Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[<<TheStandard>>]

pretty much.

i get the importance of having a roster; it keeps you honest and better equipped to handle or walk away from a lot of the bs better looking women do.

unfortunate reality is that for me personally, if I am not THAT attracted to a chick I cant be bothered to really link up with her or spend time with her even if we fukkin. she might not even get my dikk hard unless she got real sex appeal and sense. the juice just isnt worth the squeeze usually. I'd rather just take the drought and spend the extra time focusing on my work, traveling, writing or other hobbies.

You're speaking to my soul right now.......man

That's pretty much where I am.

I live a pretty good life and make good money so at this point I don't even want to hang out or go on a date with a chick unless I'm really attracted to her.

A chick who I was cool with was coming to Vegas and wanted me to take her to the Beyonce concert. She wanted to stay at my place and at first I was with it but I realized, I'd be spending money on a concert, hosting her, probably taking her to dinner and honestly I never even wanted her. She's just okay looking to me, she's taller than me (like 5'9) which I don't like but this is a woman I never would have pursued on my own. She was in a facebook group I was in and she kinda injected herself into my life but I'm really not attracted to her. Sure, I could have gotten the yams but essentially I'm paying full price for something I don't really want which tends to happen a lot these days.

At this point, I don't even want to fukk these chicks I'm not into, I'd rather just spend the time working on my career. Right now I think I'm about to write an ebook for NBA and I'm fine focusing on that.

 

[The ADD]

You're speaking to my soul right now.......man

That's pretty much where I am.

I live a pretty good life and make good money so at this point I don't even want to hang out or go on a date with a chick unless I'm really attracted to her.

A chick who I was cool with was coming to Vegas and wanted me to take her to the Beyonce concert. She wanted to stay at my place and at first I was with it but I realized, I'd be spending money on a concert, hosting her, probably taking her to dinner and honestly I never even wanted her. She's just okay looking to me, she's taller than me (like 5'9) which I don't like but this is a woman I never would have pursued on my own. She was in a facebook group I was in and she kinda injected herself into my life but I'm really not attracted to her. Sure, I could have gotten the yams but essentially I'm paying full price for something I don't really want which tends to happen a lot these days.

At this point, I don't even want to fukk these chicks I'm not into, I'd rather just spend the time working on my career. Right now I think I'm about to write an ebook for NBA and I'm fine focusing on that.

Spoiler: She didn’t meet

The Standard

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

been there too many times breh....

i used to entertain chicks i half-way liked....but the sex part just didnt work because i wasnt attracted to them really....

i had to stop that shyt....no more dealing with women i wasnt really into

I really had to take a hard look at my dating patterns recently and I've realized I been with more women that I didn't like/half way liked than women I actually liked. I found it quite depressing to be honest. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one and it made me realize that a lot of us men don't have high standards and are flat out just taking what we can get until we find something we like.........and unfortunately there's some men who never get what they truly like and end up settling, wifing chicks or having babies with women they never truly wanted. It's made me think that a lot of deadbeat fathers are products of men being lonely, trying to get a nut off with a chick who they never truly wanted and her keeping the baby because it's her choice.

I also think most men can't have high standards or they'd be celibate for years due to a lack of options and most men aren't willing to do that.

Throughout my life, in my career I've always reached for the stars, going after my dreams by chasing careers that I was truly passionate about and I had to ask myself why I wasn't doing the same in my relationships? I somehow found a way to turn my passion for music into money, work for Jay-Z, Dj the hottest night clubs in my city, leave that career and turn my passion for sports betting into a legit career and yet in my relationships, I was settling for whatever women approached me as opposed to going after I what I truly wanted. At some point, I decided I just wasn't going to do that anymore even if it means going through long droughts. Since then I've truly felt the difference in how it feels when I'm actually dating/fukking a woman I actually like vs a woman who's just around because I'm trying to get a nut off.

