at all. they free to come and go as they please. even in the story i mentioned above, when the shorties left I wasnt trippin. i use the number 3 because it has to be at least that or more to be a "roster"

the point i am making is that the whole roster thing is just a never ending loop a lot of the time...designed to keep you chasing more and more women and spending more and more time/energy on shyt that isnt gonna yield anything much in the first place.

dudes can talk this theoretical shyt all they want. in actual practice, for most men thats not how it actually goes down. if it was, dudes wouldnt be flying overseas because the women are 'easier' there or paying for p*ssy lol

you aren't comprehending my point. Chasing to Collect = Sense of ownership. My statement is saying you shouldn't chase shyt, a "roster" should be low effort chicks who are into you more than you are them. The only thing you should be doing is living life, there is nothing to maintain. Only dudes trying to "maintain" something is dudes who feel they have ownership and don't want to lose it.

 

[Ohene]

you aren't comprehending my point. Chasing to Collect = Sense of ownership. My statement is saying you shouldn't chase shyt, a "roster" should be low effort chicks who are into you more than you are them. The only thing you should be doing is living life, there is nothing to maintain. Only dudes trying to "maintain" something is dudes who feel they have ownership and don't want to lose it.

doesnt matter. the woman who is into you more than you're into her is liable to do the same shyt. it often starts off as low effort until they catch feelings, get dikkmatized, watch a random tiktok/IG reel that triggers them, their friends put some bullshyt in their heads or their egos get the best of them etc etc.

again, be theoretical all you want. in actual practice shyt isnt so black and white/cookie cutter.

 

[Apollo Creed]

doesnt matter. the woman who is into you more than you're into her is liable to do the same shyt. it often starts off as low effort until they catch feelings, get dikkmatized, watch a random tiktok/IG reel that triggers them, their friends put some bullshyt in their heads or their egos get the best of them etc etc.

again, be theoretical all you want. in actual practice shyt isnt so black and white/cookie cutter.

you are being stubborn and rejecting what is being presented because you care and aren't living life this is why you are in this endless cycle of dumb shyt.


This is what sparks the incel thing because dudes are hurt at the nature of women and true love not being real (the concept of love they were sold).

If everything you said is true in your mind, you wouldn't be in this thread because what's the fukking point?

Not coming at you just giving reality to theose reading this.

 

[Ohene]

you are being stubborn and rejecting what is being presented because you care and aren't living life this is why you are in this endless cycle of dumb shyt.


This is what sparks the incel thing because dudes are hurt at the nature of women and true love not being real (the concept of love they were sold).

If everything you said is true in your mind, you wouldn't be in this thread because what's the fukking point?

Not coming at you just giving reality to theose reading this.

Ironic. You're actually the one being stubborn.

I am in this thread because it is entertaining. Sometimes its funny, sometimes its relateable and every now and then i might chime in and share a random opinion that comes to mind or advice from my perspective.

I have probably been with and fukked more women than 95% of men on this planet. It's not an incel ting and it has nothing to do with love. I am simply telling you my own experience in having a roster. It really isnt that hard to understand. Everyone's experience isnt the same and what works for one person might not work for the other, hence why i said earlier in a lot of ways it is either in you or it isnt.

 

[Ohene]

It's not about building a roster though.

It's about building a system, or at least a routine.

1. The typical dude looking for help isn't in the game at all, not even getting next to females IRL. They go to school/work and then come home to weed/video games/p.hub.
2. The next level up is a normal guy that's just a little bit more social, and he's dealing with chicks from school, work, and maybe a little going out from time to time.
3. Then you got the street fighters. They're out there trying to holla at broads at the grocery store, in line at the fast food spot, they hit the clubs religiously. Take a few bathroom pics, a gym pic, and some other stuff, and now they're trying to figure out if the bots on Tinder are real or not.

They're not thinking about the product, they're not thinking about advertising, they're not thinking about marketing themselves. It's just chasing sales one on one, if they're even trying to get their #'s up.

So we get these situations where a chick is being pursued via text, where dude is going out with her IRL but she's hot and cold. Maybe he's smashing it to the best of his ability, but she still hasn't bought in.

At this point, he can keep trying whatever to get/keep the chick - but at the end of the day he's going to "lose" her, because she's showing low interest and inconsistent behavior.

He has to start this one-on-one pursuit over again.

Rather than do the same thing over and over again, getting the same results - he decides to rethink the problem.

