Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

I could have told you this story in 96. Lol. Island upbringing makes a young man aware of the the "diversity" of relationships.

In my experience, they have always been like this. So much old school blues and soul is about this eternal nature of women. I think the difference today is that so many of us can share these stories with each other, and have cosigns from Brothers all over the globe.

I mean there's a reason that a lot of the code is the same. No matter who you talk to. We're all dealing with the same overall problem, and that we're trying to pull the best, and then keep the best for ourselves. She's always had her own motives.

I do wonder if the political parties could run on DNA testing at birth if that would be a salient issue for any of them.

Always has existed, just in different forms fitted to that time as you say....... but the major changes, can't even really call them "chamges" per se, better would probably be "progression", is that the sociatel controls and mechanisms that kept them "in place" have been gradually lifted. Every successive generation of women have all been given as overarching advice from the previous generarion to them, to "seek the freedom that we did not have". That goes from in the workplace, rights, and a part of that is sexual freedoms. The mechanisms of shame, ostracization, financial dependemcy have been removed. The toothpaste is out the tube and not going back in. The idea of "traditional woman" amd her "role" is not coming back. We have to adapt to it. As mentioned before it is now a matter of letting the tides go where they may..........

Is it conducive to a well structured society and progress? ... I'm not sure... but the pendulum will have to swing all the way to the extreme before it can come back and reset if you will. We are at the moment in the midst of still going towards that extreme...... Our Dionysian desires are what are ruling at the moment....

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

it was somewhat north of the stockyards i think, at some random warehouse lol.

edit: It was this one

Ahhh..... I know about that DJ Collective.... Im surprised they got McCormack, that is a known rave spot and they be on some , some of the time. I have seen some of their stuff. But simce I don't have IG, I am not up to date. I also don't check Resident Advisor that often..... I suppose when it happens it happens...

 

[Ohene]

Always has existed, just in different forms fitted to that time as you say....... but the major changes, can't even really call them "chamges" per se, better would probably be "progression", is that the sociatel controls and mechanisms that kept them "in place" have been gradually lifted. Every successive generation of women have all been given as overarching advice from the previous generarion to them, to "seek the freedom that we did not have". That goes from in the workplace, rights, and a part of that is sexual freedoms. The mechanisms of shame, ostracization, financial dependemcy have been removed. The toothpaste is out the tube and not going back in. The idea of "traditional woman" amd her "role" is not coming back. We have to adapt to it. As mentioned before it is now a matter of letting the tides go where they may..........

Is it conducive to a well structured society and progress? ... I'm not sure... but the pendulum will have to swing all the way to the extreme before it can come back and reset if you will. We are at the moment in the midst of still going towards that extreme...... Our Dionysian desires are what are ruling at the moment....

bold is what it comes down to. that combined with having a perpetual pipeline of dudes to monkey branch onto via IG, dating apps etc

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

bold is what it comes down to. that combined with having a perpetual pipeline of dudes to monkey branch onto via IG, dating apps etc

Yup. Before if a girl did all that you mention they would be called all sorts of names for having "escort" behaviour. Now?.... that shyt is like a badge of honour. Being "bad bytch", having "X amount of nikkas on my list doing what I say.".........spooky times..

 

[Ohene]

i think were at a pivotal or inflection point. either it continues to swing left and gets crazy to the point where everyone is through with the idea of marriage, family etc. and society just becomes more hedonistic or flexible in nature; or, it stops here as men start to see things for what they are and start to withdraw which causes women to slowly act right as they realize feminism has duped them and become desperate to have children and build their own families. men will have to stand their ground though and i dont see that happening any time soon.

the younger cats though, ages 18 and below seem to not really give a fukk about these hoes so theres hope. but then theres a lot of them for whom tricking and shyt is normalized. between this, AI, gene therapy, robotics and some other shyt itll be interesting to see how society looks in 25 years tbh

 

[MikelArteta]

i think were at a pivotal or inflection point. either it continues to swing left and gets crazy to the point where everyone is through with the idea of marriage, family etc. and society just becomes more hedonistic or flexible in nature; or, it stops here as men start to see things for what they are and start to withdraw which causes women to slowly act right as they realize feminism has duped them and become desperate to have children and build their own families. men will have to stand their ground though and i dont see that happening any time soon.