 

[Ohene]

I really had to take a hard look at my dating patterns recently and I've realized I been with more women that I didn't like/half way liked than women I actually liked. I found it quite depressing to be honest. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one and it made me realize that a lot of us men don't have high standards and are flat out just taking what we can get until we find something we like.........and unfortunately there's some men who never get what they truly like and end up settling, wifing chicks or having babies with women they never truly wanted. It's made me think that a lot of deadbeat fathers are products of men being lonely, trying to get a nut off with a chick who they never truly wanted and her keeping the baby because it's her choice.

I also think most men can't have high standards or they'd be celibate for years due to a lack of options and most men aren't willing to do that.

Throughout my life, in my career I've always reached for the stars, going after my dreams by chasing careers that I was truly passionate about and I had to ask myself why I wasn't doing the same in my relationships? I somehow found a way to turn my passion for music into money, work for Jay-Z, Dj the hottest night clubs in my city, leave that career and turn my passion for sports betting into a legit career and yet in my relationships, I was settling for whatever women approached me as opposed to going after I what I truly wanted. At some point, I decided I just wasn't going to do that anymore even if it means going through long droughts. Since then I've truly felt the difference in how it feels when I'm actually dating/fukking a woman I actually like vs a woman who's just around because I'm trying to get a nut off.

Even if you do reach for the stars relationship wise, just like your career a great deal of it is out of your control/susceptible to “economic” factors.

It is supply and demand. To get the kind of women you really want isnt impossible but its often ultra competitive. The supply of dikk is simply way higher than p*ssy because men have higher sex drives and are the aggressors. Add dating apps/social media into the mix and the imbalance is only worse. Back then this was equalized by the fact women NEEDED men. But lets face it, some men abused that power as well and were big time philanderers. Their offspring not only dont need men due to feminism but have actively been taught not go prioritize men. These offspring are the women you and I are dating. They hate their dads and we pay the price as a result lol until theyre mid 30s and wonder where the time went. This is really an issue in the black community more than others.

So yea. Ambition helps but the woman still has to consent just like the employer has to hire you lol

 

[jay83]

Even if you do reach for the stars relationship wise, just like your career a great deal of it is out of your control/susceptible to “economic” factors.

It is supply and demand. To get the kind of women you really want isnt impossible but its often ultra competitive. The supply of dikk is simply way higher than p*ssy because men have higher sex drives and are the aggressors. Add dating apps/social media into the mix and the imbalance is only worse. Back then this was equalized by the fact women NEEDED men. But lets face it, some men abused that power as well and were big time philanderers. Their offspring not only dont need men due to feminism but have actively been taught not go prioritize men. These offspring are the women you and I are dating. They hate their dads and we pay the price as a result lol until theyre mid 30s and wonder where the time went. This is really an issue in the black community more than others.

So yea. Ambition helps but the woman still has to consent just like the employer has to hire you lol

Which is why the passport keeps getting talked about. Just like how a woman can be a 4 in LA but a 7 in some shytty town in Alabama. Men are starting to do the same. Go where you are competitive. That’s the best solution I can give any man.

 

[General Mills]

 

[Ohene]

Which is why the passport keeps getting talked about. Just like how a woman can be a 4 in LA but a 7 in some shytty town in Alabama. Men are starting to do the same. Go where you are competitive. That’s the best solution I can give any man.

Shouldnt have to come to that but i guess it really is that bad out there

 

[MikelArteta]

Shouldnt have to come to that but i guess it really is that bad out there

Worked for me

I've been back for two days and already hate Toronto once my laptop gets Windows 11 Im out of here again.

 

[MikelArteta]

Even if you do reach for the stars relationship wise, just like your career a great deal of it is out of your control/susceptible to “economic” factors.

It is supply and demand. To get the kind of women you really want isnt impossible but its often ultra competitive. The supply of dikk is simply way higher than p*ssy because men have higher sex drives and are the aggressors. Add dating apps/social media into the mix and the imbalance is only worse. Back then this was equalized by the fact women NEEDED men. But lets face it, some men abused that power as well and were big time philanderers. Their offspring not only dont need men due to feminism but have actively been taught not go prioritize men. These offspring are the women you and I are dating. They hate their dads and we pay the price as a result lol until theyre mid 30s and wonder where the time went. This is really an issue in the black community more than others.

