Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
if you dont just dap it and laugh
cyndaquil
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we got mfers in here talking bout overseas prostitutes for pages, but talking about controlling wasted time and energy on negative thoughts and behaviors through the practice of mindful meditation and redirecting that energy productively while enriching your spirit is "weird" 
Aight breh bet
Dont come in here later on some
After a chick do you dirty when you could be in monk mode with it
Aight breh bet
Dont come in here later on some
After a chick do you dirty when you could be in monk mode with it
best we out the prostitutes before anikka come in here saying they found a good one in Kenya and she a whole porn star
Redwood
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Whether it’s social media, traveling on airplanes, restaurants, night clubs, or even traveling abroad, low vibrational people always mess it up for everyone.
Story?
etrofllenrod504
Superstar
Props to you for having your boundaries and knowing what you can’t handle. Me personally I would’ve kept her on the team. I respect she was honest about it and also she didn’t try to come at you for the $$$ she knew the goofy she could pull that with. Unless you have a conversation about the “rules” while you dating and she broke one of those then I would keep her in rotation. I just give a lot of points to women being transparent, it’s hard to come across that with women.The game is the game
Been going with a chick for about 5 months now. We got along great, she's smart, we could talk about topics high and low, lots of laughs, sex was immaculate, she's close to her family including her dad, no social media thotting, only one small tattoo, no septum piercing. It's all good.
Of course being in her mid-40's she's divorced with 2 daughters. Oldest one a recent college grad, the other just grad HS. Cordial with the dad.
I was overseas for work last week and when I got back she hit me with the "times are so tough my ex offered to buy me groceries and I had no choice but to accept"
When she said that my mind immediately went to:
I stayed cool, didn't blow up the spot, no emo shyt. Calmly "We have a profound disagreement here. I'd rather go with a woman whose ex doesn't buy her groceries. I'm good on that. I consider it disrespectful to myself and my manhood. Thank you for your honesty in telling me. Best of luck in all your future Publix endeavors." She bucked a little on some "it's not like that, you're blowing it out of proportion, etc etc." That shyt we've all heard a million times.
Me:
Told her "Not gonna argue and go back and forth with you. We both know why homie pulled his wallet out. It is what it is." I took my L and skated. Cold world out here.
Just when I thought I was out...
Now if you wanted her to be exclusive to you, then you just have to tell her and accept what comes with that. If you not ready for all that then hell yeah keep getting the milk without purchasing the cow. Thats just me tho, I would’ve been eating them home cooked meals off other breh dime and clapping them cheeks happy as can be
Digital Omen
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Our deal was we're together exclusively. I did mention in the beginning that if you're gonna deal with someone else (and vice versa) let it be known since we both grown and I'm not into the jealous shyt. She agreed. 5 months on everything is supposed to be cool, then I come back from abroad and get the news.Props to you for having your boundaries and knowing what you can’t handle. Me personally I would’ve kept her on the team. I respect she was honest about it and also she didn’t try to come at you for the $$$ she knew the goofy she could pull that with. Unless you have a conversation about the “rules” while you dating and she broke one of those then I would keep her in rotation. I just give a lot of points to women being transparent, it’s hard to come across that with women.
Now if you wanted her to be exclusive to you, then you just have to tell her and accept what comes with that. If you not ready for all that then hell yeah keep getting the milk without purchasing the cow. Thats just me tho, I would’ve been eating them home cooked meals off other breh dime and clapping them cheeks happy as can be
When I heard it I rolled my eyes internally like "here we go again." When it's not one thing it's the other. It hit me after the Cutty scene flashed before my eyes that she hasn't moved on from her ex. I get that and don't blame her or got any beef with dude and shyt like that. Everyone's divorce process is different especially with kids involved. Bottom line is he's always gonna be in her life as the father of their kids and I can live with that. I draw the line at grocery money like they still together though.
I was in LA last week, and hit up a woman I know from down here, who lives in West LA, I know her girl friends, and we have all hung out together. We never kissed or had each other's numbers, but she gave me the look a few times, like eyes glittering and staring at me. So, got her number from her girl.