the younger cats though, ages 18 and below seem to not really give a fukk about these hoes so theres hope. but then theres a lot of them for whom tricking and shyt is normalized. between this, AI, gene therapy, robotics and some other shyt itll be interesting to see how society looks in 25 years tbh

porn , gambling, videogames

 

[Ohene]

porn , gambling, videogames

well put my friend . all three im gonna discuss in my book. you left out drugs too.
lemme edit my post

"the younger cats though, ages 18 and below seem to not really give a fukk about these hoes so theres hope. but then theres a lot of them for whom tricking and shyt is normalized. between porn/onlyfans, tiktok, legalized gambling, legalized drugs, the mental health issues, this, AI, gene therapy, robotics and some other shyt itll be interesting to see how society looks in 25 years tbh"

 

[MikelArteta]

well put my friend . all three im gonna discuss in my book. you left out drugs too.
lemme edit my post

"the younger cats though, ages 18 and below seem to not really give a fukk about these hoes so theres hope. but then theres a lot of them for whom tricking and shyt is normalized. between porn, tiktok, legalized gambling, legalized drugs, the mental health issues, this, AI, gene therapy, robotics and some other shyt itll be interesting to see how society looks in 25 years tbh"

Yup. I remember reading how most men under 30 in the west are single, but get this majority of those single men are not even participating in the game.

Battlefield 6, fan duel, passport

 

[cyndaquil]

Yo I need your advice

I matched with my old coworker on hinge last month, we used to work together before Covid for like 2 years. She was in relationship back then but definitely showed signs that she liked me. Anyways, we matched and after few catch ups on how we been, I told her let’s grab something to eat and catch up in person.

Ended up meeting up and grabbing a dinner together, then chilled in the park afterwards. Continued to text afterwards for 2 days, I mentioned we should go eat again somewhere, and she said sounds like a plan. Anyways after talking for 2 days after meeting up, she suddenly didn’t reply. I hit her up again 2 days later and she apologized, said she was very busy and tired. She works as a nurse at urgent care. We continue to talk for like 2 days and then again she went quiet. The last text I sent didn’t really need a reply, but I thought she would still say something next day or start new convo. It’s been a week and a half since we spoke, and I’m not sure what to do. I don’t mind hitting her up again but at the same time I feel like she would’ve texted me if she was really interested or is she waiting for me to make the move?

Not sure how to proceed, when we met up she looked like she was interested in me, plus she came down to the city to meet up, I feel like a person that’s not interested wouldn’t do that since she lives more than an hour away.

She lost interest bro gonna have to move on. Women are fickle like that. She might show interest in you and be the first to initiate but a few things can happen:
She wanted to fukk you didnt make a move how she wanted/expected
She wanted to pursue a relationship you made it clear you just wanted to fukk
She went on the date messaged you a bit more realized you not exactly what she looking for but keeping you on the side.
Matched with somebody else on hinge and talking to them instead

Either way none of these things are your fault or in your control. I know how you feel tho very easy to get wrapped up in a chick if she checks all your boxes (aka your type) but gotta maintain frame and dignity. She may ne a tired, busy, urgent care nurse but I've dated nurses. They make time for dudes they are interested in like everyone else. You think a response in 2 days is OK? Maybe once in a while cuz some shyt happened and folks need space but more than that?

Nah fukk that let her go. Messaging her still in her eyes is like when that snaggertoothed chick on tinder with the big titties you matched with cuz you were horny and seen them titties messages you after you got your nut somewhere else. You just look at it and ignore it but you don't unmatch cuz you never know when you might get horny again and it's an easy pull. Don't be her snaggertoothed chick with big titties breh lol

 

[cyndaquil]

well put my friend . all three im gonna discuss in my book. you left out drugs too.
lemme edit my post

"the younger cats though, ages 18 and below seem to not really give a fukk about these hoes so theres hope. but then theres a lot of them for whom tricking and shyt is normalized. between porn/onlyfans, tiktok, legalized gambling, legalized drugs, the mental health issues, this, AI, gene therapy, robotics and some other shyt itll be interesting to see how society looks in 25 years tbh"

Part of it is because the under 18 folks have grown up with basically sexual shyt everywhere. They are so used to it. I remember we had to sneak and find a DVD or tv late night to see titties. Then figuring out how to watch porn on the psp later was a game changer lol. Kids nowadays can pop up on ig or youtube and see whores dressed in scantily clad clothing with bodies we never imagined could exist outside of a video game or cartoon. All of em selling onlyfans or some other thing. It's not good because either you become essentially MGTOW early or a trick early. Neither of which is healthy at all for s functioning society