Because love connections get made by the 10's of millions every day. Meeting females in the night life or via online apps - is a man fighting against the void.

this is a good post lol. a very good post
just seen it
the bold is key...especially the underline

i'm in the #3 box. what would you say is the marketing dudes need to do. think youve touched on this before focusing on the use of ones IG as a marketing tool - posting stories and showing their lifestyle, the shyt they be on etc. In essence by doing that the pipeline builds itself to where women wanna see what you about rather than you needing to pursue....like a recruit who knows he wants to go to Bama way before they even offer the scholarship

it raises an amazing point because when youre doing the 1-1 sales approach, you are out of sight out of mind. whereas if you a running a commercial or billboard, a shorty might come across that billboard on her commute to work everyday - slowly but surely it embeds in her mind what you are and what youre about without you having to continue to do any 'maintenance' work.

 

[jay83]

And then you have men or these gamed up dating gurus who always blame you when these fukked up women don't cooperate enough

"You texted her too much"
"You waited too long to ask her out"
"You talked to her on the phone for over 3 minutes"
"You weren't aggressive enough "
"You were too aggressive and scared her"
"You didn't bring up sex on the first date"
"You brought up sex on the first date"
"You laughed too much so you wasn't masculine"


Like what the fukk?

One time I was getting one word responses from a woman I was trying to get at via text. So according to red pill I should’ve just matched her energy or leave her on read.

Instead I directly addressed it. “If we are to keep talking I need more from you” in a calm but direct way. She responded with an apology and said she’s bad at texting. Starting sending me voice notes. Next week we met up and it was all good.

 

[Mike809]

Does this come off as too much

 

[Apollo Creed]

Ironic. You're actually the one being stubborn.

I am in this thread because it is entertaining. Sometimes its funny, sometimes its relateable and every now and then i might chime in and share a random opinion that comes to mind or advice from my perspective.

I have probably been with and fukked more women than 95% of men on this planet. It's not an incel ting and it has nothing to do with love. I am simply telling you my own experience in having a roster. It really isnt that hard to understand. Everyone's experience isnt the same and what works for one person might not work for the other, hence why i said earlier in a lot of ways it is either in you or it isnt.

Like I said, you deviating from the original point because you keep viewing things from an ownership lens no matter how much you try to remix and downplay it.

If there are multiple women into me and down for whatever and I am living life constantly meeting now women why would I give a flying fukk who comes and goes?



enough with the so so def remix

 

[Ohene]

Like I said, you deviating from the original point because you keep viewing things from an ownership lens no matter how much you try to remix and downplay it.

If there are multiple women into me and down for whatever and I am living life constantly meeting now women why would I give a flying fukk who comes and goes?



enough with the so so def remix

 

[Ohene]

One time I was getting one word responses from a woman I was trying to get at via text. So according to red pill I should’ve just matched her energy or leave her on read.

Instead I directly addressed it. “If we are to keep talking I need more from you” in a calm but direct way. She responded with an apology and said she’s bad at texting. Starting sending me voice notes. Next week we met up and it was all good.

i did sumn similar recently. it can be hit or miss but you have to be willing to lose a chick.

i bagged a chick at the gym and she was going to seattle the next day so she went ghost for a week. i deleted her number and she hit me up , only knew who it was cause she mentioned seattle when shyt messaged me.

later that week i was at a party and invited her to come through. we politicked for a bit and she went home. next day i hit her up and she didnt respond for like 5 or so days til she told me to come to a park she was at. I told her im good but if she wants to come through my ends we could kick it. she asked how did the roles reverse? I told her no reversal but i aint gonna link up with somebody who lacks basic communication skills. She apologized and said nobodys ever called her out because thats how all her friends are with each other. Ever since shes been acting right. Very responsive and easy to make plans with

I'd say mature chicks respond well. Majority of them will just move on to the next dude who will put up with their shyt

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Breh was tired of the back and forth

 

[The ADD]

i did sumn similar recently. it can be hit or miss but you have to be willing to lose a chick.

i bagged a chick at the gym and she was going to seattle the next day so she went ghost for a week. i deleted her number and she hit me up , only knew who it was cause she mentioned seattle when shyt messaged me.

later that week i was at a party and invited her to come through. we politicked for a bit and she went home. next day i hit her up and she didnt respond for like 5 or so days til she told me to come to a park she was at. I told her im good but if she wants to come through my ends we could kick it. she asked how did the roles reverse? I told her no reversal but i aint gonna link up with somebody who lacks basic communication skills. She apologized and said nobodys ever called her out because thats how all her friends are with each other. Ever since shes been acting right. Very responsive and easy to make plans with

I'd say mature chicks respond well. Majority of them will just move on to the next dude who will put up with their shyt

Something to be said here about addressing things and not bailing at the first sign of things not be 100% the way you want it within reason.

 

[Ohene]

Something to be said here about addressing things and not bailing at the first sign of things not be 100% the way you want it within reason.

I'm past playing games. I'll call something out if I notice a trend and give her a chance to correct her behavior. If she does, bless. If she acts defensive or continues with the behavior, i'll box her in the "fukk-ting" category or keep it moving altogether.