So yea. Ambition helps but the woman still has to consent just like the employer has to hire you lol

Even the must fugliest fat women you can think of got a surplus of dudes calling elevating her. As a man you can literally be invisible. You can have a dating profile and get no matches or only a few, you can try and spit game in public and get nothing.

 

[Canon]

Shouldnt have to come to that but i guess it really is that bad out there

All new rules out here

Fight it or accept it

 

[Apollo Creed]

I really had to take a hard look at my dating patterns recently and I've realized I been with more women that I didn't like/half way liked than women I actually liked. I found it quite depressing to be honest. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one and it made me realize that a lot of us men don't have high standards and are flat out just taking what we can get until we find something we like.........and unfortunately there's some men who never get what they truly like and end up settling, wifing chicks or having babies with women they never truly wanted. It's made me think that a lot of deadbeat fathers are products of men being lonely, trying to get a nut off with a chick who they never truly wanted and her keeping the baby because it's her choice.

I also think most men can't have high standards or they'd be celibate for years due to a lack of options and most men aren't willing to do that.

Throughout my life, in my career I've always reached for the stars, going after my dreams by chasing careers that I was truly passionate about and I had to ask myself why I wasn't doing the same in my relationships? I somehow found a way to turn my passion for music into money, work for Jay-Z, Dj the hottest night clubs in my city, leave that career and turn my passion for sports betting into a legit career and yet in my relationships, I was settling for whatever women approached me as opposed to going after I what I truly wanted. At some point, I decided I just wasn't going to do that anymore even if it means going through long droughts. Since then I've truly felt the difference in how it feels when I'm actually dating/fukking a woman I actually like vs a woman who's just around because I'm trying to get a nut off.

y'all gotta dead these fantastical dating ideals. Dudes are overcomplicating this just like women due to both being sold dreams of shyt that doesn't exist.

Fundamentally as a man if you get along with a woman, and she doesn't have a life style that is detrimental to yours, what are we really discussing? Like I said before a common theme I think nobody wants to admit is the attraction levels and trying to punch above their weight which yields to having to "prove yourself" or tolerating nonsense not wanting to "lose your chance" aka potential ownership of something "I`m blessed to have" aka a chick I subconsciously thing is above my attraction qualification level.

At the end of the day attraction is probably the first checklist for most men, cool, but next it doesn't take long to find out you don't get along with a chick or her life style is anti who you are, so things shouldn't even get that far and like I said before dudes should be out living life which in general will bring you around humans who align with the things you do.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Which is why the passport keeps getting talked about. Just like how a woman can be a 4 in LA but a 7 in some shytty town in Alabama. Men are starting to do the same. Go where you are competitive. That’s the best solution I can give any man.

the issue with the passport thing is nikkas chasing Disney dreams and giving chicks the world who haven't proven themselves OR are considered unworthy and thus distorting the marketplace the same way tricks distort the US market place.

 

[jay83]

the issue with the passport thing is nikkas chasing Disney dreams and giving chicks the world who haven't proven themselves OR are considered unworthy and thus distorting the marketplace the same way tricks distort the US market place.

That’s true to but at the end of the day What can you do? Go where you can compete.

 

[cyndaquil]

All new rules out here

Fight it or accept it

But here's the thing, are you relocating or just fukking overseas women on vacations? I mean I do the latter but no plans for the former. Eventually you're gonna want in house p*ssy or atleast convenient p*ssy you can get most days of the week. How would you do that domestically without building a roster of women here? Are you flying foreign women out on visas to come live with you? I'm just curious about your plan for all this passport stuff you talk about

 

[Apollo Creed]

That’s true to but at the end of the day What can you do? Go where you can compete.

Until you ruin that market or find out the uber driver dropping chick off is her boyfriend and you funding their life.

Most dudes have not fixed themselfes and gonna face the same issues anywhere they go. Dating feminist or former whores overseas does = long term marriage and family potential. Dudes turn their blinders own and ignore the cultural differences. In most of these countries women can consent at 14-16 and start drinking at 18 thus a 25 yr old is the equivalent to a 32 year old in the USA, and dudes never ask “why is this chick single?” Especially when in these societies they dont play about marriage and all that casual shyt is frowned upon