She hit me back and was like more excited than I thought. I invited her to some spot in Beverly Hills, told her I'd be in her area of LA, and said lets get lunch and hang out, I'm there for one night. She was like I'M DEFINITLY DOWN. I'M SO EXCITED. I live right next to there. So, I was like cool, see you up there.
No one will be shocked that she just entirely stopped answering. This isn't to complain, or try to point to a reason but it points to the kind of randomness of the modern era, and a kind of heightened version of just basic communication norms that are less and less relevant. It's a straight forward, no strings attached invite, and a straightforward acceptance of invite. and my rep is solid with her friends. You are always one text or one non response away. And as I was saying in here week or ago, the slot machine impact on your brain.
She hit me back and was like more excited than I thought. I invited her to some spot in Beverly Hills, told her I'd be in her area of LA, and said lets get lunch and hang out, I'm there for one night. She was like I'M DEFINITLY DOWN. I'M SO EXCITED. I live right next to there. So, I was like cool, see you up there.
No one will be shocked that she just entirely stopped answering. This isn't to complain, or try to point to a reason but it points to the kind of randomness of the modern era, and a kind of heightened version of just basic communication norms that are less and less relevant. It's a straight forward, no strings attached invite, and a straightforward acceptance of invite. and my rep is solid with her friends. You are always one text or one non response away. And as I was saying in here week or ago, the slot machine impact on your brain.
Note: She is the BBL/implants, cheek surgery, stomach tuck, the kind of surgery that makes them look a little witchy, like my boy says. and this group of girls are like all those types, like the type with 30 thousand followers and no job, they aren't Escorts Type A. But, that's exactly who I want to invite to The Rooftop in Beverly Hills.
I genuinely think that asynchronous communication is one of the prime factors. If we are still talking on the phone, and answering calls, like it was 2008, a third of this would be averted, and in some way I think people would be less performative, and more straight forward.
Another one is a woman I met like a month ago. 10 years older. Attractive, accomplished, divorced, two kids. Lives out of state. Purely off physical attraction we ended up meeting, and actually had a long convo, she's smart, educated. We didn't get that sexual for a variety of typical 'random hookup' reasons, it got late, her friend wouldn't leave us alone in the hotel, whatever, but we crossed that line.
She hits me up and is like I'm coming back this weekend for 2 days. And I was flirting lightly, said something like we can finish that hotel couch make out, and she was like oh I thought we could go for a long walk on the beach, or something like that. Then she hits me back a week later, and is like "well my weekend is all booked, i don't have any time". My girl is staying with me again. Part of me wants to just say I don't believe you. You go to the conference, go to the party, hit me up on your way back to the room. I'm not like a frat boy, who is trying to score, but this isn't some impossible situation. Anyway, the one girl communicates poorly by not saying anything, the other is responsible and responsive, but is saying like nonsensical things.
Another one is a woman I met like a month ago. 10 years older. Attractive, accomplished, divorced, two kids. Lives out of state. Purely off physical attraction we ended up meeting, and actually had a long convo, she's smart, educated. We didn't get that sexual for a variety of typical 'random hookup' reasons, it got late, her friend wouldn't leave us alone in the hotel, whatever, but we crossed that line.
She hits me up and is like I'm coming back this weekend for 2 days. And I was flirting lightly, said something like we can finish that hotel couch make out, and she was like oh I thought we could go for a long walk on the beach, or something like that. Then she hits me back a week later, and is like "well my weekend is all booked, i don't have any time". My girl is staying with me again. Part of me wants to just say I don't believe you. You go to the conference, go to the party, hit me up on your way back to the room. I'm not like a frat boy, who is trying to score, but this isn't some impossible situation. Anyway, the one girl communicates poorly by not saying anything, the other is responsible and responsive, but is saying like nonsensical things.
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
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very uncouth, especially simce you're not a rando..... a simple "can't make it text" could work if she wanted to flop..... oh well... now she meet at the club, backshots, 6am you kicking her out material now...
Aight breh bet
Dont come in here later on some
After a chick do you dirty when you could be in monk mode with it
We are down so bad
im in tears. Like WHAT IS GOING ONNN LMAOOOOO