Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Damn this thread took a turn

Nikkas arguing about race

Nikkas assuming I didn’t pipe shorty good even though we smashed twice in the same day (and no there was no ED or 2 pump chump hahaha)

All I asked was opinions on what you all do if a shorty start switching up pulling back/getting distant.

I didnt assume anything lol
It was just a question

 

[Astroslik]

I didnt assume anything lol
It was just a question

Exactly what i thought, it was a simple question. A lot of high emotion in this thread lately.

 

[Ohene]

Exactly what i thought, it was a simple question. A lot of high emotion in this thread lately.

if everything is going good, i have sex with a girl and then she starts acting weird ima think that the sexual chemistry wasnt poppin. if i know that i dikked her down properly ima assume that she is keeping herself grounded /me at an arms length before things get too serious or that shes a hoe who likes to sample many dikks. either way its fine cause i got what i wanted and it happens to the best of us. on to the next

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Exactly what i thought, it was a simple question. A lot of high emotion in this thread lately.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

Sounds like she isn’t interested in what you want. It happens .

Stuff happens but if she isn’t consistent with follow-up then it’s no need to wonder where you stand. I believe I told this story before but my wife canceled out first meet up and the when we did meet it wasn’t great. I shot my shot one last time and 5 years later…….

If it was difficult at that last attempt I would have moved on.

Yeah you’re right. I shut it down a few hours ago. Shorty didn’t even try to keep it alive

 

[Ohene]

A lot of women may claim that they want a relationship because they think that’s what they’re supposed to want and because they don’t want to come across as a hoe.

Never listen to what they say and never be the first one to claim you want something serious. Even if that’s what you want and what she wants it’s liable to scare her away or think you were you easy to get. unfortunately you have to come across as indifferent and like you’re not putting her under any kind of pressure.

I’ve never gotten into a relationship while making that my intention or goal. I always just met a girl, thought she was cool, spent more time with her and let the feelings develop naturally - especially after seeing she was reciprocating and putting in effort. The focus early on needs to be just having a good time with multiple women on your terms. Over time the one who’s worth something serious will naturally be the last one standing

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

if everything is going good, i have sex with a girl and then she starts acting weird ima think that the sexual chemistry wasnt poppin. if i know that i dikked her down properly ima assume that she is keeping herself grounded /me at an arms length before things get too serious or that shes a hoe who likes to sample many dikks. either way its fine cause i got what i wanted and it happens to the best of us. on to the next

I think if I didn’t pipe her down good enough I wouldn’t have even come in here with the situation cause I’d have the answer to her falling back.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I didnt assume anything lol
It was just a question

Man I don’t have no issues with the question hahaha but to me asking is an assumption that that may be the problem breh. Not a big deal. I was making light of the situation in my post anyway cause at the end of the day shorty either with it or she not.

 

[Ohene]

I think if I didn’t pipe her down good enough I wouldn’t have even come in here with the situation cause I’d have the answer to her falling back.

I feel you

I have a similar story where i didnt smash cause she was on her period but got I head. Week later the chick came back from a MIA trip and asked me for money and after i said nah she dissed me.

Long story that im too lazy to share but the point is that its different these days. Back then a girl giving you neck or fukkin meant something, she was pretty much yours. In this post feminism , empowered, high powered female era though, you and I both know it dont mean shyt. These girls be fukkin recreationally the same way men do. A girl will fukk you tonight and then let some other dude take her out her tmw. If that dude plays his cards right he can fukk too.

Its just the nature of the beast. She is never yours

If she can fukk you and start acting funny it just shows she loose with her p*ssy and not worth taking seriously anyways.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I feel you

I have a similar story where i didnt smash cause she was on her period but got I head. Week later the chick came back from a MIA trip and asked me for money and after i said nah she dissed me.

Long story that im too lazy to share but the point is that its different these days. Back them a girl giving you neck or fukkin met something, she was pretty much yours. In this post feminism , empowered, high powered female era though, you and I both know it dont mean shyt. A girl will fukk you tonight and then let some other dude take her out her tmw. If that dude plays his cards right he can fukk too.

It’s just the nature of the beast. She is never yours

Hell and to your point it used to be that if you laid it down proper made her orgasm and stuff you damn near had to beat her off you.

And in this situations case her communication started fading a few days before we had sex. We had sex twice that same day, she went out of her way unsolicited to say how sore she was the next day. I was like yeah she should be all in but the communication got even worse and ended up flaking twice this last week. Shyt wild cause these chicks play dumb when you notice the drop off and try and gaslight you to think you’re just in your head.

 

[Ohene]

Hell and to your point it used to be that if you laid it down proper made her orgasm and stuff you damn near had to beat her off you.