 

[cyndaquil]

maybe its an advertisement
if a nikka like MBJ is using a dating app, men really are pathetic nowadays

For him it's convenience. Just like it should be for everyone else. The problem is folks get on the apps and have unrealistic standards and expectations and choice fatigue and "maybe there's someone better" syndrome. That MBJ is the someone better these hoes be looking for
And I know even then there's some chicks who match with him they still got unrealistic standards.
Yall gotta remember perception is a lot of this. Michael B Jordan is not new to any of this fame shyt. But women were not checking for him like that until Creed. In high school he was getting called corny by chicks. Dude's face has not changed since then til now. Its the perception around him. If he wasn't famous and he wasn't famous he'd face some resistance tryna date some these birds too. I say all that to say dont take things too personal just because someone is unable to properly appraise your value does not mean you're ugly, corny, your game is bad etc. At the end of the day it's their loss.

 

[cyndaquil]

for sure. thing is if youre that dude, you shouldnt even care
like i dont care how attractive lori harvey is. theres tons of attractive women
but were human

Thing is we do it to ourselves even thbought we know better. The body is bytch with how much a chick being your type can get you off your ps and qs. Like legit overthinking shyt or act recklessly. That's why I do not get surprised anymore with how these athletes and big time stars come into some money and fame and start fukkin it up about some p*ssy. Chick be on yo mind she be on yo mind for real. Crazy part is you be knowing you're acting outta character too gotta calm yourself and them hormones down. Not everybody got self awareness like that. The Trojan war was started over some p*ssy. Cuz dudes was irrational just like that. All the women in the nation but nah Paris had to have Helen. Everybody looks back and is like "he should've let that hoe go, he knew it would cause a whole ass war" but nope straight acting outta character

 

[cyndaquil]

The fact that the man who was the leader of the free world, has the launch codee, and at the snap of a finger could take out any individual in a matter of minutes is seen to lack "edge" shows you there is no satisfying them in the end. There will always be "something" ....

Because here's the thing. A lot of ambitious women want ambitious men who are prospering so they can polevault themselves further to where they want to go. When that doesnt happen they get resentful. They try to undermine the man because inside they are secretly envious of them. Their dreams didnt come true but their husband's did. Even if they are successful they dont wanna be number 2 they want the spotlight. But if it was the other way around and their husband was doing this to them they'd file for divorce

Im telling yall check your woman before you commit to her. Is he grateful in general? Not just for you but for life. Eventually the honeymoon shyt will wear off and if she is not grateful she will take you for granted just like everything else in her life.

 

[cyndaquil]

I think if I didn’t pipe her down good enough I wouldn’t have even come in here with the situation cause I’d have the answer to her falling back.

Not true. Brehs be legit out here thinking their sex game is immaculate meanwhile the chick laid up in bed telling me how bad of a fukk her last dude was and why she left. Not saying that's you but we cant assume you'd know if it was.

 

[cyndaquil]

I feel you

I have a similar story where i didnt smash cause she was on her period but got I head. Week later the chick came back from a MIA trip and asked me for money and after i said nah she dissed me.

Long story that im too lazy to share but the point is that its different these days. Back then a girl giving you neck or fukkin meant something, she was pretty much yours. In this post feminism , empowered, high powered female era though, you and I both know it dont mean shyt. These girls be fukkin recreationally the same way men do. A girl will fukk you tonight and then let some other dude take her out her tmw. If that dude plays his cards right he can fukk too.

Its just the nature of the beast. She is never yours

If she can fukk you and start acting funny it just shows she loose with her p*ssy and not worth taking seriously anyways.

Had a chick meet some dude at a country club dinner then let me come to the crib and pipe after.
Honestly every woman is different but what you are describing sir is a hoe
These days the hoes blend in. But once you realize she a hoe let her be a hoe. The game so fukked up now that the hoes think they got some juice. She taken 20 dikks this year but wanna act like she high value
Delusional. As usual the game aint changed. The players just different. There's always a simp that will wife up the hoe. We will see in 20 years the consequences of hoeing being envogue. Just enjoy the easy nuts until you find your person amongst the sea of hoes lol