it's crazy breh - found out my kid's mother - the one who keeps bringing up marriage, house hunting, and putting her on to my side hustles is dealing with some clown who just got out of prison about a year ago. hanging around my kid

. i'm sitting up in here with a decent job, multiple degrees. at first, i was



, but thinking more and more about it i just gotta

- these unworthy women want the world and can't even handle the basics and then always seem to tie themselves to the worst option.
Man that's what's such a trip. Like if she ended up dealing with a guy that had more money than you, but was overall a decent guy, sure, you can be a lil mad, but you'd at least come to some kind of understanding like, "Well he had a lil more going on than me and I guess she went over there..." But the decision-making process of a lot of women is bewildering. A lot of women end up with the 'decent guy' for a while until they have a kid by him and can get free payments via child support, alimony, etc., and then they go after the worst possible guy you can find. A brotha out of prison? And you really don't want these guys around your children. Who knows if they come out and start trying to molest your child.
A lot of women willingly choose to mess with the worst kind of guy and then instead of blaming herself by saying, Man, I really made some bad choices with men..." It turns into, "Ughhh there are no decent men left, where are the real men? Why are men dogs?" The reality is they choose the dogs and then wonder why they can't find any clean up men to carry the baggage their last man left them. The smart women, moral women... they meet a solid dude, they stay loyal and they end up getting wifed and stay wifed. This type of woman, contrary to the popular lack of wisdom in this day and age, know how to spot a decent guy and stick with him.
When it's said and done, we talk a lot about fatherless sons, and I think that's been a huge problem, but we never talk about fatherless daughters who never have had a solid male figure in their life and thus never really know what to look for in a man. Their mom often had the same bad men choosing traits as they do, and through observing how she deals with men, she eventually continues the cycle. Instead of looking at a decent man as someone to build with and being taught how to become an integral unit in a family, she is taught how to hustle the decent men and how to run with the thugs.