And in this situations case her communication started fading a few days before we had sex. We had sex twice that same day, she went out of her way unsolicited to say how sore she was the next day. I was like yeah she should be all in but the communication got even worse and ended up flaking twice this last week. Shyt wild cause these chicks play dumb when you notice the drop off and try and gaslight you to think you’re just in your head.

pretty much. shyt ill tell you one story breh

A few months ago some dudes and i rented a boat and invited some shorties. I wanted to back out but couldnt and didnt want my boy to have to eat the money i was supposed to pitch in. Anyway, my boy "K" invited most of em, including these two Zimbabwean chicks we had gone out with before - "T&T". Anyways...after the boat we go back to my homies condo. I head home early and he fukks one of the T's (he had already smashed the other one before actually). He was telling me the next day how he was going at it for hours with her, how it was an amazing session and he had her squirting / orgasming like 10 times and shyt

A week later, he invites me to some games night before we were supposed to head to an afrohouse rave. He is with the shorty and she had taken molly that night. One of his friend's condo was where the games night was and said friend was also on the boat. He is another 6'5 Ghanaian dude (were all Ghanaian). Anyways, he messages me at some point during the night asking me if the girl he smashed was acting kinda weird when he stepped out for a half hour. I told him she seemed veeery friendly and thats when he said she had taken molly lol. Anyways, he told me how he heard she was basically talking to the 6'5 dude and how it seemed like she was trying to fukk him. In fact, i recall her saying she needed a nap because she was too intoxicated I guess and taking a quick nap in the 6'5 dudes bed. Disrespectful.

These women just built diff nowadays lol. The biggest trend in the thread in 2025 for me has been that its simply a different climate now. All the old rules and expectations can be thrown away. Its a free for all/warzone messing with modern women because men havent held them accountable for shyt over the last decade and they are too gassed up. All you can really do is go with the flow and enjoy it while it lasts until the girl really proves that shes serious and worth keeping around.

 

[WIA20XX]

These women just built diff nowadays lol. The

I could have told you this story in 96. Lol. Island upbringing makes a young man aware of the the "diversity" of relationships.

In my experience, they have always been like this. So much old school blues and soul is about this eternal nature of women. I think the difference today is that so many of us can share these stories with each other, and have cosigns from Brothers all over the globe.

I mean there's a reason that a lot of the code is the same. No matter who you talk to. We're all dealing with the same overall problem, and that we're trying to pull the best, and then keep the best for ourselves. She's always had her own motives.

I do wonder if the political parties could run on DNA testing at birth if that would be a salient issue for any of them.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

pretty much. shyt ill tell you one story breh

A few months ago some dudes and i rented a boat and invited some shorties. I wanted to back out but couldnt and didnt want my boy to have to eat the money i was supposed to pitch in. Anyway, my boy "K" invited most of em, including these two Zimbabwean chicks we had gone out with before - "T&T". Anyways...after the boat we go back to my homies condo. I head home early and he fukks one of the T's (he had already smashed the other one before actually). He was telling me the next day how he was going at it for hours with her, how it was an amazing session and he had her squirting / orgasming like 10 times and shyt

A week later, he invites me to some games night before we were supposed to head to an afrohouse rave. He is with the shorty and she had taken molly that night. One of his friend's condo was where the games night was and said friend was also on the boat. He is another 6'5 Ghanaian dude (were all Ghanaian). Anyways, he messages me at some point during the night asking me if the girl he smashed was acting kinda weird when he stepped out for a half hour. I told him she seemed veeery friendly and thats when he said she had taken molly lol. Anyways, he told me how he heard she was basically talking to the 6'5 dude and how it seemed like she was trying to fukk him. In fact, i recall her saying she needed a nap because she was too intoxicated I guess and taking a quick nap in the 6'5 dudes bed. Disrespectful.

These women just built diff nowadays lol. The biggest them in the thread in 2025 for me has been that its simply a different climate now. All the old rules and expectations can be thrown away. Its a free for all/warzone messing with modern women because men havent held them accountable for shyt over the last decade and they are too gassed up. All you can really do is go with the flow and enjoy it while it lasts until the girl really proves that shes serious and worth keeping around.

Challe...... we in the same city...... You need to put me on to where I could find these....... the way I've been dying to find some afrohouse raves.... here some Black Coffee bumping on the speakers.....

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

I think the difference today is that so many of us can share these stories with each other, and have cosigns from Brothers all over the globe.

Not only that but women have exposed themselves as well. Over the last 10-15 yrs women have not been shy about how they’re moving and in fact has doubled down on the behavior. It’s a race to the bottom. I hear your point about 96’ but I feel like social media and technology changed the game to make women’s behavior even worse.

 

[Ohene]

Challe...... we in the same city...... You need to put me on to where I could find these....... the way I've been dying to find some afrohouse raves.... here some Black Coffee bumping on the speakers.....

it was somewhat north of the stockyards i think, at some random warehouse lol.

edit: It was this one